Narcissistic abuse often follows a repetitive pattern of behavior from the narcissist toward their targets. The cycle is meant to help the narcissist build connection and devotion, and to then use that in order to control their victims. 

Every narcissist, as they don’t change, goes from victim to victim, causing the damage to lives with no remorse and has no fear of anyone knowimg the truth about them because nobody tells their truth about what the abuse they endured. Why is that? Why is the abuser protected and not the victim? Why shouldn’t people know who they are, what they are capable of and what a person has gone thru by the intentional deceit from the narcissistic?

The narcissist knows dam well what they are doing, what tatics to use, what to say and use to get sympathy, how to fake their lives and manipulate people into thinking they are loved. They choose to abuse their victims and they choose how they do it. They use what works from victim to victim. Now tell me they don’t know what they are doing.

Why are we allowing them to continue to abuse and damage others? When one speaks the truth about the abuse, when they share what they endured would hold the narcissistic accountable, would warn others of what they are capable of doing and would be seen and known for what they have intentionally done to another human being.

Victims are shamed enough, why isn’t the narcissist? Victims live with the consequences of the narcissistic, shouldn’t it be the narcissists consequences for their deceitful words and actions?

Because of the ways Victims are told how to deal with what they endured, our society has grown with narcissism. It will continue to grow without the acknowledgment of it even happening.

Sharing is caring, isn’t that what they say? Sharing, telling or showing is not revenge. If it could prevent one person from the hurt and pain, the abuse and the mental anguish, than one is better than none.

Narcissist continue their patterns because they are not held accountable. What is the fear of the wrath of a narcissistic? They already have done the damage by the choices they made. What, they can spread more lies about you but anyone can spread a lie. They can cheat with another, but they already have been cheating. They can make life more miserable, if your at this point hasn’t life been miserable already.

Narcissist have names but we refer to them at Narcs. Why are we not referring them to who they are? Victims of the abuse can post anonymously to get advise and help from others online, Facebook, YouTube. As I have read many, many stories of abuse, they are just referred to a narc.

It’s time-

Facebook has pages where you can post about a person’s red flags, the abuse they have bestowed, pictures of them, and what to warn others about the person.
Narcissist need to be held accountable, people need to be informed about them and what they deliberately do to others for their satisfaction and/or ego.

Where’s the fear? Kids find out, they already see and hear it in the household. Family finds out, as they should already know but if they don’t mothers, fathers should know who they raised. Brothers and sisters should know what their siblings do to their men and women. Abuse is abuse, with all levels of severity. A narcissist is a narcissist, they chose the level of severity.

Narcissist will continue with the abuse from one victim to the next. If there are known, it could prevent another victim from the abuse.

I know that what I endured for 6 years, I would not bestow upon an enemy. So why wouldn’t I help a stranger from the same.

It’s Time- to stop protecting the narcissist. We need to protect others from the same narcissist that already abused you and moved on to the next supply.

KARMA IS NOT REALITY. KARMA IS NOT A CONSEQUENCE.

Narcissist don’t have consequences, they just move onto their next victim as they play the victim.

It’s Time the Narcissist is known.

Hi this is Joe. I would just be honest and open about everything. Do you treat guys that yiu date good? What about your prior ex?

I was married to a narsisist I went through pure hell in every way humanly possible.
Idivorsed him in 1996.
Iv been suffering ptsd ever since iv not been able to move on in my life been on my own ever since. can’t trust people now shirley

Same. I left a comment on this thread how i did it. I’m tired of reading article after article saying you cant expose a narcissist

Any “codependent” that does something or creates something “for the narcissist” is a narcissist pretending to be Bonnie to their Clyde or Farrah to their Ryan. It just ain’t the facts and embarrassingly stupid and immature anyway. How does a narc get someone?Try to make them one too and trashed enough to hopelessly be their equal.