Melanie Tonia Evans

Chronic Health Conditions After Narcissistic Abuse? Watch This

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  Complicated Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) is almost synonymous with narcissistic abuse. So is adrenal malfunction, Fibromyalgia and a host of other nasties. Tragically many people, as a result of sustaining so much trauma, break down into terrible chronic illnesses. Are you wondering how on earth you are going to survive your physical conditions and somehow rebuild and have a healthy and happy life? (more…)

 

Complicated Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) is almost synonymous with narcissistic abuse.

So is adrenal malfunction, Fibromyalgia and a host of other nasties.

Tragically many people, as a result of sustaining so much trauma, break down into terrible chronic illnesses.

Are you wondering how on earth you are going to survive your physical conditions and somehow rebuild and have a healthy and happy life?

Is Your Friend A Narcissist? 5 Ways To Know

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  Do you have a friend who leaves you feeling drained, uncared for and even EXPLOITED? Is the relationship one-sided, with you holding the SHORT end of the stick? Maybe this person is just selfish and needs a talking to – where you are honest about what is going on for you, and what you really need to have a healthy and happy friendship with them. Maybe you are too scared to do this or you don’t know how to start the conversation (or even want to have it). (more…)

 

Do you have a friend who leaves you feeling drained, uncared for and even EXPLOITED?

Is the relationship one-sided, with you holding the SHORT end of the stick?

Maybe this person is just selfish and needs a talking to – where you are honest about what is going on for you, and what you really need to have a healthy and happy friendship with them.

Maybe you are too scared to do this or you don’t know how to start the conversation (or even want to have it).

Why Narcissists Are So Cruel To You And Kind To Everybody Else

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  Narcissists can be so lovely, charming, friendly and downright accommodating with everyone else but SO moody, dark, nasty and even cruel to you. Why is getting the narcissist to do ANYTHING for you near impossible, or when assistance is forthcoming, uses this as a bargaining chip or guilt tool against you? How can the narcissist in your life treat you like DIRT and other people like GOLD? If this describes your relationship, then this is a must-read article for you. You will learn exactly WHY this happens as well as how to escape from the horror of it – forever. (more…)

 

Narcissists can be so lovely, charming, friendly and downright accommodating with everyone else but SO moody, dark, nasty and even cruel to you.

Why is getting the narcissist to do ANYTHING for you near impossible, or when assistance is forthcoming, uses this as a bargaining chip or guilt tool against you?

How can the narcissist in your life treat you like DIRT and other people like GOLD?

If this describes your relationship, then this is a must-read article for you.

You will learn exactly WHY this happens as well as how to escape from the horror of it – forever.

Narcissist Who? Becoming Apathetic To An Abuser

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  It’s a beautiful day when you feel NOTHING for an abuser and it's called 'You are NOT my reality'. We all WANT to get there, and I know that includes YOU! You can be forgiven for believing, because of how traumatic, painful and devastating the abuse is, that it will be IMPOSSIBLE to get there. I once believed that too … but I promise you this is NOT true. (more…)

 

It’s a beautiful day when you feel NOTHING for an abuser and it’s called ‘You are NOT my reality’.

We all WANT to get there, and I know that includes YOU!

You can be forgiven for believing, because of how traumatic, painful and devastating the abuse is, that it will be IMPOSSIBLE to get there.

I once believed that too … but I promise you this is NOT true.

How To Shutdown A Narcissist Who Won’t Leave You Alone

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  Narcissists can seem like terminators, who just won’t stop hurting you. So, how is it possible to shut down a narcissist who won’t leave you alone? Is it even possible? People report all the time, even years later, that the narcissist is still terrorising them, making their life hell and continuing to turn up, over and over again. Why is this? Haven’t these people got better things to do? (more…)

 

Narcissists can seem like terminators, who just won’t stop hurting you.

So, how is it possible to shut down a narcissist who won’t leave you alone?

Is it even possible?

People report all the time, even years later, that the narcissist is still terrorising them, making their life hell and continuing to turn up, over and over again.

Why is this? Haven’t these people got better things to do?

Why Is This Still Happening To Me? Overcoming Your Critical Recovery Blocks

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  I know you may be FRUSTRATED! Recovery can be like that. You may be thinking… WHY on earth do I still have narcissists coming into my life? WHY can’t I stop breaking No Contact? WHY do the same issues keep popping up in my life, no matter how hard I try to overcome them? (more…)

 

I know you may be FRUSTRATED! Recovery can be like that.

You may be thinking…

WHY on earth do I still have narcissists coming into my life?

WHY can’t I stop breaking No Contact?

WHY do the same issues keep popping up in my life, no matter how hard I try to overcome them?

What A Narcissist Does At The End Of The Relationship

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  Breaking up with a narcissist can be one of the most devastating and traumatising times of your life. So in today’s article, I want to explain to you what a narcissist does at the end of the relationship – and how that can affect you. I really want you to be armed with this information so that you know how to emotionally and practically survive this difficult time. (more…)

 

Breaking up with a narcissist can be one of the most devastating and traumatising times of your life.

So in today’s article, I want to explain to you what a narcissist does at the end of the relationship – and how that can affect you.

I really want you to be armed with this information so that you know how to emotionally and practically survive this difficult time.

The Proven Way to Heal Toxic Relationship Trauma – Part Two

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  I am totally passionate about ending our suffering and healing for real from narcissistic abuse. In Part Two of this series, I am going to explain more about Quantum and Consciousness Science, and how I realised the three keys to heal from abuse on the day I had decided to give up on Life! Together we take a deep and wide dive into Quantum Healing – what it is, how it works and the results it achieves. (more…)

 

I am totally passionate about ending our suffering and healing for real from narcissistic abuse.

In Part Two of this series, I am going to explain more about Quantum and Consciousness Science, and how I realised the three keys to heal from abuse on the day I had decided to give up on Life!

Together we take a deep and wide dive into Quantum Healing – what it is, how it works and the results it achieves.

How Narcissists Keep You Sick, Traumatised And Helpless

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  Many people are shocked by how sick, traumatised and helpless a narcissist makes them feel. Even if you have completely gone No Contact, it's as if the abuse lives on inside of you – like some terrible virus. And, of course any contact or news can be like a new batch of poison coursing through your Being. What is going on here?  How can we get out of this? (more…)

 

Many people are shocked by how sick, traumatised and helpless a narcissist makes them feel.

Even if you have completely gone No Contact, it’s as if the abuse lives on inside of you – like some terrible virus.

And, of course any contact or news can be like a new batch of poison coursing through your Being.

What is going on here?  How can we get out of this?

How To Know If A Narcissist Is Finished With You

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  I can understand totally how wondering if a narcissist has finished with you can haunt you. And if we obsess about this, it can be very difficult to move on with our life. Many people ask these things often… Will the narcissist try to hoover me? What does it mean when things suddenly go quiet? What should I make of the narcissist contacting me now after (insert the timeframe from days to years)? Could all the things that he or she did start up again? (more…)

 

I can understand totally how wondering if a narcissist has finished with you can haunt you.

And if we obsess about this, it can be very difficult to move on with our life.

Many people ask these things often…

  • Will the narcissist try to hoover me?
  • What does it mean when things suddenly go quiet?
  • What should I make of the narcissist contacting me now after (insert the timeframe from days to years)?
  • Could all the things that he or she did start up again?