Comments on: Leading The Way For Your Children https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/leading-the-way-for-your-children/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sat, 03 Jun 2023 09:23:40 +0000 hourly 1 By: 7 Methods To Cease Pondering About The Narcissist And Begin Dwelling - Path2Positivity https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/leading-the-way-for-your-children/#comment-1271497 Tue, 02 Aug 2022 22:54:28 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6207#comment-1271497 […] this darkness, as our True Selves main the way in which – not only for ourselves, but in addition for our youngsters and their youngsters and the collective at […]

]]> By: Laurel Marshall https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/leading-the-way-for-your-children/#comment-1267838 Wed, 27 Apr 2022 16:39:40 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6207#comment-1267838 I am 68 years old. I signed up for a Gold Membership of NARP & went through the program during covid in June or August 202. I just want to emphatically state that reading your article today (about “How to help our Children ” & “Taking Personal Responsibility”) was spot-on for what I was dealing with today (wrt my 34 yo son [who started acting sort of controlling & narcissistic). I want to re-read this article on taking personal responsibility over again bc I seemed to resonate with it so strongly. I am so eternally grateful for the healing I am able now to tap into though having worked the NARP program (& “its” ‘working me’). It is a wonderful resource for me to have that I can tap into going forward in my life.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/leading-the-way-for-your-children/#comment-1256988 Sun, 10 Oct 2021 01:20:15 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6207#comment-1256988 In reply to Kondwani Chinula.

My pleasure Kondwani!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Kondwani Chinula https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/leading-the-way-for-your-children/#comment-1256926 Fri, 08 Oct 2021 06:59:58 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6207#comment-1256926 Thank You Melanie.
This is so Important.
Love & Gratitude
Kondwani

]]> By: Catherine https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/leading-the-way-for-your-children/#comment-1237802 Fri, 22 May 2020 08:19:46 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6207#comment-1237802 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

I was in a same sex relationship and my narcissist partner has left me for my best friend. I had no idea she was a narcissist until I found out she was cheating on me. She said she was never going to tell me and I could have done more to stop this from happening. She just didn’t love me any more and she loves ****. She keeps saying stop being bitter and just move on. Get over it.
Well it’s so so hard to get over when we have children. Biologically one each but they are related and conceived via ivf.
I love my children so so dearly and I hate that I have put them through this. I don’t regret or resent my kids but I regret having them with her.
She is shoving the new relationship in my face bringing the best friend to my house when she picks the kids up.
So she is having the kids 2 nights a week (weds and Thursday) my kids are currently 2 and 3. However, I don’t want my kids around her as she is a narcissist but also my ‘best friend’.
I worry what toxic rubbish is she filling my kids heads with. I sit here any cry with worry that they won’t want to come back to me or that in the future they think mummy g is more fun to be around!!
I only found out 8 weeks ago and this is the 2nd Time my kids have gone to my ex’s new house. I just wish I could have my kids full time to protect them from her and her new toxic relationship (the new partner/my old best friend never wanted or wants children)!
I feel like I still want her back as I want my family to be together again. I pray to god to bring her back to me and that her new relationship doesn’t work out!!
I don’t know what’s best to do right now!!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/leading-the-way-for-your-children/#comment-1101083 Sat, 13 Oct 2018 21:08:39 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6207#comment-1101083 In reply to michelle.

Hi Michelle,

I can totally understand your concern, because I don’t think there is anything more distressing to us than what may happen to our children.

So many of us in this community, including myself, have helped our children immensely as a result of working the NARP Modules inside our own Inner Beings.

Michelle the most powerful way myself and the MTE team of Thrivers and Moderators can help you is in the NARP Forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: michelle https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/leading-the-way-for-your-children/#comment-1101026 Sat, 13 Oct 2018 11:57:08 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6207#comment-1101026 I have been watching your videos for weeks plus others on YouTube. I just signed up yesterday for your recovery system. I was married to a narcissist for 26 years and didn’t even realize what it was til I left this time. Didn’t understand what I was going through all these years.
I have two teenage daughters who have effects from this marriage. My son is a teenager who has lived with his dad since we separated two months ago. I told him I understood at first because his father was clinging to him. I knew he would do that. But now he is in a world with him of no rules, girls visit whenever he wants , Ive seen pictures of him smoking and drinking. Not just typical because he is engaging in these behaviors with his father and their new friends.
My Marta
Image counselor tells me to to just wait. Not to force anything. But I am so scared inside that I’m losing him. I can tell our relationship is changing
Please – I need advice

]]> By: rowena https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/leading-the-way-for-your-children/#comment-1098399 Wed, 26 Sep 2018 08:02:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6207#comment-1098399 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

HI Mel, Thank you, yes …sometimes there are wobbles xx

]]> By: Nicoleta https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/leading-the-way-for-your-children/#comment-1098033 Sat, 22 Sep 2018 18:03:31 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6207#comment-1098033 Animals and plants can feel if their owner is healed too. We can impact everything.

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