Comments on: No More Trauma Or Pain From Narcissistic Abuse https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/no-more-trauma-or-pain-from-narcissistic-abuse/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sat, 22 Jan 2022 14:21:10 +0000 hourly 1 By: Peggyb https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/no-more-trauma-or-pain-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1263650 Sat, 22 Jan 2022 14:21:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10435#comment-1263650 Hi Melanie your videos always empower me to put myself first thank you so much. I can feel myself getting stronger day by day, With your help i shall continue to thrive.

]]> By: Nelson https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/no-more-trauma-or-pain-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1261842 Sun, 09 Jan 2022 17:43:58 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10435#comment-1261842 In reply to Carol Fellman.

Dear Carol
First of all, your body belongs to you and only you. When you once were having sex with your partner, it is something you were doing that one time that belongs to you. In fact I think that it should not even be reported to your husband as far it is none of his business. If your husband became acquainted, he is so free as you are, he could terminate the relationship, he could think she is the love of my life, the only way for me to be without this woman is if she leaves me, I´ll never lose her. Perhaps he loved you, perhaps he didn´t, we can´t know what is in the other person´s mind, this is the mistery. You had an affair because you wanted, perhaps you didn´t love your husband, perhaps you love him so much. If he likes alcohol and porn, it is his free choice, this is not a crime, he is free, you have to see how that affects your life and feelings, and with your free will love him or leave him. All options are on the table, you can feel shame, I don´t see a reason, you may leave your shame behind, it is all up to you. You are today exactly what you are, you have sons, you have a life, if you change a single “bit” of your life, your life would be different today. Life is always worth leaving, your children, your sorrow, your pain, your joy! If you could change the past you wouldn´t have the same loved ones you have now. Live free happy with your soul and body, and do what you think is good and healthy for you, even sexually. I hope you sleep well!!!

]]> By: kelly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/no-more-trauma-or-pain-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1261548 Sun, 02 Jan 2022 16:59:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10435#comment-1261548 In reply to Carol Fellman.

I hope you don’t mind someone other than Melanie replying, Carol, only I wanted to let you know that you deserve to forgive yourself for something that happened so long ago, it’s understandable you sought safety and comfort.
And I hope you don’t mind me mentioning the shame might be caused by generational problems, I’m middle aged so from the next generation to you and you know, feminism changes our experiences as women, it’s no longer considered as shameful to be unfaithful as it used to be, not in your traumatising circumstances.
I’m not professionally qualified to offer advice but can say in an internet friend way, please practice more self love, every day, find the strength to replace self shaming with an abundance of self love.
Love to you and anyone reading suffering today, I hope you experience a year of self love and peace.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/no-more-trauma-or-pain-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1261505 Sat, 01 Jan 2022 08:57:45 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10435#comment-1261505 In reply to Sheree.

Hi Sheree,

you are right the forum is the best place for you to help get direction. This is not a prop it’s deep support and direction.

Truly …

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/no-more-trauma-or-pain-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1261503 Sat, 01 Jan 2022 08:56:11 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10435#comment-1261503 In reply to Carol Fellman.

Hi Carol,

my heart goes to you for everything been you have been experiencing and carrying.

My hugest suggestion to you is to come into my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar where I believe a lot of clarity and also solutions will appear for you – that will be specific with what you have been going through.

Sending you strength and healing

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/no-more-trauma-or-pain-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1261502 Sat, 01 Jan 2022 08:53:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10435#comment-1261502 In reply to Susanne.

That’s awesome this is timely for you Susanne,

Much love to you!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/no-more-trauma-or-pain-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1261501 Sat, 01 Jan 2022 08:52:12 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10435#comment-1261501 In reply to Janos Bene.

Hi Janos,

I LOVE your orientation!

It is totally that of a Thriver, and it’s where the exceptional growth lies.

Much love to you and Happy New Year

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/no-more-trauma-or-pain-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1261500 Sat, 01 Jan 2022 08:50:56 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10435#comment-1261500 In reply to Mary.

Hi Mary,

I’d love to help you by pointing you in the direction of my free resources about this topic.

If you google my name plus “our children” as well as “parallel parenting” you can access my detailed information which I hope can help.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/no-more-trauma-or-pain-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1261499 Sat, 01 Jan 2022 07:56:55 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10435#comment-1261499 In reply to Ron.

Hi Ron,

that is awesome!

You should be so proud of you.

Sending you many blessings for 2022.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

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