Comments on: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery & Self-Avoidance https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-self-avoidance/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Thu, 25 May 2023 07:08:39 +0000 hourly 1 By: Anastasia Tcherepanova https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-self-avoidance/#comment-1254462 Wed, 21 Jul 2021 15:36:27 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9588#comment-1254462 Hello Melanie!

I am looking for a video (articles are welcome too) where you speak about the pointlessness of arguing and being caught in self-defending with a narcissist. Can you suggest something please?
Thankful f the many important things you taught me so far!

Anastasia

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-self-avoidance/#comment-1254362 Sun, 18 Jul 2021 07:34:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9588#comment-1254362 In reply to devorah silverbirch.

Hi Devorah,

I love that you are hugging your “little me”.

Soooo beautiful.

All my love to you and little Devorah

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: devorah silverbirch https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-self-avoidance/#comment-1254315 Fri, 16 Jul 2021 00:22:06 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9588#comment-1254315 Thanks so much for your heartfelt video talk. Really resonates with me. I have been progressing on my own but I get set back and sometimes just get so depressed. I have been in a bad place lately and trying to work with myself and then at my job I got “called in” to the supervisor because the office gossip is now focused on me. Not because I did anything but because I keep to myself,thier interpretations were very negative. it really triggered me and hearing your talk today is helping me self soothe. Thanks for all you do, I am hugging my little girl inside, talking, crying, singing.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-self-avoidance/#comment-1254314 Fri, 16 Jul 2021 00:11:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9588#comment-1254314 In reply to Mary.

Hi Mary,

please know how welcome you are.

Sending you love, healing and blessings

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-self-avoidance/#comment-1254313 Fri, 16 Jul 2021 00:10:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9588#comment-1254313 In reply to Ginger.

It’s so true Ginger,

there is no avoiding ourslves! Nothing changes until our Inner Being changes.

Sending you love and healing

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-self-avoidance/#comment-1254312 Fri, 16 Jul 2021 00:08:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9588#comment-1254312 In reply to Camilla Raymond.

Hi Camilla,

that’s great that you are going to keep working on your inner being.

Are you working with NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com ? It may be great for you to have a connection with the NARP Member’s Forum as well to help keep you on track when needed!

Much love to you – you’ve got this!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-self-avoidance/#comment-1254311 Fri, 16 Jul 2021 00:06:56 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9588#comment-1254311 In reply to Barbara.

It’s my pleasure Barbara,

I’m really happy that this has helped.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-self-avoidance/#comment-1254310 Fri, 16 Jul 2021 00:06:21 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9588#comment-1254310 In reply to Kevin Knabe.

I’m so pleased that this has helped bring clarity to you Kevin!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-recovery-self-avoidance/#comment-1254308 Fri, 16 Jul 2021 00:03:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9588#comment-1254308 In reply to Courtney.

Hi Courtney,

yes… absolutely …

There is more healing to go …

Mel 🙏💞🦋

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