Comments on: My Personal Dating Plan For Weeding Out Narcissists https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-personal-dating-plan-for-weeding-out-narcissists/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Tue, 25 Aug 2020 01:56:58 +0000 hourly 1 By: Bee https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-personal-dating-plan-for-weeding-out-narcissists/#comment-1240768 Tue, 25 Aug 2020 01:56:58 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6825#comment-1240768 I posted above in November 2019 and since am more open to dating. I’ve just realized I had a lot of no’s instead of yes’s which were subconscious fears that were showed up. I Moduled. I’m realizing if I truly want a healthy love relationship, I must be open to authentic love by not blocking it with all my excuses. I’m aware of non available, red flaggers etc. I know my values and boundaries…..so….. when I do online even tho my pix are nice, I hardly get any responses. Of those that do Respond, most are non negotiable…. they respond inappropriately. So if I don’t have that many responses, often there is no one to respond back to or maybe only 1 or 2. So how can I go on many dates? Ha?The men move on fast as more ladies join. Each day there is more candy for them. The men on the other hand are not much appealing.

]]> By: Lady https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-personal-dating-plan-for-weeding-out-narcissists/#comment-1240710 Mon, 24 Aug 2020 06:00:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6825#comment-1240710 I’m not a dater though some wacko cult would like that, I am in the cosmic flow and disrupters need to be hospitalized.

]]> By: Karin https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-personal-dating-plan-for-weeding-out-narcissists/#comment-1229801 Fri, 17 Jan 2020 12:35:56 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6825#comment-1229801 In reply to Andrea.

Great attitude Mel! You are such good company during a difficult but fulfilling process.
Karin, Sweden

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-personal-dating-plan-for-weeding-out-narcissists/#comment-1217158 Sat, 09 Nov 2019 01:10:25 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6825#comment-1217158 In reply to Bee.

Hi Bee,

Absolutely this is a choice.

Bee yes I did meet him online. And just before I read your post, i was thinking how deeper my love and connection to each other gets every day.

I am blessed to have connected with him.

Mel 🙏💕♥️

]]> By: Bee https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-personal-dating-plan-for-weeding-out-narcissists/#comment-1217112 Fri, 08 Nov 2019 11:22:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6825#comment-1217112 Although I’m a diehard Narper thriver…..I will not do online dating. My time is too precious and I’m not desperate to be in a relationship to engage in this online stuff. I’m open to meeting men as life presents but I don’t force these things. If I do, I do and if not, not. I find online dating degrading truth be told. Mel, did you meet your current partner online? Can you share this with us.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-personal-dating-plan-for-weeding-out-narcissists/#comment-1193595 Sat, 13 Jul 2019 04:34:34 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6825#comment-1193595 In reply to Jodi.

Awesome Jodi!

I love hearing reports like this!

Go you!

Mel 🙏💕♥️

]]> By: Jodi https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-personal-dating-plan-for-weeding-out-narcissists/#comment-1193489 Fri, 12 Jul 2019 20:41:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6825#comment-1193489 Just wow Mel!! After years of recovery and healing, I have once again stepped into internet dating! It is so different this time. The last time I did this, I was so traumatised, so broken and ended up in another narcissistic relationship which nearly broke me. I finally feel healed. Finally feel empowered. I am going on a date tonight. Will he be ‘the one’? Maybe, maybe not and I am totally ok with that.Im am just going to enjoy the experience. I am also talking to other people on line and that will continue, until I make the decision not to.. Thank you!

]]> By: Cyberk https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-personal-dating-plan-for-weeding-out-narcissists/#comment-1193453 Fri, 12 Jul 2019 19:22:34 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6825#comment-1193453 Hello

I have subscribed to QFH – I think this post and your newsletters are an absolute GAME CHANGER and God send.

The best investment.

Thank you

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/my-personal-dating-plan-for-weeding-out-narcissists/#comment-1178421 Mon, 10 Jun 2019 00:32:56 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6825#comment-1178421 In reply to Ksenja.

It’s my pleasure Ksenja and I’m so pleased this helped.

Mel 🙏💕♥️

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