Comments on: How To Heal After Being Raised By Narcissists https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-heal-after-being-raised-by-narcissists/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Mon, 29 Mar 2021 06:38:49 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-heal-after-being-raised-by-narcissists/#comment-1250557 Mon, 29 Mar 2021 06:38:49 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8393#comment-1250557 In reply to Jwalk.

Hi Jwalk,

the same as all or any of it … you just heal. with processes that really work … for all or any of it.

NARP is the answer http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Lindsey https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-heal-after-being-raised-by-narcissists/#comment-1250508 Sat, 27 Mar 2021 21:55:33 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8393#comment-1250508 Melanie, you are spot on everything. My ex husband, his parents and all his brother and sisters are narcissist. I don’t want my kids to feed from this but in the times that are with them, they show some signs, how can I control that. They also are british and Chinese Asians and the obsession abt making money is large, no empathy, very cold harsh people, nothing is enough, all abt superficial things and showing off, one minute they fine, another minute they shout to the grandkids. I’m slowly trying to stop contact but the father is around and being affected by them and his ego took over but no chance for him to understand this.

]]> By: Jwalk https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-heal-after-being-raised-by-narcissists/#comment-1250499 Sat, 27 Mar 2021 16:51:07 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8393#comment-1250499 How do you heal from adult narcissistic children of narcissistic alcoholic parents?

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-heal-after-being-raised-by-narcissists/#comment-1240134 Thu, 13 Aug 2020 04:45:49 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8393#comment-1240134 In reply to Jennifer Griffiths.

Hi Jennifer,

please email one of my lovely support team at support@melanietoniaevans.com and someone will help sort this out.

Love and blessings to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-heal-after-being-raised-by-narcissists/#comment-1240133 Thu, 13 Aug 2020 04:44:45 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8393#comment-1240133 In reply to Vicki.

Hi Vicki,

I’m so thrilled that you love NARP that much that you wish to promote it.

Please email support@melanietoniaevans.com and one of my team will be able to get you through affiliate manager to check out what is going on.

Then it can be rectified.

Much Love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-heal-after-being-raised-by-narcissists/#comment-1240132 Thu, 13 Aug 2020 04:43:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8393#comment-1240132 In reply to LVM.

Hi LVM,

Gosh you have described the loop of insanity perfectly!

I am so pleased that NARP is helping you so much and that this has provided clarity.

Please, also know that simply doing a Module One healing on any trigger that appears, without even knowing what it is, will take you to the root of and release and reprogram it. Effectively freeing you from it.

In truly is a perfect formula to heal!

I hope that helps.

Much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-heal-after-being-raised-by-narcissists/#comment-1240131 Thu, 13 Aug 2020 04:40:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8393#comment-1240131 In reply to AngΓ©lique.

Hi Angelique,

I’m so pleased that this was helpful for your healing.

Much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-heal-after-being-raised-by-narcissists/#comment-1240130 Thu, 13 Aug 2020 04:39:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8393#comment-1240130 In reply to Jean-Paul.

Hi Jean-Paul,

I am so pleased that this resonated!

Much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Chris https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-heal-after-being-raised-by-narcissists/#comment-1240076 Sat, 08 Aug 2020 11:01:26 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8393#comment-1240076 Thank you Melanie for another wonderful video! This really resonated with me, as narcissistic abuse is all I have ever known since birth. The inability to feel safe and loved in one’s family of origin is one of the biggest tragedies of humanity, as it betrays our basic biological programming and needs. The “enemy” is supposed to be the saber toothed tiger outside, not the very people we rely on for survival. It’s why this kind of narcissist trauma is so hard to work through, because there was never a foundation of secure attachment. If we can’t trust our own kin, who can we trust?

But as I’ve learned, being a narcissist parent is also at odds with our basic biology. My parents could have treated us a lot worse than they did, or abandoned us altogether, but there was still some faint nurturing instinct that fought against their own unconsciousness. Not to justify anything, but just as another perspective.

My only regret in all this is I didn’t understand how to truly help myself until now, in my 40s. I wasted many years being stuck at the bottom of a paper bag, struggling to find the way out. Your videos and book have helped me see there is another way, thank you!

Chris

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