Comments on: How To Survive When Things Start Falling Apart https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-survive-when-things-start-falling-apart/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Thu, 10 Aug 2023 05:58:34 +0000 hourly 1 By: Hilary Goodlife https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-survive-when-things-start-falling-apart/#comment-1249730 Sat, 13 Mar 2021 02:23:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5880#comment-1249730 Have come so far ..6yrs + , yet have been in the thick of despair last 2months , feeling out of control, life slipping , .
Yet thankyou , I do follow engery shifts , somehow allow myself to lose my path …last 3 days have reconnected to the source and am releasing resistance…definitely feeling better, am catching myself.

]]> By: Gayle https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-survive-when-things-start-falling-apart/#comment-1174766 Thu, 16 May 2019 08:35:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5880#comment-1174766 I’m watching this video here now – May 2019, but my journey / awakening started mid last year, about the time you recorded this. I’m in the middle of the tornado right now where my life has done a complete breakdown. Wow. Never would have imagined it all.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-survive-when-things-start-falling-apart/#comment-1098586 Thu, 27 Sep 2018 21:34:52 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5880#comment-1098586 In reply to Kerry.

Hi Kerry,

Sweetheart when we seek our love and fullness from outside ourselves, then someone that we deem should be providing it for us, when they don’t, we will cling to them.

Regardless of how much they hurt and abuse us.

The only answer is to let go, partner with and start loving and healing ourselves back to wholeness or these painful relationship patterns won’t stop.

I’d love you to connect to my free inner transformational healing resources so that you can start this healing.

http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse

When the pain gets this bad it is time to heal the only person we have the power to change and heal – ourselves.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Kerry https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-survive-when-things-start-falling-apart/#comment-1098531 Thu, 27 Sep 2018 07:20:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5880#comment-1098531 In reply to Alena Dawn Bostad.

I am in an abusive, narcissistic marriage…

i never trusted him from the beginning with his lies, inconsistent stories and half truths.

He hides his phone from me, deletes all of his messages and voice calls, has flirted with other women on facebook, even tried to call my own friend on facebook, whom he doesnt even know..

i confronted him and he got angry and at first didnt want to show me, making excuses.. He said that he felt lonely and depressed and was drunk.. He was blaming Me and remorse from him was not shown. he then resorted to deleting His account..

He gives me the silent treatment, doing things and saying things that he knows will damage me emotionally.

He is purposely pushing me away. I am feeling so damaged inside, anxious and very insecure.

all i want is to feel wanted & LOVED…

i hope that u can give me some advise on this.

thank you.

kerry.

]]> By: Jeanne Lundy Lake https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-survive-when-things-start-falling-apart/#comment-1097274 Sun, 16 Sep 2018 17:10:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5880#comment-1097274 I do not know how or why I missed this video made in June. June is when I joined NARP! I totally believe in energy reports, planetary influences, etc. since I have studied astrology & moon influences, etc. off & on for over 40 years.

This not only confirms the knowledge but more importantly AFFIRMS who I am!!! How grateful am I for NARP? Ans: Beyond words!

It is a new home where I can complete or at least continue my karmic healing.

]]> By: Jeanne Lundy Lake https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-survive-when-things-start-falling-apart/#comment-1097271 Sun, 16 Sep 2018 17:00:27 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5880#comment-1097271 YES! And for my 36 year old daughter also! She broke her engagement and is now happy. Facing the wall. Fear of it — the breakdown. Then finding a way through or over — the breakthrough. Very very big. And my empathic son also is going through something big. But not the narcissistic father/husband. He of course is totally stuck inside himself. Amazing!!!

]]> By: Brigetta https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-survive-when-things-start-falling-apart/#comment-1095132 Tue, 28 Aug 2018 16:02:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5880#comment-1095132 As hard as it feels it is good for us. Keep the faith. Do the work. What doesn’t kill you will make you stronger. This too shall pass!

God bless you for your support and wisdom, Melanie! You are a blessing!!!

]]> By: Crystal79 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-survive-when-things-start-falling-apart/#comment-1094521 Thu, 16 Aug 2018 09:53:59 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5880#comment-1094521 Oh Mel! My heart goes out to you <3
I, too, was shocked to hear your relationship ended but truly life happens to all of us. I´m in the middle of my breakdown, have been for quite some time. Thank You for all your support!

]]> By: Patricia Allouche https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-survive-when-things-start-falling-apart/#comment-1093803 Sun, 05 Aug 2018 17:13:59 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5880#comment-1093803 Hi Melanie
First of all I want to thank you so much for the Narp program which helps me a lot. I added some hoponopono tips as well as a small training about “rigology” (school of laughing) and yes I also had to abruptly wake up in the country i’m Living for more than 20 years where I thought I was considered like a “normal” citizen with nationality but without the religion needed in this country. My both daughters were in the army during two years, one is still reservist. A new law was voted so now I’m considered like a second class citizen. It was hard to swallow but now I’m able to laugh about it beeing without money and any ressources to move away. Just asked me how I can be always trapped in this kind of situation but now I’m able to see the situation as it is without too much fear and to think how I will be able to escape or to stay and see what will happen.
Send you a lot of 💗 ❤️ 💗

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