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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 07:16:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242359&quot;&gt;Peace&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Peace,

acceptance is such a powerful move towards true healing.

I&#039;m glad that my messages can help.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242359">Peace</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Peace,</p>
<p>acceptance is such a powerful move towards true healing.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad that my messages can help.</p>
<p>Much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Peace		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242359</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Peace]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2020 14:39:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This was my experience the exact thing (sex) that he initially gave me was after about six months withdrawn. He knows want you want and how to manipulate you now and you have had the drug and the high. You become this toy that they pick up and play with at times then get tired of and discard. It is the opposite of love. The “off” part is there and I first I didn’t want to accept it. The healing is a process and even three years later these video messages keep me on my true path. Melanie is an angel in my book.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was my experience the exact thing (sex) that he initially gave me was after about six months withdrawn. He knows want you want and how to manipulate you now and you have had the drug and the high. You become this toy that they pick up and play with at times then get tired of and discard. It is the opposite of love. The “off” part is there and I first I didn’t want to accept it. The healing is a process and even three years later these video messages keep me on my true path. Melanie is an angel in my book.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242357</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2020 08:34:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242278&quot;&gt;FreeMyDaughter&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi FreeMyDaughter,

I want you to know with all of my heart that the best way that you can help her is to heal you.

If you google my name plus &quot;help our children&#039; you will see my numerous resources that explain this in deep detail.

I hope that this can help you and her

Much love to you both

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242278">FreeMyDaughter</a>.</p>
<p>Hi FreeMyDaughter,</p>
<p>I want you to know with all of my heart that the best way that you can help her is to heal you.</p>
<p>If you google my name plus &#8220;help our children&#8217; you will see my numerous resources that explain this in deep detail.</p>
<p>I hope that this can help you and her</p>
<p>Much love to you both</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242355</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2020 08:30:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242258&quot;&gt;Skarlett Young&lt;/a&gt;.

I am so pleased for you Skarlett that you are out.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242258">Skarlett Young</a>.</p>
<p>I am so pleased for you Skarlett that you are out.</p>
<p>Much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242354</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2020 08:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242257&quot;&gt;Carol Vevle&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Carol,

it is very challenging hun, but the light will win!

I&#039;m so glad that you have stood up and are claiming your power.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242257">Carol Vevle</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Carol,</p>
<p>it is very challenging hun, but the light will win!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so glad that you have stood up and are claiming your power.</p>
<p>Much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Michman		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Michman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2020 01:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242213&quot;&gt;Michman&lt;/a&gt;.

Addendum: What may not have quite come across above is the felt epiphany that oneself is the meaning, and the perceiver/projector of meaning, and the source or giver of meaning. Meaning is not just a concept, although we can turn it into a concept or a definition that one can put on oneself, instead of becoming aware that one is that and emanates that simply by already being it - even if subconsciously.  It is the loss of oneself-as-meaningful (thru subconscious/conscious narcissistic abuse and dependency) that one then projects out the loss or absence of meaning in life or reality. When that happens enough, only the narcissistic perpetrator seems to remain as anything meaningful in one&#039;s life, even if it is a negative meaning that one is projecting as meaningful.  Through self-healing, it is the opening up of and the claiming of space for the awareness of the reality that the regaining of one&#039;s own physically rooted sense of oneself as being naturally and intrinsically meaningful, that restores the sense of natural, intrinsic meaningfulness in life and reality, and in others&#039; life and reality -- and therefore the natural, intrinsic respect in and for oneself, others and reality.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242213">Michman</a>.</p>
<p>Addendum: What may not have quite come across above is the felt epiphany that oneself is the meaning, and the perceiver/projector of meaning, and the source or giver of meaning. Meaning is not just a concept, although we can turn it into a concept or a definition that one can put on oneself, instead of becoming aware that one is that and emanates that simply by already being it &#8211; even if subconsciously.  It is the loss of oneself-as-meaningful (thru subconscious/conscious narcissistic abuse and dependency) that one then projects out the loss or absence of meaning in life or reality. When that happens enough, only the narcissistic perpetrator seems to remain as anything meaningful in one&#8217;s life, even if it is a negative meaning that one is projecting as meaningful.  Through self-healing, it is the opening up of and the claiming of space for the awareness of the reality that the regaining of one&#8217;s own physically rooted sense of oneself as being naturally and intrinsically meaningful, that restores the sense of natural, intrinsic meaningfulness in life and reality, and in others&#8217; life and reality &#8212; and therefore the natural, intrinsic respect in and for oneself, others and reality.</p>
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		By: FreeMyDaughter		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242278</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[FreeMyDaughter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2020 18:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Melanie,
This is exactly how my ex-husband hooked me in.  I was so ripe for the picking at the time that I played right into his hand.  Today, I see him doing the same thing to my 12 year old daughter and I&#039;m powerless to do anything about it.  He&#039;s confusing and manipulating her so much that she is lost.  How can I help her?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melanie,<br />
This is exactly how my ex-husband hooked me in.  I was so ripe for the picking at the time that I played right into his hand.  Today, I see him doing the same thing to my 12 year old daughter and I&#8217;m powerless to do anything about it.  He&#8217;s confusing and manipulating her so much that she is lost.  How can I help her?</p>
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		By: Skarlett Young		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242258</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Skarlett Young]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2020 12:41:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Yes, unfortunately I ran into such a person and really my life at that moment very quickly stopped. I stopped going my own way and it greatly affected my appearance, my mental and physical health. For a year I found the strength to leave such a person and really got very great pleasure from life.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, unfortunately I ran into such a person and really my life at that moment very quickly stopped. I stopped going my own way and it greatly affected my appearance, my mental and physical health. For a year I found the strength to leave such a person and really got very great pleasure from life.</p>
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		By: Carol Vevle		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissists-make-you-feel-like-you-dont-deserve-better/#comment-1242257</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Carol Vevle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2020 12:04:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi, there beautiful! How is it down under. I left my family for Lent in 2019 &#038; the narcademon a day or so before Mother&#039;s Day 2020. We aren&#039;t talking since, but he&#039;s spying &#038; stalking me. He is also recruiting other nacissist. Also, he has caused financial abuse. So now, I write for two different sites &#038; loving it. There was attempted arson &#038; a maintainance man tried to blame me, but I was in a hospital, at that time &#038; heads are going to roll. I&#039;m almost done a case to the Comsumer&#039;s Financial Protection Bureau, all 300 pages. Since I have been badly trashed, I&#039;m redoing my apt. Organizing &#038; redoing my office. I now contribute writing articles for two sites &#038; I love it. I have a man that I&#039;m friends with &#038; slowing finding nice people. Stood up to four narcissist &#038; I mean business. Thanks, too all you wondrful coaches, you really did help me face my reality!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, there beautiful! How is it down under. I left my family for Lent in 2019 &amp; the narcademon a day or so before Mother&#8217;s Day 2020. We aren&#8217;t talking since, but he&#8217;s spying &amp; stalking me. He is also recruiting other nacissist. Also, he has caused financial abuse. So now, I write for two different sites &amp; loving it. There was attempted arson &amp; a maintainance man tried to blame me, but I was in a hospital, at that time &amp; heads are going to roll. I&#8217;m almost done a case to the Comsumer&#8217;s Financial Protection Bureau, all 300 pages. Since I have been badly trashed, I&#8217;m redoing my apt. Organizing &amp; redoing my office. I now contribute writing articles for two sites &amp; I love it. I have a man that I&#8217;m friends with &amp; slowing finding nice people. Stood up to four narcissist &amp; I mean business. Thanks, too all you wondrful coaches, you really did help me face my reality!</p>
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