Comments on: How To Spot A Covert Narcissist https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-spot-a-covert-narcissist/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Fri, 17 Dec 2021 01:40:11 +0000 hourly 1 By: Meg https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-spot-a-covert-narcissist/#comment-1260703 Fri, 17 Dec 2021 01:40:11 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10104#comment-1260703 Thank you so much for these emails. This is exactly what I’ve delt with for years. A covert narcissist.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-spot-a-covert-narcissist/#comment-1258085 Mon, 25 Oct 2021 22:51:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10104#comment-1258085 In reply to AJ.

Thank you AJ!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-spot-a-covert-narcissist/#comment-1258076 Mon, 25 Oct 2021 22:44:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10104#comment-1258076 In reply to Happybutterly.

Thank you for your lovely comment Happybuttefly,

you are very welcome!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-spot-a-covert-narcissist/#comment-1258075 Mon, 25 Oct 2021 22:44:05 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10104#comment-1258075 In reply to rowena.

Hi Rowena,

it’s wonderful that you have been able to make this progress.

Much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-spot-a-covert-narcissist/#comment-1258074 Mon, 25 Oct 2021 22:42:24 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10104#comment-1258074 In reply to Sherri.

Hi Sherri,

it’s my pleasure and I’m really happy that you feel validated.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-spot-a-covert-narcissist/#comment-1258073 Mon, 25 Oct 2021 22:39:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10104#comment-1258073 In reply to Angie.

Hi Angie,

you so did.

Congratulations on honouring your soul!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-spot-a-covert-narcissist/#comment-1258072 Mon, 25 Oct 2021 22:38:37 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10104#comment-1258072 In reply to Peter.

Hi Peter,

you are very welcome, and it is true that many N’s can display characteristics of overt and covert and flip between the two.

Much love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: AJ https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-spot-a-covert-narcissist/#comment-1257902 Sat, 23 Oct 2021 01:30:31 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10104#comment-1257902 Such a great video! Thank you for so clearly explaining the differences between over and covert narcissists. It’s hard to find information that really compares the two so succinctly. One of your best videos for the informational content!!

]]> By: Molly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-spot-a-covert-narcissist/#comment-1257831 Thu, 21 Oct 2021 22:14:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10104#comment-1257831 In reply to Angie.

Great article. I was actually never attracted to the overt narcissist. I could see through them a mile away. But I have found myself inevitably drawn to the covert narcissist. I just want to save them, help them, and make them feel better. But I do realize that is not my job now. Maybe it is some sort of childhood reenactment in which I am trying to save the person because I couldn’t save my own mother. I don’t know how we eventually are able to discern, I guess it comes with time. But I don’t know if I will ever feel comfortable turning away or not showing compassion to someone who is hurting. But at the same time, I have been burned by these people, they can actually be really mean. But I am sure there are people with sad stories who aren’t narcissists. I just have to figure out the difference I guess.

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