Comments on: How To Find Your Soul Mate https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-find-your-soul-mate/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Mon, 19 Sep 2016 10:54:50 +0000 hourly 1 By: dana wills https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-find-your-soul-mate/#comment-657764 Thu, 17 Mar 2016 08:56:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1563#comment-657764 I’m so happy you’ve found your soulmate, Terra! So many are still looking. As they say opposites attract. It is really very interesting artile.

]]> By: nanoo https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-find-your-soul-mate/#comment-611096 Wed, 08 Jul 2015 00:11:27 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1563#comment-611096 obviously like your website however you have to test the spelling on quite a
few of your posts. Many of them are rife with spelling problems and I find it very troublesome to inform the truth however I will definitely
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]]> By: Nive https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-find-your-soul-mate/#comment-165515 Wed, 27 Nov 2013 14:55:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1563#comment-165515 Melanie, thanks for this post! I actually made a similar list many months ago, just as an exercise to ask myself what I am looking for in a man, using present tense like I was in a relationship with such a man already. Guess what… months have passed and I met someone who actually could be described using my list! Some points, I thought, were maybe not very common in male population, like one about not eating meat and loving and caring attitude towards all life, plant or animal. Well, this man is a vegan and keeps his own animals that look perfectly happy to share a home with him… My narcissistic ex totally ignored my animals, never wanted to handle them and once, when confronted about it, he said “well for me they’re just meat I could eat, only still alive”.

]]> By: EFq0hOON https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-find-your-soul-mate/#comment-67120 Tue, 06 Aug 2013 02:21:24 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1563#comment-67120 86601 714971Howdy! Would you mind if I share your blog with my twitter group? There

]]> By: Megan https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-find-your-soul-mate/#comment-66456 Sat, 03 Aug 2013 21:54:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1563#comment-66456 You are remarkable. I’m so glad I came across your blog. 🙂

]]> By: Shelly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-find-your-soul-mate/#comment-48380 Sat, 11 May 2013 14:28:24 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1563#comment-48380 I am so lucky to have found this site and information! I am just leaving a two year crazy-making, toxic relationship with a class “A” narcissist! What I have read here is SO spot on to the last two years of my life!
He was starting to make me question my own sanity and every thing bad that occurred was blamed on me and I felt like my head and heart were “reeling” Push/pull, in/out, hot/cold, love/ignore…all in the same day sometimes!!! I feel sick that I let this go on for so long and I exposed this to my 12 year old daughter.

The biggest wakeup was a morning recently when a morning cuddle in bed somehow, in a blink, turned into him raging again and waking up my daughter by yelling “shut your f%$#@n mouth” This was the first and last time this was ever. going. to. happen and I went to find a new home.

I feel liberated and lost at the same time…
Now I just need to get all my stuff out of his home and move on….love and honour myself again. Where do we lose ourselves in this?? I felt the red flags but focused on the good and then…slowly, it all became bad and unfixable.

Thank you for sharing everyone and I will be looking to this for moral support as I have NO. Contact.

Shelly

]]> By: christine hundleby https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-find-your-soul-mate/#comment-47305 Sun, 05 May 2013 06:28:38 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1563#comment-47305 In reply to Janet.

Great reading Melanie, you tap into some deep areas and its very helpful to take in and feel this learning and shifting on a soul level.. very important.. thank you

]]> By: Stacy-Ann https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-find-your-soul-mate/#comment-46793 Thu, 02 May 2013 02:44:04 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1563#comment-46793 I have always struggled with the concept of the soul mate, thus it makes perfect sense to me that you are your own soul mate.

I am separated from my ex for less than a year now and I am involved with a wonderful guy. I believe I am ready for this, yet in some ways I know that I am not. Trying to fully embrace the happiness he brings to my life has caused all my insecurities to come to the surface. While I know that it is too soon be in another committed relationship, I know that without this situation, I would fall into the trap of blaming my ex and not actively looking for my responsibility in our relationship. Thus I love how this article points me in the right direction to deepen the love I have for myself that I will in fact attract the right type of person and repel the narcissist. Thank you for that.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-find-your-soul-mate/#comment-46510 Tue, 30 Apr 2013 01:40:24 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=1563#comment-46510 In reply to Julianne.

Hi Julianne,

that is so gorgeous that this article resonates with you.

Yes you have done amazing work on yourself – and you have come so far. I am so thrilled for you that finally you are FREEEEEE!!!!

I truly do believe Julianne you are ready to open your heart to a beautiful love relationship. You have been doing such a wonderful job of vibrating at In-Love – and this IS exciting!

Julianne, truly we co-created. My part was only the showing you of what you needed to do for yourself. You are the one who committed to working at healing and loving and accepting YOURSELF fully – that was never my job or ability to do.

Mel xo

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