Thank you Mel!

I will check out the link, it feels really good. I think there is a wounded part of me that feels I do not deserve financial independence for some reason. Want to figure this out and be free!

I had a dream last night that my “ex” came into the house as if he lived here again and I did not have the courage to challenge him. That dream leaves me feeling that I might never be able to have a healthy relationship with him because of our sad history together, and that no matter how much healing I do or how good I feel away from him I might still be triggered around him. Is this why you say one must simply move on? That’s OK with me. What matters is that my kids and I are safe. I’d rather love myself alone than be really miserable with him (or anyone else). Plus, when I am alone I have more time to play piano and harp 🙂

Blessings-

Val

Ok fantastic, now you are getting to the truth of the matter, what the blocks are and the beleifs that you need to shift. Ok I would use the goal setting Module of NARP and start setting up some goals of Who You Really Are, so that you can claim these truths, of being able to see yourself how your soul really does.

You need to be a 100% Source of validation, love and acceptance to yourself…that is foundational – because energetically there is ‘no outside’…we can never receive from life and others what we are not connected to receiving from our own inner being…

So the goal of ‘I am fully connected to the love, validation and acceptance of my inner self’ is an important goal to set, and then clear all resistance to this – that will make a huge difference…

It is really important to work on the foundations before trying to create ‘more’…

It will take some effort, but look at the wasted time, pain and heartache of life trying to create wellbeing and love from a place of faulty inner beliefs – I think the effort is TOTALLY the right choice 🙂

And yes continue with forgiveness work too…

Mel xo

Many blessing to you.

Thank you

It’s really important to know that it is very usual to have been making great progress, and then ‘something’ big comes up that feels painful…

This is so what happens with belief systems, we work hard at clearing painful ones, and we are going deeper and deeper, and all is going great and then BANG this ‘impasse’ comes.

What you need to know is this is NOT an impasse – it is simply a big and heavy negative belief that has enough ‘space’ to show up consciously – hence the negative emotion you are feeling.

All you need to do Angela is KNOW THIS – and KNOW that when you take this heavy, painful and stuck emotion to the QF Healing space, drop into it and ask ‘what is this about’ and start shifting it, you will break through to the next level – even better than the one before this ‘impasse’ arrived.

The reason for why it is so painful and you have spiralled into ‘feeling sorry for yourself’ is because you have been trying to deal with this belief system (screaming out emotionally for your attention)through your logical mind – rather than taking it to the healing space and shifting it with the deep inner healing processes.

Truly, you can get excited about this – because here is a fantastic opportunity to shift this painful belief and rise up to your next level of freedom, but you need to fully embrace it and go within to do this…

Once you do, you will know exactly what I mean, and how important it is to train ourselves out of taking emotion pain into our minds – which only allows our ego to belt us around – or to just realise what is really going on – which FIRMLY IS that another defunct belief systems can get shifted and healed.

And this is what changes a life of pain toward one of ‘heaven on earth’…

I hope this helps.

Mel xo

sincerely, A.