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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2018 05:16:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-1094340&quot;&gt;Anton Swanepoel&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Anton,

You are very welcome!

Yes absolutely Mod 3 and 7 will powerfully help and also please know you can use Module 1 and the GSM for any specific traumas you wish to work on at any time.

Mel 🙏💕❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-1094340">Anton Swanepoel</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Anton,</p>
<p>You are very welcome!</p>
<p>Yes absolutely Mod 3 and 7 will powerfully help and also please know you can use Module 1 and the GSM for any specific traumas you wish to work on at any time.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕❤️</p>
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		By: Anton Swanepoel		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anton Swanepoel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Aug 2018 16:58:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Melanie,

Thank you for the post. If found it by looking for the muscle test online as it is not in the silver package that I bought that I could see. Have been working for almost a month with the modules daily with massive changes.

I found that I blame myself and a family member. I also am still in victim mode as according to the muscle test I expect someone to fix my life for me. Blaming does not help for me as I seem to think that I cannot have abundance while blaming. I reason it must be self punishment.

What module would be good to release blame in yourself and in another. And what module module would be good for releasing the victim feeling, i was thinking module 3 and 7 respectively.

Thank you for all the information and products you have created.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melanie,</p>
<p>Thank you for the post. If found it by looking for the muscle test online as it is not in the silver package that I bought that I could see. Have been working for almost a month with the modules daily with massive changes.</p>
<p>I found that I blame myself and a family member. I also am still in victim mode as according to the muscle test I expect someone to fix my life for me. Blaming does not help for me as I seem to think that I cannot have abundance while blaming. I reason it must be self punishment.</p>
<p>What module would be good to release blame in yourself and in another. And what module module would be good for releasing the victim feeling, i was thinking module 3 and 7 respectively.</p>
<p>Thank you for all the information and products you have created.</p>
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		By: Kathy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Mar 2018 02:54:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Looks like i am going to space mam&#039;

Thank you for the insight.

See you among the stars.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looks like i am going to space mam&#8217;</p>
<p>Thank you for the insight.</p>
<p>See you among the stars.</p>
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		By: phil		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[phil]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 May 2016 08:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-661941&quot;&gt;Melanie Tonia Evans&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Mel

Thanks for your guidance which DOES make a lot of sense to me!

I am tackling the sleep issues that I can control but some things I may not be able to change. I used to relax by cross-country running which enabled sound sleep, but due to poor blood circulation (deep vein thrombosis) I cannot do that any longer. If/when I sort out my economy, that will also give me peace of mind and support sound sleep. The other matter is that while I am in a place of transition, I am single and alone which gives me the feeling that there are too many hours in the day!

Anyway, I will focus on overcoming the underlying anxieties that prevent sound sleep as a priority.

Thanks very much Mel, have a wonderful day!

Blessings, Phil]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-661941">Melanie Tonia Evans</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Mel</p>
<p>Thanks for your guidance which DOES make a lot of sense to me!</p>
<p>I am tackling the sleep issues that I can control but some things I may not be able to change. I used to relax by cross-country running which enabled sound sleep, but due to poor blood circulation (deep vein thrombosis) I cannot do that any longer. If/when I sort out my economy, that will also give me peace of mind and support sound sleep. The other matter is that while I am in a place of transition, I am single and alone which gives me the feeling that there are too many hours in the day!</p>
<p>Anyway, I will focus on overcoming the underlying anxieties that prevent sound sleep as a priority.</p>
<p>Thanks very much Mel, have a wonderful day!</p>
<p>Blessings, Phil</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2016 10:10:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-661928&quot;&gt;phil&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Phil,

I would target the sleeplessness first, track that through the body and address that - so that then there is not the need for alcohol to get to sleep.

Alcohol is fine IF it is an extension of joy and not a choice of self-medication.

If its a choice to self-medicate then it really is about addressing what is the anxiety underneath (the trauma) that needs to be up-levelled. Then there will be no anxiety to try to self-medicate.

Does this make sense?

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-661928">phil</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Phil,</p>
<p>I would target the sleeplessness first, track that through the body and address that &#8211; so that then there is not the need for alcohol to get to sleep.</p>
<p>Alcohol is fine IF it is an extension of joy and not a choice of self-medication.</p>
<p>If its a choice to self-medicate then it really is about addressing what is the anxiety underneath (the trauma) that needs to be up-levelled. Then there will be no anxiety to try to self-medicate.</p>
<p>Does this make sense?</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[phil]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2016 07:15:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I agree with everything in the above article, thanks Mel! However, I have a question though:

Is it necessary that we give up our addictions (such as alcohol, which help to fill a void for the things lost) before we are able to start the &quot;inner healing work&quot;? OR can we hold the intention of letting go of these addictions while we are doing the inner healing work?

I know (for sure) that doing inner work when energetically clean is much more effective. I also know that I feel better about myself when I detox. However, issues relating to sleep are a major barrier for me because the only thing worse than a sleepless night is the day after the sleepless night!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with everything in the above article, thanks Mel! However, I have a question though:</p>
<p>Is it necessary that we give up our addictions (such as alcohol, which help to fill a void for the things lost) before we are able to start the &#8220;inner healing work&#8221;? OR can we hold the intention of letting go of these addictions while we are doing the inner healing work?</p>
<p>I know (for sure) that doing inner work when energetically clean is much more effective. I also know that I feel better about myself when I detox. However, issues relating to sleep are a major barrier for me because the only thing worse than a sleepless night is the day after the sleepless night!</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-44088</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Apr 2013 03:45:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-44042&quot;&gt;http://Tinyurl.com&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Emma,

That is wonderful that you hjave created your own blog!

Yes you certainly are most welcome to - as long as you reference me and my website to these points.

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-44042">http://Tinyurl.com</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Emma,</p>
<p>That is wonderful that you hjave created your own blog!</p>
<p>Yes you certainly are most welcome to &#8211; as long as you reference me and my website to these points.</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Apr 2013 18:54:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I really had been browsing for strategies for my own blog site 
and came across your own blog, “How To Let Go Of Blame And Claim Your Personal Power 
&#124; Narcissism and Relationships Blog by Melanie Tonia Evans”, would you care 
in the event I really employ some of your points? Thanks a lot -Emma]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really had been browsing for strategies for my own blog site<br />
and came across your own blog, “How To Let Go Of Blame And Claim Your Personal Power<br />
| Narcissism and Relationships Blog by Melanie Tonia Evans”, would you care<br />
in the event I really employ some of your points? Thanks a lot -Emma</p>
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		By: Archi		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Archi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2013 21:29:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-17656&quot;&gt;Wendy&lt;/a&gt;.

I do understand what you are going threw your story sounds like mine to the T I have started the narp and I can say that I do feel better but some days I feel like Im going crazy cant get up for work, dont want to go to my son games only because every time I go outside the house And I mean EVERYTIME I go out I run into him if not by himself or with her, and my family thinks Im crazy until my father was with me one day and seem that almost every corner and almost every street they where there I dont know what to do so I just stay in the house because its to much for to go out.....But I wil]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-let-go-of-blame-and-claim-your-personal-power/#comment-17656">Wendy</a>.</p>
<p>I do understand what you are going threw your story sounds like mine to the T I have started the narp and I can say that I do feel better but some days I feel like Im going crazy cant get up for work, dont want to go to my son games only because every time I go outside the house And I mean EVERYTIME I go out I run into him if not by himself or with her, and my family thinks Im crazy until my father was with me one day and seem that almost every corner and almost every street they where there I dont know what to do so I just stay in the house because its to much for to go out&#8230;..But I wil</p>
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