Comments on: Is The Narcissist’s Voice In Your Head? https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-the-narcissists-voice-in-your-head/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sat, 23 Apr 2022 11:06:45 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-the-narcissists-voice-in-your-head/#comment-1267643 Sat, 23 Apr 2022 11:06:45 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11175#comment-1267643 In reply to Judy.

Hi Judy,

I’m so pleased I can help.

Stay strong and sending you healing and breakthrough

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-the-narcissists-voice-in-your-head/#comment-1267642 Sat, 23 Apr 2022 11:05:29 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11175#comment-1267642 In reply to Man from California.

Hi Man from California,

please know how welcome you are!

It’s wonderful that guys like you and Peter have connected in our wonderful community!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-the-narcissists-voice-in-your-head/#comment-1267641 Sat, 23 Apr 2022 11:04:11 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11175#comment-1267641 In reply to Peter.

Hi Peter,

it’s so great that you are detoxing, the voice will get less and less.

You are doing great!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Pauline https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-the-narcissists-voice-in-your-head/#comment-1267535 Thu, 21 Apr 2022 04:56:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11175#comment-1267535 Same here dear Judy, albeit « only » 25 years of abuse, but I guess I could add the other 25 of childhood where I was taught that I was an inconvenience to everyone around me. I had an episode when I genuinely believed that I was going mad, the voices were so overwhelming. I am now getting a divorce and have confronted my abusers, even if just in my mind and heart. Autoimmune health issues have popped up and I promised myself I would keep them to the current level. I am not feeling like an inconvenience any longer, and I have to thank wonderful communities like this one for it! Hang in there each and every one of you, always remember that you were never the problem, just kind hearted individuals that were taken advantage of and used as emotional dumpsters ❤️🥰

]]> By: Rena https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-the-narcissists-voice-in-your-head/#comment-1267533 Thu, 21 Apr 2022 04:10:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11175#comment-1267533 I myself had a lot of shut down anger unexpressed rage and not being able to assert myself with the narcissist and a lot of people who had power over me at work when I was younger. That anger is still in my body and I have episodes where I yell and scream in my car with the windows down imagining now what I would have liked to say and express to stand up and stand in for myself. However, this does not seem to stop the memories from resurfacing and going round and round in circles because being in my early 20’s I was so passive and timid. It’s what I learned young to be afraid of people and I was bullied and abused throughout my own childhood at home and in life.

]]> By: Peter https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-the-narcissists-voice-in-your-head/#comment-1267525 Thu, 21 Apr 2022 02:02:08 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11175#comment-1267525 In reply to Judy.

Dear Judy!
My heart sank when I read your comment! 💔Having health issues and narcissistic issues at the same time is so difficult!
You will get through this! 🙏🏻 NARP will give you the guidance you’ll need…🙏🏻

]]> By: Ocean Breeze https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-the-narcissists-voice-in-your-head/#comment-1267524 Thu, 21 Apr 2022 01:07:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11175#comment-1267524 In reply to Man from California.

To Peter and Man from California………you guys keep on with your module work.
When my NARP membership kicked in, I filled page after page with emoitional outpourings.
Now years later the voice of abuse is a distant memory.
Dudes……you are on the path that leads to peace in your life. You cannot stop now!!!
The point of no return has passed and your only option is to keep pushing ahead.
Melanie is the real deal…….she is the ultimate surviour. Keep trusting NARP and her guidance will lead you to the promised land.

]]> By: Judy https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-the-narcissists-voice-in-your-head/#comment-1267523 Thu, 21 Apr 2022 00:54:14 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11175#comment-1267523 I’m grateful for your healing information! Right now I’m in the middle of divorcing my NARC husband of 35 years. Hardest thing I’ve ever been through an I have plenty of health problems to address along with this devastating divorce, manipulation, gaslighting, etc. Thank you for your help!

]]> By: Man from California https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/is-the-narcissists-voice-in-your-head/#comment-1267519 Wed, 20 Apr 2022 23:47:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11175#comment-1267519 My deep and continuing gratitude to you, Melanie, for your wisdom, openness and spirit of sharing.

I, too, can still hear her (their) voice(s) in my head, but your practices and the green shoots of NARP starting to work (and taking root!) help me keep this at bay. A post of yours like this is additional salve for my wounds: thank you for helping me with real healing.

Peter, you are inspiration to me: keep gaining altitude, man!

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