Comments on: How To Win Any Argument With A Narcissist

By: Kristina

Kristina — Mon, 07 Feb 2022 18:49:23 +0000

Working on healing & understanding myself. I had a narcissist mom & now married to a narcissist husband. In process of healing, taking steps forward. Trying to heal/ protect my kids as well. Do you have support for ways to heal how I have hurt them? I find through inner self examination, I have carried over some of my hurt, pain, anger to my children at times. I see patterns of hurt I have caused through actions or words I did when acting out my own insecurities. I love them and have tried my best but at times i have done and said some pretty horrible things because i didn’t know how to handle myself or them. Now that i am understanding better, i am trying to do better. Currently trying to find family therapist to help my relationship with them & to improve their self confidence/ coping skills as well as help them to identify & set up healthy relationship boundries. It is quite hard to find availability for appointments, also cost is a factor. Any suggestions or support would be wonderful. I would also like to practice the modified contact & parallel parenting to not shame their father. They don’t see most of what he does or how he operates. It is a struggle to balance trying to do better by them and them not understanding why I am doing what I do. Tyi

By: Kristina

Kristina — Mon, 07 Feb 2022 18:45:17 +0000

Working on healing & understanding myself. I had a narcissist mom & now married to a narcissist husband. In process of healing, taking steps forward. Trying to heal/ protect my kids as well. Do you have support for ways to heal how I have hurt them? I find through inner self examination, I have carried over some of my hurt, pain, anger to my children at times. I see patterns of hurt I have caused through actions or words I did when acting put my own insecurities. I love them and have tried my best but at times i have done and said some pretty horrible things because i didn’t know how to handle myself or them. Now that i am understanding neyter, i am trying to do better. Currently trying to find family therapist to help my relationship with them & to improve their self confidence/ coping skills as well as help them to identify & set up healthy relationship boundries. It is quite hard to find availability for appointments, also cost is a factor. Any suggestions or support would be wonderful. I would also like to practice the modified contact & parallel parenting to not shame their father. They don’t see most of what he does or how he operates. It is a struggle to balance trying to do better by them and them not understanding why I am doing what I do. Tyi

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By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 09 May 2021 23:26:36 +0000

In reply to Riki.

Hi Riki,

the problem is that you can’t change your sister or your mother. You can’t fix what is happening between them. They are living out their own dynamic. I am sure you have tried and discovered this anyways.

All we can EVER do is heal ourselves of what we are feeling in regard to life and others. Often what happens then is a shift in the outside circumstances in our experiences with these people, and also those we love often rise up with our healing and example and start reflecting that.

I’d love you to come in to my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar to discover more about this.

Much love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Riki

Riki — Fri, 07 May 2021 11:37:28 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Dear Melanie,

My youngest sister (5th out of 5) has been abusing my mother, who has cancer, for the past year. I guess my mom is her supply. My mom used to be a very independent women. But nowadays she’s feeling useless and depressed. Since she can’t run her business anymore, my youngest sister jumped in. My
Mom was blamed for not raising my brother right. Until one day, my sister took her atm and drained all the money. But there’s nothing that my mom can do, because my mom kept thinking that my youngest sister is incapable of surviving without her support. So she keeps on thinking that it’s ok. Now she feels useless and unhappy because all the other siblings don’t get along with the youngest. If no contact is the only way, I dont think she can do that because my mom really2 care to my youngest sister which is evil. Help me. I am desperate. Her depression is not caused by her cancer, but with this narcissistic abuse by my sister.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 19 Apr 2021 09:07:30 +0000

In reply to Iris.

Hi Iris,

You are always totally welcome!

Thank you for weighing in so beautifully as always my dear Sister.

THRILLED you will be coming into the Thrive Group!!!

(I was kind of secretly hoping you would)! LOVE your energy so much!

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 19 Apr 2021 09:04:26 +0000

In reply to Doug.

Hi Doug,

I love that this has granted you power clarity.

You are SO on point!

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 19 Apr 2021 09:01:46 +0000

In reply to Susan Tombs.

I love that you are healing you Susan!

Much love and wonderful blessings to you.

You totally deserve them.

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 19 Apr 2021 09:00:35 +0000

In reply to Alexandra.

Hi Alexandra,

you are doing so beautifully! Fantastic progress 🙂

Wishing you incredible luck and wonderful blessings in love Dear Lady

Mel 🙏💕💚