Comments on: Merry Xmas And Happy New Year From MTE

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 15 Jan 2018 03:46:28 +0000

In reply to Michelle.

Hi Michelle,

you are very welcome and I am so pleased NARP is helping so much 🙂

I am so pleased everything is becoming clearer and you are standing in your truth and light.

Wishing you incredible healing and breakthrough.

Mel xo

By: Michelle

Michelle — Sun, 14 Jan 2018 21:26:32 +0000

Thank YOU Melanie! Oh my gosh, I just did the first step in the NARP program and already I feel a huge shift. I am with N #2 currently…some major differences from the original N, but in the end the game is the same. I was feeling so lost, so sad and broken and so so disappointed in myself for not “seeing it coming”.
In any event, while I’m still with him, I’m working through the program so that I can uplevel myself and get to my strongest, healthiest, and most secure and confident self. This is work for me, ON me. We are in joint counselling, and that’s all fine. But NARP is all about me fixing me, healing me…for ME and me only.
I cannot thank you enough Mel. I am confident 2018 is my year, and I am finally confident in being able to say what my expectations are in a relationship, and he can either meet them or not, no wounding, no accusations, just do or do not…and I can see whether I want to or can meet some of his expectations as well or not. If they cost me a part of me, then I cannot. It’s really becoming quite simple and clear finally.
Hugs Mel…thanking my angels and guides for you!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 11 Jan 2018 06:17:56 +0000

In reply to kia.

Thank you Kia,

A beautiful and happy new year to you too.

Mel xo

By: kia

kia — Tue, 09 Jan 2018 11:39:14 +0000

Wish u happy new year

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 04 Jan 2018 07:22:44 +0000

In reply to Wendy.

Hi Wendy,

that is so great that you did!

Please find this publication of mine which will help you understand ‘why’ https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/hoovering-how-the-narcissist-tricks-you-into-breaking-no-contact/

And please know, to get free it is so about identifying and healing the inner reasons why we play into and are susceptible to the rubbish.

Once we clean that up, I promise everything changes.

This will help you understand more about the deep inner healing necessary:
https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-real-reason-why-the-narcissist-punishes-you/

Wishing you true freedom from all of this and I can’t suggest NARP enough to really get you there.

Mel xo

By: Wendy

Wendy — Tue, 02 Jan 2018 22:41:34 +0000

Hi Mel, I really enjoyed the webinar yesterday and got a lot out of it. Can you tell me as I’m really confused on this , In about June my ex partner “ the narc “ came to me after months of no contact with him and gave me to sob story of how much he missed me and he wanted to try again , he also thought I was with someone else from work, truth is I was and still am trying to make things work with my husband who I had been separated from for 2 yrs. He said all the usual nice things and even gave me a quick kiss when I left. But after that I was again invisible , why does this happen what was he really after , all this confuses me. I tried ringing him a couple of times but the found out my number was blocked , in the end I was so angry at him for things he’d said and how stupid he’d made me feel I left an angry nasty msg.
He’s been on holiday in the uk for the last 5 weeks and I’m more relaxed than I’ve been in a long time he comes back next week and I’ll see him at work soon not sure how I’ll feel or if I’ll be calm again in myself. Why do they make you feel so stupid for even just stopping and listening to their rubbish ?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 01 Jan 2018 23:48:52 +0000

In reply to bah humbag.

Hi Bah,

thank you, I am in KL ariport now about to board to Thailand – so exciting!

I wish you beautiful shifts, evolution and breakthrough this holiday time 🙂

Many blessings to you.

Mel xo

By: bah humbag

bah humbag — Sun, 31 Dec 2017 05:07:12 +0000

Wishing you all genuinely happy and content moments in your holidays that really stick with you. 🙂

For the first time, I was able to have a family holiday visit and do some small shifts. When I have previously tried, I was so busy being in alligator brain survival mode, that I could somehow not do any shifts at all – even with best intentions as well as a plan. For the last couple of visits, the victim, rescuer, perpetrator social model has helped. It was suggested that I allow myself to take the role of “perpetrator” and allow others to see me that way if they need to, in order for me to have boundaries that work for me. Because I did this – and accepted that I would be labelled as a “perp” for attending to my own genuine needs and stopped trying to avoid being this at all costs, there is a definite positive movement towards what I would like holidays to look like. The winter break is definitely a trigger for me each year, as it is for many. Year after year, I have gotten through it without much improvement, and I have been so tired of repeating the same unfulfilling rituals – so I guess I just want to say… keep trying.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sat, 30 Dec 2017 11:13:58 +0000

In reply to Deannafj.

Hi Deanna,

Thank you Dear Lady and sending you all the best for an incredible New year and amazing 2018.

Many blessings and big love.

Mel xo