Comments on: My Journey To An Evolutionary Love Relationship – Part 1 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-journey-to-an-evolutionary-love-relationship-part-1/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Mon, 19 Sep 2016 11:30:56 +0000 hourly 1 By: pinterest https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-journey-to-an-evolutionary-love-relationship-part-1/#comment-550308 Sun, 05 Oct 2014 03:10:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2143#comment-550308 Most Facebook users are teenagers who do not have a
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]]> By: Carmen https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-journey-to-an-evolutionary-love-relationship-part-1/#comment-355694 Tue, 01 Apr 2014 12:36:27 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2143#comment-355694 Well, I’m putting it out in to the universe right now.

I want to find a mate that will be my equal partner. That is willing to be loving and honest. In turn, I will be an equal partner and promise to be loving and honest. I want a genuine spirit connection. I will not settle for anything less.

Oh and while I’m flinging it out there: I will handle my upcoming settlement, which has been pending for two years, brilliantly and will get everything I need from it. I will live a life of peace and love.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-journey-to-an-evolutionary-love-relationship-part-1/#comment-285052 Sat, 22 Feb 2014 21:26:49 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2143#comment-285052 In reply to Rachel Smith.

Hi Rachel,

thank you for your post, and I would love to help you!

First of all it is wonderful that you have, and are doing work on yourself, and that you did not self-avoid and hope that someone else would come and rescue you.

Now re the ‘age thing’…what you can do is target that ‘concern’ directly and shift it out – because in ‘the field’ there are no conditions on love….we just live the illusion…

Then when you have cleared the resistance to ‘the age thing’ then you will have a clearer picture of the dynamics of the relationship and not be ‘muddled’ by ‘the age thing’.

You can use Module 1 of NARP, or the goal setting module in NARP to release the beliefs that are that condition.

Does that make sense?

Mel xo

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-journey-to-an-evolutionary-love-relationship-part-1/#comment-285049 Sat, 22 Feb 2014 21:21:50 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2143#comment-285049 In reply to Candy Wilde.

Hi Candy,

that is so fantastic that you are orientating now around your development – because that is the foundation of all relationship!

Great job 🙂

Mel xo

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-journey-to-an-evolutionary-love-relationship-part-1/#comment-285045 Sat, 22 Feb 2014 21:20:27 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2143#comment-285045 In reply to Annie.

Hi Annie,

ha ha – I love this! So true 🙂

Mel xo

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-journey-to-an-evolutionary-love-relationship-part-1/#comment-285041 Sat, 22 Feb 2014 21:17:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2143#comment-285041 In reply to Jewel.

Hi Jewel,

Thank you, yes all we need to do is anchor into being ourselves, trusting ourselves and showing up authentically…

which means reconciling ourselves!

Thank you Jewel, you are so welcome and many blessings to you too!

Mel xo

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-journey-to-an-evolutionary-love-relationship-part-1/#comment-285038 Sat, 22 Feb 2014 21:15:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2143#comment-285038 In reply to Quinton Edward.

Hi Quinton,

you are welcome, and I’m pleased it did!

Mel xo

]]> By: Rachel Smith https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-journey-to-an-evolutionary-love-relationship-part-1/#comment-284660 Sat, 22 Feb 2014 13:47:14 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2143#comment-284660 Hi Mel, I’ve found these posts to be truly inspirational well the whole of the NARP system really.
I was married to an abusive Narc for 15 years and finally managed to get him to leave.This was 2.5 years ago and i have a 8 year old daughter.
I had one date in 2.5 years and it didn’t feel right so that was a good start I listened to my inner self but didn’t bother dating at all after that just to do quantum headings that i needed and read and look after myself and learn how to be true to myself. This is the first time that i have ever lived on my own and i’m 43, so this was a real learning curve.
So 5 months ago a guy I’ve known a few years as a friend asked me out i was totally surprised to be asked! we had few dates and I’m still seeing him. Now i don’t know why but at times not all times i get bothered that he is 30 and i’m
43! i wish i could just let it be and enjoy this relationship he says he isn’t bothered by my age and was more worried i’d dump him due to his age!
So i guess what i’m trying to say is at times i feel i’m being true to myself when we are together then other times i feel like i should end it due to our age difference bothering me! My Narc was 10 years older. Basically i just want to relax the age thing and enjoy being with him and we see where it goes as early days but i cant seem to i’m guessing its an insecurity thing!I really like him!
I’m so looking forward to reading your post next week.
xx

]]> By: Candy Wilde https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-journey-to-an-evolutionary-love-relationship-part-1/#comment-282536 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 02:08:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2143#comment-282536 I’m Nearly forty and spent 8 years with an abusive husband. When I left him I was so afraid of being alone I dated a few men but I seemed to attract all the wrong kind of men, that all needed saving themselves.
I finally woke up to myself and decided to work on myself and strive to be a whole person without the need of a partner.
I’m single and loving it, I have got to know myself so much better and continue to grow everyday.

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