Comments on: Narcissists Trauma Bond You To Keep You Ensnared

By: gülbeyaz

gülbeyaz — Thu, 17 Mar 2022 13:31:49 +0000

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By: gülbeyaz

gülbeyaz — Thu, 17 Mar 2022 13:29:48 +0000

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By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 31 Jan 2022 22:45:11 +0000

In reply to Dagmar.

Hi Dagmar,

it’s my pleasure.

Love and healing to you

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Dagmar

Dagmar — Sat, 29 Jan 2022 05:54:46 +0000

Melanie, a HUGE thank for your work and the insights you share. It’s been eye-opening to me and I actually left the narcissist I been married to for 20 years and successfully went no contact and stayed no contact which was kind of easy as I was replaced immediately with a new lover by the narcissist.
In this article, especially the AGiTATION and GUILT part resonate with me and I keep working on this until I will have healed myself back to wholeness

By: Isadora

Isadora — Wed, 26 Jan 2022 00:48:11 +0000

Melanie, this article so clearly speaks to my issues with regard to my malignant narcissist sister and narcissist father. My sister, who is a walking nightmare, has continuously tried to make me feel bad and blame me for everything and anything, while making herself out to be a saint. My parents always treated her as though she could do no wrong. The turning point came for me when she was screaming in my face, with my father close by, trying to get me to physically attack her on the camera-phone her husband was holding up. I finally really saw what she truly was and what she was trying to do to me, on-camera no less, so she could show my reaction to the rest of our family that she has been smearing me to for years. That’s when I calmly pointed out that the stress she is currently creating can cause my father who was nearby to have another stroke. I also told her that her thoughts and feelings belong to her alone and have nothing to do with me. After this, she no longer tried to attack me and didn’t even want to speak to me again.
I credit my awareness and response to participating in your NARP program. I read and reread your articles and am doing the modules. I have been slowly separating from my family’s narcissistic behavior and from them. Letting go of the family I love but cannot be treated well by, has been difficult for me. But it saves your soul. I don’t have any guilt, I just have alot of sadness now. I hope I reach the point where my grief and sadness dissipates. I’m working on it. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever needed to do.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 24 Jan 2022 03:29:36 +0000

In reply to MosaicHeart 2216.

Hi Mosiac Heart,

thank you for your lovely acknowledgment.

I’m so pleased that this granted you a shift!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: MosaicHeart 2216

MosaicHeart 2216 — Fri, 21 Jan 2022 01:30:35 +0000

Mel this article was so razor sharp & full of truth navigating us to freedom & and as always underpinned with the deepest love & care, for your thrivers. Your such a gift to us all, I was exhaling as I read it. Felt the load shift & leave! God Bless you!
Thank you so very much x🌹

By: MosaicHeart 2216

MosaicHeart 2216 — Fri, 21 Jan 2022 01:23:02 +0000

In reply to andrea. Dear Andrea, All the professionals in psychology tell us they never change. As well as those who are seasoned survivors tell us they will not change. The currency of your life is time, which we never get back. I pray you will keep nurturing yourself, pour love into yourself. Do all the things that use to make you happy. The music you loved, dance, whatever it was & is do it. There’s the truth & there’s deception. Choose truth & you will walk out of this fog. Breathe deeply look at photos of yourself when you were happy & follow your heart Dearheart one step one day at a time! xx🌹

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 20 Jan 2022 08:55:20 +0000

In reply to Mo.

Hi Mo,

it is lovely that you have dropped in.

Thank you for your lovely comment and keep shining and Thriving!

Mel 🙏💞🦋