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		By: Leslie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leslie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2022 15:57:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is the best description of Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit that I have ever heard.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the best description of Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit that I have ever heard.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2022 06:41:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275789&quot;&gt;Kerrie McGann&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Kerrie,

you are so right that is the usual unconscious pattern that we follow.

Please know my healing program NARP is so effective because it loads, up releases and replaces the trauma, therefore allowing you to live free from it www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

I am so sorry that you have been through so much and for the loss of your soul mate.

Absolutely heart wrenching.

Sending you love and healing

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275789">Kerrie McGann</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Kerrie,</p>
<p>you are so right that is the usual unconscious pattern that we follow.</p>
<p>Please know my healing program NARP is so effective because it loads, up releases and replaces the trauma, therefore allowing you to live free from it <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a></p>
<p>I am so sorry that you have been through so much and for the loss of your soul mate.</p>
<p>Absolutely heart wrenching.</p>
<p>Sending you love and healing</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Kerrie McGann		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kerrie McGann]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2022 02:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When there is a narcissist in the family you grew up in as in my case, you are attracted  to the same again.  It has taken me in my seventies to realise this.  Hopefully now I can heal, but there is still the trauma that lingers.  I was lucky to meet and have over 20 years with my soul-mate after a long  marriage to a narcissist. My family wouldn&#039;t allow me to leave that marriage.  But six years ago my soul-mate suicides after being persuaded by my younger brother that it was the right thing to do.  It is impossible for me to have a friendship with this narcissist brother as he is still trying to convince me that my soul-mate did the right thing, and will not acknowledge any grief I am feeling, so the wound remains open.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When there is a narcissist in the family you grew up in as in my case, you are attracted  to the same again.  It has taken me in my seventies to realise this.  Hopefully now I can heal, but there is still the trauma that lingers.  I was lucky to meet and have over 20 years with my soul-mate after a long  marriage to a narcissist. My family wouldn&#8217;t allow me to leave that marriage.  But six years ago my soul-mate suicides after being persuaded by my younger brother that it was the right thing to do.  It is impossible for me to have a friendship with this narcissist brother as he is still trying to convince me that my soul-mate did the right thing, and will not acknowledge any grief I am feeling, so the wound remains open.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275788</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2022 02:38:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275722&quot;&gt;Renata beall&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank goodness you DID walk away Renata!

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275722">Renata beall</a>.</p>
<p>Thank goodness you DID walk away Renata!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275787</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2022 02:38:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275727&quot;&gt;James&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you James,

and I respect and enjoy reading your very thoughtful comments, as well as your incredible breakthroughs!

Lots of love back to you!

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275727">James</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you James,</p>
<p>and I respect and enjoy reading your very thoughtful comments, as well as your incredible breakthroughs!</p>
<p>Lots of love back to you!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275786</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2022 02:30:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275728&quot;&gt;Jennifer Mollett&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Jennifer,

there is always a choice.

And, if we all stopped enabling, fixing and offering ourselves up as narcissistic supply - narcissists would be left with only themselves to face and heal.

Please know this to be true - the kindest most loving thing you can ever do is .. step ... away ... and be a force for good, rather than drown in the trauma with them - only adding to the darkness.

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275728">Jennifer Mollett</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Jennifer,</p>
<p>there is always a choice.</p>
<p>And, if we all stopped enabling, fixing and offering ourselves up as narcissistic supply &#8211; narcissists would be left with only themselves to face and heal.</p>
<p>Please know this to be true &#8211; the kindest most loving thing you can ever do is .. step &#8230; away &#8230; and be a force for good, rather than drown in the trauma with them &#8211; only adding to the darkness.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2022 02:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275729&quot;&gt;Carol Hottle&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you Carol for your lovely note!

Much love to you Dear Sister!

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275729">Carol Hottle</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you Carol for your lovely note!</p>
<p>Much love to you Dear Sister!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275784</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2022 02:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275732&quot;&gt;Matti&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank YOU Matti for your beautiful synopsis of these Quantum Truths.

I ADORE everything you wrote!

I LOVE that this gives you hope.

Please know how welcome you are and love and blessings to you.

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275732">Matti</a>.</p>
<p>Thank YOU Matti for your beautiful synopsis of these Quantum Truths.</p>
<p>I ADORE everything you wrote!</p>
<p>I LOVE that this gives you hope.</p>
<p>Please know how welcome you are and love and blessings to you.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275783</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2022 02:25:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275734&quot;&gt;Rev. Dr. Helen-Bolden Rogers&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Dr Helen,

you are doing the right thing - for you And for him.

I pray that one day, for both of you, he comes home to the truth - which can only happen through you honouring you and no longer enabling him.

Much Love to both of you

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-are-they-really-dark/#comment-1275734">Rev. Dr. Helen-Bolden Rogers</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Dr Helen,</p>
<p>you are doing the right thing &#8211; for you And for him.</p>
<p>I pray that one day, for both of you, he comes home to the truth &#8211; which can only happen through you honouring you and no longer enabling him.</p>
<p>Much Love to both of you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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