Comments on: How To Shutdown A Narcissist Who Won’t Leave You Alone

By: Bethy

Bethy — Sun, 04 Jul 2021 13:55:51 +0000

I 100% agree with the need to heal our inner selves after narc abuse & am on that path after filing for divorce and getting restraining orders against my narc husband of 2 years (7 together). I am in “no contact” in spite of his continued hoovering emails and I’m getting stronger everyday. But… I am also an advocate for justice and can see his behaviors now infiltrating his business, partnerships & community. How do you balance the need to detach and heal with the conviction to warn others and hold these people accountable for their abuse?? We know they just move on to the next victim and the cycle continues while they never face any consequences. I feel a responsibility to stop that somehow…

By: B

Sun, 04 Jul 2021 05:07:31 +0000

In reply to Cat Graves. Follow Melanie then you’ll know. She is talking to the abused, the codependent who will heal from narcissistic abuse when they do the inner trauma healing work. This Narp program is brilliant and life changing. Read and follow. All the answers are within her articles. Google her name and family. She covers everything.

By: Sane lady

Sane lady — Sat, 03 Jul 2021 17:21:40 +0000

Narcissists lie it’s just what they do. They are addicted to energy so no wonder they are often found in overcrowded resort destinations trying to scam on someone or something or caught rummaging through your personal things to see what they can steal for shits and giggles. Too bad my daughter and I got sucked into the algae still waters of decrepitude.

By: Anne Catherine

Anne Catherine — Mon, 15 Mar 2021 18:50:11 +0000

Hi Melanie,
I am in a relationship with a man who left an abusive marriage with a narcissist. She has a great deal of anger, is easily triggered, and controlled every aspect of their marriage (including tricking him into getting her pregnant, and now uses and abuses his children to get back at him). Now she is turning her focus on me and my family. I have a temporary restraining order, and am seeking help to deal with what is very clearly a very unstable person. Do you have any recommendations for attorneys who successfully deal with narcissistic women in court?
Thank you for showing so many hurting people the bright light at the end of such a dark tunnel!
Gratefully,

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 30 Jul 2019 03:57:09 +0000

In reply to Jacqueline.

Hi Jacqueline,

There are many deeper things going on within our subconscious programs that arent logical, and it’s not until we are willing to look within and heal our old trauma programs that we are released from our current ones.

I explain more in my free course which can help you deeply understand http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕♥️

By: Jacqueline

Jacqueline — Mon, 29 Jul 2019 20:56:09 +0000

I had a narcissistic boss who showed up in my life after I left my former place of employment and wreaked havoc. I grew up with narcissistic parents so I handled her well at work which means respectfully but at arms length. I was very guarded always! I was never her supply. So I really don’t understand why she came after me. It’s not like we ever had a great relationship. Please explain.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 28 Jul 2019 23:07:01 +0000

In reply to Don.

Hi Don,

It is really honest of you to share this, and please know that panic and clinging is such a common reaction from being narcissistically abused.

I also did this horrifically with n number 1 in my life. Many of us did.

Don the true solution is to turn inwards and heal those terrified unhealed parts of yourself acting out like this.

This is about showing up to your inner being as your own healer and saviour.

Don, my NARP healing program provides the pathway and step by step system to get that essential inner recovery work done.

It’s my highest suggestion for you http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

Please know there is a way out and life after this.

Mel 🙏💕♥️

By: Don

Don — Sun, 28 Jul 2019 17:49:37 +0000

Melanie
First, thank you.
I endured literally dozens of breakups and acts of betrayal, broken promises, fits of anger, withdrawal of affection and infidelity. But what has me is she would always block, erase delete on social media. She also blocked my number.
But I was the one who went after her: I would go to her house and despite the venom and pure contempt she shared, I did not give up. I was the one who would call, via burner numbers. I was the one who was relentless. It truly is pathetic and I’m so embarrassed. I truly lost my mind and in the end I became resentful and provocative (she punched me in the face and I asked for more. My mental and physical health declined at a tremendous rate and I began getting psychiatric help.
However, the obsessions and need for her affection are still there and overwhelming at times.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 26 Jul 2019 23:07:13 +0000

In reply to Loreto.

Hi Loreto,

That is beautiful that you feel inspired and motivated.

Please know how welcome you are and I’d love to visit you in Canada.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕♥️