Comments on: How Vulnerable Are You To Narcissistic Abuse? https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-vulnerable-are-you-to-narcissistic-abuse/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 08 Sep 2021 16:09:25 +0000 hourly 1 By: Tammy https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-vulnerable-are-you-to-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1255942 Wed, 08 Sep 2021 16:09:25 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8940#comment-1255942 This was the best.one yet. Me to a T. Thank you for reminding me of my.own work still to done. Know thine enemy know thyself…I have been my.own enemy. Thank you

]]> By: Moneytha Burns https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-vulnerable-are-you-to-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1253049 Sun, 06 Jun 2021 19:22:04 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8940#comment-1253049 Hi Mel,
I’m walking away from him today. As much as I care about him and I’m never the one who leaves first–they always throw me out of their lives while their latest, or in this case, last year’s skanky ho, looks on, delighted in my misery, while giving them something to laugh their asses off about later. He’s already done the devaluation. She’s already contacted me trying to get info about him while feigning concern over him assaulting me a few months back, saying we should hang out and she needs some girl time. Funny how she quit talking to me after I let the cat out of the bag about his and my relationship for the past 6 months. I felt she ought to know. Of course, he didn’t say a word to her about it. I’ve been losing my shit more and more and I know I’ll end up either in jail or the psych ward if I continue on the path I’m on. So please send me good juju as I navigate some pretty stormy waters today. I’ll see you in NARP. Thank you for everything you do and every single point above was spot on.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-vulnerable-are-you-to-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1249674 Thu, 11 Mar 2021 09:39:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8940#comment-1249674 In reply to Hel.

Hi Hel,

darling I hear you and I know the confusion and the pain of all of these feelings.

I cant recommend enough coming into my free masterclass soon .. it will SOOOOO sort this all out for you.

http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/masterclass

What say you?

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Hel https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-vulnerable-are-you-to-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1249664 Thu, 11 Mar 2021 08:55:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8940#comment-1249664 In reply to Lynda.

I think you are ex tremely brave Lynda. I suffered immensely too. I understand your pain. As a fellow empath I agree that it is even more difficult for us to accept someone we love could treat us like this. I often hated myself for being highly sensitive as he often referred to my trait so negatively insinuating that everything was my fault for having doubts, questioning his behaviour and overthinking. I now realise that we are beautiful beings that just need to be understood and tge narc is incapable of doing so due to their lack of empathy. They dont understand our suffering. Take care and keep thriving x

]]> By: Hel https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-vulnerable-are-you-to-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1249663 Thu, 11 Mar 2021 08:38:41 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8940#comment-1249663 Thank you for this Melanie❀️. It explains so much to me and yes I did all these things. Im stuck in confusion mode wondering if I was less vulnerable and more empowered whether my father and ex partner would have respected me more? Loved me more? . My ex often talked about my lack of confidence, my hyper sensitivity, my obsession with what others think of me and my fears but in a negative way. He blamed the end of the relationship on all my traits after 2.5 yrs of love bombing, then manipulation, possessiveness and harassement. Nothing was his fault. I now understand that I was a prime target and i need to work on myself but how do I stop the strong feelings of guilt he put on me. I abandoned him, i didnt trust him, I didnt believe in us… Etc etc My gut was screaming out due to the red flags from the start but i was so in love with him all I wanted was his happiness and unconditional love. How to accept I wont ever get a pardon from him. Love to all the thrivers out there. Xx

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-vulnerable-are-you-to-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1249321 Wed, 03 Mar 2021 07:59:51 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8940#comment-1249321 In reply to Hanne Varildbakken.

Hi Hanne,

I’m so pleased that you reached out.

Please know we have beautiful members in their 70’s and 80’s who are Thriving magnificently, even after an entire lifetime of narcissistic abuse.

These people are working with NARP. I highly recommend it for you to take your healing to the next and incredible level, with the support of our beautiful NARP community. It makes true healing possible (and fast) at any age.

http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

I hope that this helps and much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-vulnerable-are-you-to-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1249320 Wed, 03 Mar 2021 07:57:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8940#comment-1249320 In reply to Marsha.

Hi Marsha,

that’s great that my work resonates with you!

That’s beautiful that NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp is helping you so much!

Many continued blessings to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-vulnerable-are-you-to-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1249316 Wed, 03 Mar 2021 07:50:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8940#comment-1249316 In reply to Anna.

It’s my pleasure Anna!

Much Love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Anna https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-vulnerable-are-you-to-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1249305 Tue, 02 Mar 2021 16:42:05 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8940#comment-1249305 Thank you for these points!

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