Comments on: How To Never Fall Victim To A Narcissist Ever Again https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-never-fall-victim-to-a-narcissist-ever-again/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Thu, 15 Jun 2023 13:12:25 +0000 hourly 1 By: Barbs https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-never-fall-victim-to-a-narcissist-ever-again/#comment-1281245 Thu, 15 Jun 2023 13:12:25 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11228#comment-1281245 Dear Molly, dear All, I can’t believe I almost have gotten myself into the same s**t again! Only taking my first baby steps, finally separated from my cheating narcissist husband who turned my life into a living hell the last 10 years, finally starting to open and bloom, and then this! I signed up on a dating app more as a joke, just wanted to see what’s out there, and lo and behold the ‘perfect guy’ is there. I’m so happy I listened to my gut as soon as it started getting too good to be true in only a week, thanks to everything I read and learned with you. Once I started looking into it, ALL the red flags were there, and they keep coming. Man, that was scary. And they look nice and normal at first glance too. Helped me realize I still need to get so much stronger, some more healing to do for sure. Thank you for your work and much love!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-never-fall-victim-to-a-narcissist-ever-again/#comment-1268532 Sun, 08 May 2022 05:41:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11228#comment-1268532 In reply to Molly.

Love that you are listening to you Molly!!

Thank you for your love to all

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: monetkay https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-never-fall-victim-to-a-narcissist-ever-again/#comment-1268252 Thu, 05 May 2022 00:17:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11228#comment-1268252 In reply to Marian.

Powerful! Thank you. You are a skilled writer.

]]> By: Fay https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-never-fall-victim-to-a-narcissist-ever-again/#comment-1268219 Wed, 04 May 2022 05:37:29 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11228#comment-1268219 Dear Molly
Loved your comment and content

Yes! Listen to your ” Gut” the Spirit
is guiding your Soul into ALL good. 🙏

Be Still and know” 😘
Stay encouraged ,you are doing well . We all need validation !

Thank you to all others who share their journey ….Tis so cathartic to air and share

Much Love

]]> By: Ellie V https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-never-fall-victim-to-a-narcissist-ever-again/#comment-1268193 Tue, 03 May 2022 19:40:58 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11228#comment-1268193 In reply to Marian.

😊

]]> By: Molly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-never-fall-victim-to-a-narcissist-ever-again/#comment-1268182 Tue, 03 May 2022 13:19:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11228#comment-1268182 Such encouraging comments today. I am grateful for the article and the reminder to stay on track, to come home to myself. That is my greatest and most important mission right now. This article reminds me of Invictus by William Ernest Henley. I always like the last paragraph of that poem:

It matters not how straight the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll
I am the master of my fate,
I am the captain of my soul.

I just want to share an experience I am having now. I am looking for work but maybe I haven’t been looking with the right energy. The employer is acting as if they are a perfect fit and they have everything I could ever want. But something does not feel right. They keep dropping the ball. Making wild promises etc.. I think in the past, I would have ignored my gut feeling. But I made a promise to myself to listen to myself, no matter what. So I am listening, and I am saying NO. My soul is saying no thank you. I just have to trust this I guess, because it is kind of scary- knowing that you need to work and turning down a job that outright looks totally acceptable. Anyways, I guess that is what trust in one’s self is anyway.

Time to just piss some narcissists off!!! Whoo hoo!! (by refusing their offer)
Hope everyone is doing well, and healing, day by day, much love to u all 🙂

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-never-fall-victim-to-a-narcissist-ever-again/#comment-1268170 Tue, 03 May 2022 05:25:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11228#comment-1268170 In reply to Agnieszka.

Its my pleasure Agnieszka!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-never-fall-victim-to-a-narcissist-ever-again/#comment-1268169 Tue, 03 May 2022 05:24:49 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11228#comment-1268169 In reply to Fay.

Hi Fay,

you are doing such a beautiful job of Thriving!

Thank you for your inspirations!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-never-fall-victim-to-a-narcissist-ever-again/#comment-1268167 Tue, 03 May 2022 05:24:14 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11228#comment-1268167 In reply to Gwen.

Hi Gwen,

yaya! I love that you are loving this.

Home you are coming… so wonderful 🙂

Mel 🙏💞🦋

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