Comments on: How To Deal With Narcissistic Neighbours

By: Jason Roberts

Jason Roberts — Fri, 10 May 2024 14:53:11 +0000

So you’re saying that parking across a neighbour’s drive is okay and that complaining about it to the perpetrator is narcissistic?

Parking across a neighbour’s drive is a literal boundary violation

You have that example completely backwards…

By: Mr Jacques Schoeman

Mr Jacques Schoeman — Sun, 25 Jun 2023 10:32:09 +0000

Living with a husband & wife narcissist tag-team and share a common wall between property.
They have:
1. used a child to throw do poo over fence
2. banged on walls and dropped things during the early hours of morning (4 years now)
3.had a fan running for 2 months non-stop until the council sent a letter, stopped that day
4.fitted a petflap/pet door noisy all night and morning, sounds like they kick it and has been replaced with a more noisy one
5.got a new puppy started leaving it inside to bark and cry
6.same puppy now like a jack-in-the-box with petflap
7.garden littered with dog-poo, we BBQ alot
and smell is really strong
8.children were only let out when we went out
9.children would hang over fence and stare
10.children have thrown 20-30 objects over fence never ask for them back
11. Verbal assaults from children, husband & wife
12.obscene gestures from extended family
13.threats of injury to myself
14. taking bins out between 5&6 am to wake us
15. parking cars as close as possible to ours
16. walking close to our cars with a big bunch of keys and outstretched arms
17. storage of dog poo adjacent to where we would sit and eat in garden
18. Cloned number plates, cut a wheel clamp placed by authorities and hadn’t taxed or safety checked a vehicle since 2018
19. husband has shown son how to swop number plates over

This has been hell on earth these people try to steal our joy as they are soulless.

Mother has destroyed these children and turned them into monsters. The little baby is often left to cry and cry and you can hear the fake comforting when she hears someone nearby.

We have involved the authorities and attribute the vindictiveness to not putting up with the abuse. Their landlord has been an enabling force as he has not been firm with these psychopaths.

We fight on!!!

By: Adriana

Adriana — Fri, 25 Feb 2022 15:51:09 +0000

I am sorry, but I have to disagree.
Our neigbour is the one visiting the police station almost every week complaining about some made up nonsense. We do not have any “body corporate”, we do not have any chance to contact her through email. If we wrote something, she would laugh it off. There is noone whom we can complain to. We are in a constant persecution, that is exactly what happened to you. Simply there is no authority we can complain to. She is constantly waiting for us to move house…., but we have lived more than 40 years and she is the newcomer. She intentionally put some tatters with a poor text that the imaginary person wanted to buy our house. She literally wants to chase us out. My parents got sick from this situation. Of course, her and her family are perfectly healthy. Simply I cannot find any solution how to make HER move to hell (sorry, but this is a she-devil)

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By: She

She — Tue, 15 Jun 2021 15:57:13 +0000

What if she turns the neighbours into flying monkeys?She was once, ‘friend’ When I first ended the friendship due to her manilulative waysI had people knocking onmy door telling me how badly I had treatsd her… or they just ignred me. 10 years on and she is, still getting people ‘on her side’ i try to just carry on but at times I am really affected by this..

By: Nicole Horsburgh

Nicole Horsburgh — Fri, 16 Apr 2021 16:18:32 +0000

Dear Melanie,
Your video was very interesting and very similiar to mine. Unfortunately however, my narcissitic neighbour has only got stronger and simply gets worse even if it seems impossible. Everyday (for the last 4 years) and every hour she continues. I have paid €25,000.00 in the last year for a lawyer where nothing has been resolved. Her lawyer no longer knows what to do with her and her husband who is also a victim but also does what she says to do: running over everything in the garden with the car, trying to knock my son over with the car, he ran over and killed his own cat two weeks ago which was luckily filmed. She (the narcissist) acted as nothing had happened and hid in the house and her husband drove off as fast as he could!!!. This will be the third cat killed so far. My marriage is breaking down, we not able to sell the house because everyone know what’s she’s like. All the other neighbours just try to ignore us and them. I’m British living in Italy and in a small mountain town, therefore, the people think us foreign people are strange and bad people….therefore, they stay away from us or look at us in a bad way. We don’t leave the house unless we have to and then watch them circulating around the house measuring things, kicking stones, accussing us of whatever. We’ve been waiting a year for her court case to take place but due to the corona viurs, everything has been suspended. She accussed me of calling her “a handicap” which I didn’t. She’s asked for €50,000.00 compensation because that what she does. The house they actually live in was taken in the same way. The old lady finished in a mental home with a hefty fine that she couldn’t pay. Therefore, my neighbour’s lawyer exchanged the fines for the house and this is what they are trying to do with us too. As you said, narcissists go to the authorities and I’ve had ALL of them out issuing me with complaints and fines. I basically cry when I see them at the door now. Luckily and obviously they are all false but we are waiting for the court trail to see what happens. It would be so perfect if they sold the house and went away but I’m sure they won’t, also because, her father in law lives next door 🙁 To be quite honest, I can’t see an end to it all. Thanks for your kind patience for reading all this. Hugs

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 03 Feb 2021 10:33:47 +0000

In reply to Jo.

Hi Jo,

truly … this is most possibly about your boundaries.

My advice to you would be to press charges and get arrested anyone who assaults you physically.

When you are no longer fearful and fully stand up for your rights, in your power then these people crumble.

They are bullies.

Sending you strength and courage

🙏💕💚

By: Jo

Jo — Wed, 03 Feb 2021 08:20:48 +0000

My neighbour narc is not interested in listening to reason, for one year I gave him no energy by ignoring the vandalising he was doing to my plants, but because he was getting no response he got more and more brazen, which resulted in him attacking me physically; I reported it to the police but didn’t want press charges because I was afraid it would set him off even more; I’m working on healing my inner world, can you suggest how I can stay safe and clear of him?
Thanks
J

By: 👁👁👁👁

👁👁👁👁 — Sun, 13 Dec 2020 19:47:57 +0000

The narc excuse for their rubbish, violent and abusive behaviors “growth should be possible for all of us.”