Comments on: Narcissists Can’t Stand You Being Happy

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 16 Jul 2024 05:54:09 +0000

Hi A,

Please know you are very welcome, and I am really pleased that my material helps and that you feel validated.

What you are describing is sooo normal – as painful as it is! These are trauma bonds, and when they get healed up and out – you just won’t experience this anymore. (Truly!) Have you heard of my Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP)? I created this for exactly this purpose.

It works because it frees you from all these feelings and trauma bonds so that you can reopen your heart, take back your soul, and get your TRUE life going!

See the details here: http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

I hope this helps.

Much Love,

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: A

Mon, 15 Jul 2024 20:20:15 +0000

Hi Melanie,

I have seen through the N in my life but I still waver and want to find ways to forgive or understand them – to basically save them I guess? So I find myself having to check in and remind myself that there is nothing I can do.

Just wanted to say that your videos are so helpful and your insight is phenomenal – I am so grateful to feel heard and understood in what this experience has been.

Thank you.

By: Angelique

Angelique — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 07:53:10 +0000

They know they are empty vessels without any substance any access to creativity, inspiration and the energy to bring it to fruition or the skills and emotional intelligence to work efficiently with others. They are deadly jealous of you, they know they totally depend on you for something to exploit and hate you for it and it’s also the reason they need to anihilate you when you leave or get discarded in case you take all that away with you for the world to see where all that marvellousness came from and that they are nothing. When you think of it, it means ALL the power is in your hands to use. So best revenge is to throw everything you have into your own life and shine like a million suns.

By: Healthy

Healthy — Thu, 27 Jan 2022 17:53:03 +0000

Narcissists are not new or contemporary. They’re like the sleezeball swingers of the 70’s with money grubbing wives in clownish make up from all the crocodile tears, thinking their shag rug, wall-to-wall carpeting in the bathroom and waterbed are the shit. And they’re right that it’s crap. Thank god I have a life, a clean home, healthy body and relationships and exciting adventures!

By: havdvhy@yahoo.com

havdvhy@yahoo.com — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 10:31:37 +0000

Let the good times roll!!

By: Marv Plekkenpol

Marv Plekkenpol — Wed, 23 Sep 2020 20:58:30 +0000

I am with my third wife now and I always thought that there was something wrong with me now that I’ve seen what you were teaching everyone is that there is nothing wrong with me and that all three of my ex-wives are narcissists I can’t believe that I got tricked into marrying them I do know what to look for now but it could be too late for me!0

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 27 Aug 2020 04:30:28 +0000

In reply to Nicole.

Hi Nicole,

That’s great you see through this.

Keep healing and empowering you!

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Nicole

Nicole — Tue, 25 Aug 2020 17:24:39 +0000

I would be laughing in the kitchen and my husband would come in being mean asking why I’m laughing. The more I tried to be happy with new hobbies he would sabotage or throw away things so I couldn’t be happy with my new activities that I was doing by myself that made me happy. I’ve tried leaving and going back to him multiple times. So obsessed he was going to hurt me and didn’t want him to get angry with me more. Every time I left And came back he punished me. Now I don’t want to see him again and it’s been 4 days. I see the love bomb, devaluing and discarding phase all within last week the most rapid cycle yet. I want to shine bright and have a wonderful career! Loved your video thank you Melanie 💕☀️🙌🏻

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 19 Aug 2020 07:01:19 +0000

In reply to Col.

So true Col!

It’s totally bizarre, and so “n”!

Mel 🙏💕💚