Melanie Tonia Evans

How To Shutdown A Narcissist Who Won’t Leave You Alone

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  Narcissists can seem like terminators, who just won’t stop hurting you. So, how is it possible to shut down a narcissist who won’t leave you alone? Is it even possible? People report all the time, even years later, that the narcissist is still terrorising them, making their life hell and continuing to turn up, over and over again. Why is this? Haven’t these people got better things to do? (more…)

 

Narcissists can seem like terminators, who just won’t stop hurting you.

So, how is it possible to shut down a narcissist who won’t leave you alone?

Is it even possible?

People report all the time, even years later, that the narcissist is still terrorising them, making their life hell and continuing to turn up, over and over again.

Why is this? Haven’t these people got better things to do?

Why Is This Still Happening To Me? Overcoming Your Critical Recovery Blocks

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  I know you may be FRUSTRATED! Recovery can be like that. You may be thinking… WHY on earth do I still have narcissists coming into my life? WHY can’t I stop breaking No Contact? WHY do the same issues keep popping up in my life, no matter how hard I try to overcome them? (more…)

 

I know you may be FRUSTRATED! Recovery can be like that.

You may be thinking…

WHY on earth do I still have narcissists coming into my life?

WHY can’t I stop breaking No Contact?

WHY do the same issues keep popping up in my life, no matter how hard I try to overcome them?

What A Narcissist Does At The End Of The Relationship

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Breaking up with a narcissist can be one of the most devastating and traumatising times of your life. So in today’s article, I want to explain to you what a narcissist does at the end of the relationship – and how that can affect you. I really want you to be armed with this information so that you know how to emotionally and practically survive this difficult time. (more…)

 

Breaking up with a narcissist can be one of the most devastating and traumatising times of your life.

So in today’s article, I want to explain to you what a narcissist does at the end of the relationship – and how that can affect you.

I really want you to be armed with this information so that you know how to emotionally and practically survive this difficult time.

The Proven Way to Heal Toxic Relationship Trauma – Part Two

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  I am totally passionate about ending our suffering and healing for real from narcissistic abuse. In Part Two of this series, I am going to explain more about Quantum and Consciousness Science, and how I realised the three keys to heal from abuse on the day I had decided to give up on Life! Together we take a deep and wide dive into Quantum Healing – what it is, how it works and the results it achieves. (more…)

 

I am totally passionate about ending our suffering and healing for real from narcissistic abuse.

In Part Two of this series, I am going to explain more about Quantum and Consciousness Science, and how I realised the three keys to heal from abuse on the day I had decided to give up on Life!

Together we take a deep and wide dive into Quantum Healing – what it is, how it works and the results it achieves.

How Narcissists Keep You Sick, Traumatised And Helpless

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Many people are shocked by how sick, traumatised and helpless a narcissist makes them feel. Even if you have completely gone No Contact, it's as if the abuse lives on inside of you – like some terrible virus. And, of course any contact or news can be like a new batch of poison coursing through your Being. What is going on here?  How can we get out of this? (more…)

 

Many people are shocked by how sick, traumatised and helpless a narcissist makes them feel.

Even if you have completely gone No Contact, it’s as if the abuse lives on inside of you – like some terrible virus.

And, of course any contact or news can be like a new batch of poison coursing through your Being.

What is going on here?  How can we get out of this?

How To Know If A Narcissist Is Finished With You

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  I can understand totally how wondering if a narcissist has finished with you can haunt you. And if we obsess about this, it can be very difficult to move on with our life. Many people ask these things often… Will the narcissist try to hoover me? What does it mean when things suddenly go quiet? What should I make of the narcissist contacting me now after (insert the timeframe from days to years)? Could all the things that he or she did start up again? (more…)

 

I can understand totally how wondering if a narcissist has finished with you can haunt you.

And if we obsess about this, it can be very difficult to move on with our life.

Many people ask these things often…

  • Will the narcissist try to hoover me?
  • What does it mean when things suddenly go quiet?
  • What should I make of the narcissist contacting me now after (insert the timeframe from days to years)?
  • Could all the things that he or she did start up again?

My Personal Dating Plan For Weeding Out Narcissists

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  So many people are terrified about dating again especially after being narcissistically abused. But is there a way to navigate dating so that you will never be susceptible again? Is it about ‘where’ to look for a potential mate? I really don’t believe so – because our fears and wounds find us no matter where we are. So … therefore what we really need to look at and understand is WHO you are Being whilst dating – the definite steps you need to make to call in a beloved whilst remaining completely Narc Proof! (more…)

 

So many people are terrified about dating again especially after being narcissistically abused.

But is there a way to navigate dating so that you will never be susceptible again?

Is it about ‘where’ to look for a potential mate?

I really don’t believe so – because our fears and wounds find us no matter where we are.

So … therefore what we really need to look at and understand is WHO you are Being whilst dating – the definite steps you need to make to call in a beloved whilst remaining completely Narc Proof!

Stuck In The Cycle Of Toxic Relationships? Do This!

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  Toxic relationships are mind-bending. They go around and around in the same disastrous circles – without resolution. Chances are you have experienced this – or are still suffering the anguish of trying to change, survive and fix these patterns that just don’t seem to stop. How can you get clarity and direction and UP and OUT of toxic relationships for real? When CAN a toxic relationship transform into a healthy one – and HOW can we make that happen? (more…)

 

Toxic relationships are mind-bending. They go around and around in the same disastrous circles – without resolution.

Chances are you have experienced this – or are still suffering the anguish of trying to change, survive and fix these patterns that just don’t seem to stop.

How can you get clarity and direction and UP and OUT of toxic relationships for real?

When CAN a toxic relationship transform into a healthy one – and HOW can we make that happen?

The Real Reason Why The Narcissist Came Into Your Life

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  Was the narcissist coming into your life a senseless, cruel mistake? Was it to destroy you and what is important to you? Trust me I know you could 100% believe that.  I used to too… However, know there is a REAL reason – an incredible one – that not only holds the key to your full Thriver Recovery… (more…)

 

Was the narcissist coming into your life a senseless, cruel mistake?

Was it to destroy you and what is important to you?

Trust me I know you could 100% believe that.  I used to too…

However, know there is a REAL reason – an incredible one – that not only holds the key to your full Thriver Recovery…

Protecting Yourself From Narcissists As A Highly Sensitive Person

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  It is so DIFFICULT being a sensitive person, who feels another person’s energy acutely. Most of us, who have been abused by narcissists, are highly sensitive people, including me … It can make us feel TOTALLY anxious and unsafe. ESPECIALLY when in the vicinity of a NARCISSIST. We know they have dark moods and can turn into horrible people who hurt us, at the slightest provocation and without warning, So … HOW can we navigate this? (more…)

 

It is so DIFFICULT being a sensitive person, who feels another person’s energy acutely.

Most of us, who have been abused by narcissists, are highly sensitive people, including me …

It can make us feel TOTALLY anxious and unsafe.

ESPECIALLY when in the vicinity of a NARCISSIST.

We know they have dark moods and can turn into horrible people who hurt us, at the slightest provocation and without warning,

So … HOW can we navigate this?