Comments on: How To Find Closure When A Narcissist Discards You

By: Bee Wholly

Bee Wholly — Mon, 28 Aug 2023 06:35:43 +0000

I resonate so deeply with the topic of this blog post. Narcissistic Heartbreak Recovery is a journey that's often misunderstood by those who haven't experienced it. It takes immense courage to rebuild our self-empowerment and self-worth from the ground up. Your words truly capture the essence of this process and provide a guiding light for those of us who are on a similar path. Thank you for sharing your insights and personal experiences – they make us feel less alone and more empowered.

By: Anna

Anna — Mon, 29 Aug 2022 14:58:58 +0000

Dear Mrs Evans, it’s the first time I read you, please, sorry for typing mistakes. I want to tell you thank you so much, thank to understand really, thank you so much from my heart. Thanks to describe the pain, the deep disbelief to be left from a narcisist, after many years I gave him all my love and undestanding. I left me again and now henmakes me ghosting, nobody can undestand psychological violence that he made me. But I’m trying to make me strong, I hope, even if I would tell him what pain caused me more times, even if I never deserved it, I told him, but he didn’t understand. So this time he left me and I’m trying to tell nothing. Thank you, Mrs Evans. Sincerely God bless you.

By: Anna

Anna — Mon, 29 Aug 2022 14:38:56 +0000

Dear Mrs Evans, it’s the furts time I read you. I want to tell you thank you so much, thank to understand really, thank you so much. Thanks to describe the pain, the deep disbelief to be left from a narcisist, after many yearbI gave him all my love and undestanding. I left me again and now I makes me ghosting, nobody can undestand psychological violence that I made. But Im trying to make me strong, I hope, I woukt go tell him what pain caused me, even if I never deserved it, I told you ore times, but he didn’t understand. So this time I left me and I’m trying to tell nothing. Thank you, Mrs Evans. Sincerely God bless you.

By: Matt

Matt — Sun, 27 Mar 2022 13:32:42 +0000

Thank you so much Melanie you are saving my life iv been following you for about a year and a half now and it’s all finally getting through to me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.🙂🙂🙂

By: Mary Lamb

Mary Lamb — Wed, 23 Mar 2022 15:37:45 +0000

My narcissist partner discarded my after 21years when I was going though hell. My beloved 19 year old cat had just died, I had just had an operation that had resulted in an infection, my mum had developed severe dementia and we had a week to find somewhere for her and my best friend was dying of sepsis. I as you can imagine was suffering from acute anxiety. He drew it out and kept telling me he was staying one day and leaving the next. He told me that he left because he didn’t want to deal with my shit. The day he left he grinned and told me how happy and excited he was. I had no family and he’d seen to it that I had almost no friends. I thought I was going to die and then was disappointed that I didn’t. I cannot express how I felt and I wish no one else ever had to go though that. However with the help of Melanie I began to heal, even though he and I still had some shared responsibilities. Unfortunately, after 2 years my rented house became uninhabitable and I had nowhere to go. I was forced to move in with him in the small house we still owned together. Because of covid I’m still here 2 years later sleeping in the corner of the dining room and he is still trying to abuse, belittle, blame and shame me. Every time I stand my ground he runs off abroad and uses the abandonment thing (my biggest weakness) against me. The financial situation is complicated and we can’t yet sell the house so for now I am stuck. HOWEVER, I still have some of my self esteem left and I am coping. Amazingly. It still hurts and it’s still hard but I will survive.

By: Molly

Molly — Fri, 18 Mar 2022 22:59:48 +0000

Great article! I have not had a narcissist discard me yet. I can only imagine that it is truly devastating. I know that narcissists idealize and then devalue, so I think right now I am in the devaluation phase of the narcissist’s attentions. I am finding that they are really good at devaluing others. They have pointed out flaws, I didn’t even know I had. I have never felt so criticized in all my life, for anything and everything. Luckily, I am still doing my NARP work. I believe doing the NARP work has made their devaluations of me less credible and allowed me to still know that I am a valuable person just as I am. But this is still not a pleasant experience. I really want to do the Thrive bootcamp and I guess I have to overcome my excuses of why I can’t right now or why I should wait, etc, etc…. I am still in a contemplation phase right now, to quickly heal in 10 weeks would be great!!! But my ego is also telling me, that can not happen. So, please community be patient with me as I decide, but would love to see you all in the bootcamp. As always, hope everyone is moving to recovery.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 17 Mar 2022 23:51:42 +0000

In reply to Louca. I'm so pleased I can help Louca! Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 17 Mar 2022 23:51:17 +0000

In reply to Áine.

Hi Aine,

I will – great request!!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 17 Mar 2022 23:50:47 +0000

In reply to nicole m descoteaux.

Oh yes Nicole!

True!

Mel 🙏💞🦋