Comments on: How To Become Immune To Narcissists https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-become-immune-to-narcissists/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Thu, 15 Sep 2022 00:28:48 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-become-immune-to-narcissists/#comment-1273806 Thu, 15 Sep 2022 00:28:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11957#comment-1273806 In reply to Ihaka huata.

Hi Ihaka,

so much love to you!

Sending you big hugs, love, healing and breakthroughs.

You have got this and we have got you!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Ihaka huata https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-become-immune-to-narcissists/#comment-1273784 Wed, 14 Sep 2022 09:33:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11957#comment-1273784 Man lm lost for words here need to rewire my engine systems the truth smacks you right in the heart of the matter the researching of narcissism only makes you aware of it no healing takes place in that arena.with so many so called experts out there it’s easy to get sidetracked . love you Mel and team of thrivers I hope to be a thriver one day and for real you have given me pure hope your like the Jedi knights of the universe

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-become-immune-to-narcissists/#comment-1273615 Fri, 09 Sep 2022 04:37:46 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11957#comment-1273615 In reply to AndyS.

Hi AndyS,

What you are experiencing is one of the most stressful aspects of N-abuse, and my heart goes out to you.

Are you in the NARP member’s Forum? http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

With what you are dealing with this is where you can have the support and coaching you need through this journey.

That is the best way I and the team can support you.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-become-immune-to-narcissists/#comment-1273614 Fri, 09 Sep 2022 04:33:55 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11957#comment-1273614 In reply to Christine.

Hi Christine,

I’m so pleased that this has helped you!

Sending you healing and blessings.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Warren https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-become-immune-to-narcissists/#comment-1273613 Fri, 09 Sep 2022 04:04:37 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11957#comment-1273613 In reply to Richard.

Hi Richard,……..When I read yuor comment, warning lights started to go off. Just the other day, I received an text from a narcissit that ripped me off for money years ago. It simply read, “I paid you the money.”
The Narc deep down knows the truth after all this time. He tried to stealthly “project “his false innocence back on to me……..to make me take the guilt and bad feelings that go with it.
That is how evil NARCS are. Melanie has taught us this and she is so right on.
Thanks to being a Thriver for many years, this never penetrated my “protective shield.” It took me aback for a few minutes…….then NARP stepped up ant that was it.
What I am saying to you today Richard, is really be careful when dealing with NARCS and those who associate with them. They hold grudges and remember everything for years. They know when you are at your weakest point. That is when they attack
They tried to take revenge on me. NARP was right there as always.

]]> By: AndyS https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-become-immune-to-narcissists/#comment-1273586 Thu, 08 Sep 2022 12:45:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11957#comment-1273586 I began my NARP healing journey in January of 2018 and made great strides but recently the custody battle I’ve been fighting for my kids has accelerated with a custody evaluation and opened me up for further abuse by my ex wife. She uses my love for my boys as a weapon against me. It has been the biggest block for me because it is tying me to the need to win and for justice in module 5 and fear of what she will do next in module 8. If not for the kids I would have detached 100% from her and cut off all contact.
How do I manage module 5 and module 8 while still being present to protect my kids and fight to remain in their lives?

]]> By: Lia https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-become-immune-to-narcissists/#comment-1273583 Thu, 08 Sep 2022 09:01:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11957#comment-1273583 And what do you do when you have no money left to go to court because you already have been paying your super expensive lawyer for two years before the trial even started and now the narcissist is making you an offer which obviously doesn’t reflect what you would receive by law but you could take it and just be over with it and detach from him and be free instead of fighting for more years and maybe get nothing in the end! He even gives me full custody! I know negotiating with narcs is not recommended but he is abroad he can disappear tomorrow court will have cero power over him he won’t even show up for the trial so I will do it all for nothing

]]> By: Christine https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-become-immune-to-narcissists/#comment-1273579 Thu, 08 Sep 2022 06:52:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11957#comment-1273579 Hi Melanie,
Your video on how to become immune to narcissists has helped to give me a better understanding of how to heal from narcissistic abuse and trauma. I’m very intrigued to find out more in applying this positive reinforcement of inner growth and healing everyday.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-become-immune-to-narcissists/#comment-1273578 Thu, 08 Sep 2022 06:05:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11957#comment-1273578 In reply to Peter.

Hi Peter,

I adore your analogy of homeopathy!

It’s very true! So true and so apt.

I love reading your posts Peter and thank you as always!

Much Love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

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