Comments on: Life With The Narcissist Was Never Meant To Be https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/life-with-the-narcissist-was-never-meant-to-be/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Fri, 16 Apr 2021 13:17:47 +0000 hourly 1 By: Ougdy https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/life-with-the-narcissist-was-never-meant-to-be/#comment-1251348 Fri, 16 Apr 2021 13:17:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7811#comment-1251348 I’ve never wanted or needed a savior let alone believe in that stuff. Though I’ve known some who project the bizarre issues they’ve had onto others who they think they know or are just like themselves.

]]> By: william https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/life-with-the-narcissist-was-never-meant-to-be/#comment-1247355 Sun, 31 Jan 2021 22:30:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7811#comment-1247355 This was meant to be . Only it could have been in my early childhood. Where it SHOULD be. Goes to show that as sufferers of abuse i kept on moving along never running out of need to prove my goodness to these minions that just plain have cheated me out of many decades of happiness fulfillment and peace. Now i have to prosper in having only now run into somewhat enlightened. That have the create full beauty and not withered vines thriving psychological skill that gives power strength and force , the courage, to move where i have never known existed before. Thank you MTE.

]]> By: Faye https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/life-with-the-narcissist-was-never-meant-to-be/#comment-1245001 Fri, 27 Nov 2020 06:22:45 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7811#comment-1245001 Beautiful Tim

]]> By: Faye https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/life-with-the-narcissist-was-never-meant-to-be/#comment-1245000 Fri, 27 Nov 2020 06:22:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7811#comment-1245000 In reply to Tim Richardson.

Beautiful Tim

]]> By: Tim Richardson https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/life-with-the-narcissist-was-never-meant-to-be/#comment-1239719 Wed, 22 Jul 2020 16:08:14 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7811#comment-1239719 The truth of why this was meant to be has set me free

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/life-with-the-narcissist-was-never-meant-to-be/#comment-1236197 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 09:39:04 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7811#comment-1236197 In reply to Pearl Allen.

Hi Pearl,

this means that he is either grooming her or getting narcissistic supply, meaning attention or maybe even sympathy from her.

Dear Lady, what is important for all of it is that we like ourselves, regardless of someone else demeaning us.

It sounds like he is not a loyal and loving person having your life, regardless of his label.

I hope that this helps

Mel 🙏💕💚

]]> By: Pearl https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/life-with-the-narcissist-was-never-meant-to-be/#comment-1236178 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 03:31:25 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7811#comment-1236178 Hi Melanie
I’ve been reading your blog.I can relate to a lot of what u have said.My husband has Bipolar but I also feel like he’s a narcissist as well.He was taking a friend on an errand .He told her that he didn’t like me.Was he trying to get her to feel sorry for him?.Weve been married for43 yrs.

]]> By: Pearl Allen https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/life-with-the-narcissist-was-never-meant-to-be/#comment-1236175 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 03:22:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7811#comment-1236175 Dear Melanie
I’ve read some of what you said.I have experienced a lot of what u said.I feel very sure. I’m married to an Marxist.Been married 43 years.Can u please tell me what does it mean when he tells another woman he doesn’t like me.Does it mean he wants the other woman to feel sorry for him? I feel very sure he’s a Narsastict.He also has bipolar.

]]> By: Chance Rodriguez https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/life-with-the-narcissist-was-never-meant-to-be/#comment-1232901 Wed, 26 Feb 2020 19:35:05 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7811#comment-1232901 In reply to Bee.

I feel like my situation is a little different from everyone else’s and I don’t know if its cause I’m still in denial about him being a narcissst or if I caused our problems in our relationship . His ex wife told me he was a compulsive liar . My family didn’t start calling him a narcissist till later,on in our relationship . We were together for 7 years . He proposed to me but I called off the engagement because he would constantly lie and I would catch him . He talked with one of our friends last year when we went to Vegas and told her he was thinking about proposing to me there in Vegas and getting married . But never did . Before we went to Vegas in April he took me snowmobiling up in the mountains and we had a blast . Nothing was different about him on both trips . So I was totally blind sided .

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