Comments on: How To Break The Narcissist’s Conditioning – Part 2 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-narcissists-conditioning-part-2/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 02 Jan 2019 21:49:34 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-narcissists-conditioning-part-2/#comment-1124751 Wed, 02 Jan 2019 21:49:34 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5700#comment-1124751 In reply to Jon.

Hi Jon,

You are absolutely right. The healing is identical. It is all about releasing and thus resolving the effects of previous trauma, which then reinstated our True Self.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•β€οΈ

]]> By: Jon https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-narcissists-conditioning-part-2/#comment-1124725 Wed, 02 Jan 2019 20:20:41 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5700#comment-1124725 I am recovering narcicist.
I am also a narcicist survivor.

I had danced the dance with my codependant wife. Who also is a narcicist survivor.

Both if us have extreme narcicist mothers. Mine off the charts!

This transformational process is very welcome.
I have been the abuser to my wife.
I have great desire to change. Acceptance of my role
And actions. I see the coping mechanisms that I created from my past trauma and my own choices.

I feel I can heal the narcicistic qualities by doing to same work I have to do as the abused?

Thank you.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-narcissists-conditioning-part-2/#comment-1097879 Fri, 21 Sep 2018 06:17:29 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5700#comment-1097879 In reply to Joseph Huth.

Awww Joseph,

You are so welcome.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•β€οΈ

]]> By: Joseph Huth https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-narcissists-conditioning-part-2/#comment-1097783 Thu, 20 Sep 2018 16:03:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5700#comment-1097783 Brilliant Melanie. Brilliant. My journey has begun. Thank you for being my guide. I am eternally grateful.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-narcissists-conditioning-part-2/#comment-1094209 Sat, 11 Aug 2018 01:22:08 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5700#comment-1094209 In reply to Tina.

Awww Tina,

I am so pleased that helped.

Much love to you!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•β€οΈ

]]> By: Tina https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-narcissists-conditioning-part-2/#comment-1094185 Fri, 10 Aug 2018 17:01:33 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5700#comment-1094185 Thank you so much, for your episodes and articles, for the first time after all these years of dealing with a narc and a sociopath parent i understood what speaking up means. I had never realized that such a feeling of freedom exists, not that I will be able to speak up to them openly, there are always nasty consequences, but at 43 yrs of age its the first time i actually felt that feeling of what it is to be able to speak up. Just because your episode helped me connect to some part of me. Thank you so much.

]]> By: Malliry https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-narcissists-conditioning-part-2/#comment-1091828 Thu, 26 Jul 2018 23:34:05 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5700#comment-1091828 I keep trying to write one cohesive message. But it keeps getting deleted. Just know they were calling to ask if the people I am staying with would do anything if something happened to me. Unfortunately they just don’t know how. And he knows that.

]]> By: Malliry https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-narcissists-conditioning-part-2/#comment-1091813 Thu, 26 Jul 2018 23:05:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5700#comment-1091813 I have been told I am the most disgusting human being in the world and I will finally get what is coming to me.

I have been sent to a place where he told me he would send me in a box (coffin)

]]> By: Malliry https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-narcissists-conditioning-part-2/#comment-1091806 Thu, 26 Jul 2018 22:53:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5700#comment-1091806 What do you do when the authorities are protecting your rapist and trying to make it look like it was your fault?

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