Comments on: How To Free Yourself From Toxic People And Situations https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-toxic-people-and-situations/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Fri, 29 Mar 2019 04:24:46 +0000 hourly 1 By: Carol Rafferty https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-toxic-people-and-situations/#comment-1156011 Fri, 29 Mar 2019 04:24:46 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5247#comment-1156011 Hi, Melanie, I believe, you were the first coach I started listening to back in the fall of 2017, It only took me five months to go no contact, once I realized what I was dealing with!! Oh, boy, yes, my mind is quite open & things have changed. We all have our bad days. There is no escaping them, but how we get through them is what counts!!! I will not deal with toxic people!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-toxic-people-and-situations/#comment-1144730 Fri, 01 Mar 2019 23:53:56 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5247#comment-1144730 In reply to Ivey Moore.

Hi Ivey,

Please know voluntary relationships even with Ns don’t turn out to ‘voluntary’ – they are not logically just left!

Absolutely you are facing a situation of needing to stand up and defend, and the entire point I am making is the inner work grants you the calm power and access to the Field around you in empowering ways to win.

I myself had a horrible narcissistic neighbour who was terrorising me and my property. When I shifted deep fearful programs within myself, I finally had a calm powerful shift, exposed her to the body corporate and then she sold up and moved away.

So within, so without … until then there was no relief from her.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Ivey Moore https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-toxic-people-and-situations/#comment-1144675 Fri, 01 Mar 2019 19:44:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5247#comment-1144675 In reply to Robert.

Hi Melanie. You directed me to this video from YouTube. Idk. This is tricky. This is not a voluntary relationship. This is a situation where I am targeted for reasons I’m not fully clear about. I don’t know. I don’t understand how my change will affect their behavior which is destructive to my property. 3D concerns trumping 5D awareness.
I am seeking legal council next week but that is 3D. Why have I manifested the gift of this petty tyrant? How can I get them as neighbors to leave me alone. There had been no contact for months until yesterday there was an encounter. They are relentless. They may or may not be breaking a law(that I will find out next week), but that doesn’t make it right or them right if they are not overtly breaking a law. They are damaging my property. I try to ignore it.
I had vowed that if I ran into them and had to engage I would say, ” I love you we need a mediator”. Instead I let them bait me into calling them a f___ing idiot. My loss of control bothers me almost more than their destruction of property.
If this were a romantic relationship or even a work relationship the dynamics might be clearer. I have lived here 25 years they moved in 2 years ago and me moving away is not an option. We are in the deep South USA and it is tempting to handle him in a “southern” way but that’s not evolved!
I keep telling myself this is only a test from the etheric broadcast system but that still doesn’t preserve the property from damage that I may not be able to legally defend from. 3D again 😖

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-toxic-people-and-situations/#comment-1087407 Sat, 21 Jul 2018 02:59:27 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5247#comment-1087407 In reply to Mary.

Hi Mary,

How wonderful that you have awakened and that NARP is helping you heal.

It is your time to heal Dear Lady – absolutely.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Mary https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-toxic-people-and-situations/#comment-1086561 Fri, 20 Jul 2018 00:48:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5247#comment-1086561 Hi Melanie,
Thank you – you are so right on! Especially about the soul evolution part and choosing the exact experiences in subsequent lifetimes that will lead to the biggest potential for soul growth. I’ve just finished Module 1 (short version) of the NARP program and the onion layers are starting to peel. I’m grateful to my narc for he truly was my Dark Angel. My life has changed forever–for the better. I cannot and do not want to go back to the life I had before I met him. What remains now is to do the work. Already I can see that my experiences up to this point have been a case of attracting people who vibrated at a low frequency to match my lower vibration. Now I’m starting to really wake up and look at my part in all this and heal it. Thank you so much for your videos and for creating the NARP program. Namaste.

]]> By: J. https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-toxic-people-and-situations/#comment-1018061 Sat, 31 Mar 2018 16:13:05 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5247#comment-1018061 In reply to Lorelee Weir.

Hi, Lorelee, Thank you for mentioning the work of Bruce Lipton etc and Tom Campbell too. I am reminded to check them out someday. And now I am quite curious about fellow Canadian Tom Campbell. Kind regards, J.

]]> By: Emma https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-toxic-people-and-situations/#comment-933763 Mon, 09 Oct 2017 01:52:21 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5247#comment-933763 Thank God for what you are sharing.

I tried 12 steps for codependency and it felt like ‘12 steps for consolidating your wrongness’

So eventually I left and felt so much lighter… yet I was still aware that on an energetic level I had those beliefs, expectations, of being in the role of a victim at play.. as if it were my job to be in that role for those people/souls that I loved and recognised from other places/Times.

Anyway.. I attracted some of the best narcissistic personalities, often in scenarios that also coupled with spiritual answers or modalities that I was looking for. (At first glance this is very confusing)… but when I ‘know’ into it there is perfect sense.

But what I am trying to say is that the gist I am getting from your videos is that when we shift our agreements to accept and be in the role of trauma on an energetic level.:: narcissistic people/behaviors can no longer participate.. which could also look like individuals who once showed up in narcissistic ways no longer be able to be narcissistic in your presence if and when you do happen to encounter them.

Lots of revelations.

Thank you ????????✨?

]]> By: El https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-toxic-people-and-situations/#comment-929146 Fri, 29 Sep 2017 11:10:40 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5247#comment-929146 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Hi Melanie,
Yes I think you’re right. I did experience a shift from watching one of your recent videos when there was a guided meditation and perhaps I am not listening to the program at the right time. I also do feel there is some sort of resistance inside when I do the modules. I’m not sure why as I certainly am keen to do the work I was able to be fully present with the recent vid and I did the exercise wholeheartedly. Ok I will venture over to the forum.
Thankyou
El. Xx

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-toxic-people-and-situations/#comment-927208 Mon, 25 Sep 2017 00:42:49 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5247#comment-927208 In reply to Angelique.

Hi Angelique,

I am so happy for you!!

Than you for encouraging and supporting others 🙂

Mel xo

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