Hi Kathy,

I am so happy for you that NARP has helped you shift so quickly!

Awww Kathy you SO get it!

It is a joy to be waking this path with you sweet soul sister. I’m so happy that you found my work and the Thriver Way to heal.

Keep shining Dear Lady, it’s your time!

Mel 🙏💕💋

Dispite of all ur teaching i still can free myself from my narcissists husband. Married for almost 23 years, hv 7 children, he suck me dry. In and out. Can’t find my innerpeace. Can’t do anything. He always there devalueing Confusing brain wahing swearing. Pls help. My spirit has gone my money run dry me my self feeling numb in every aspect. I dont want to spend the rest of my life with thid narcissts. I just want to make good memories with my children then die peacefully. Help mr . Free me from this torturing narcissist

Today I woke up in with a blisssful quietness in my soul for the first time in 36 years…just 8 days after tapping into your healing programs and going no contact. No ruminating. No voices. No loneliness, no fear.

So this is what peace feels like. Wow.

8 days ago I was back in rabid dog mode, frothing at the mouth, and lashing out in sheer pain. I found you, ordered your NARP, hung onto to my laptop and screamed that I wanted out of this pain.

Honey, I am so humbled, grateful and amazed with your devotion to our souls. I can never repay you for what you are doing and how it saved me, but I will pay it forward every day of my life.

Was married for 30 years to a covert narcissist with alcoholic, abusive inlaws, divorced, lost everything, started over. Then, like you, was drawn in by a sweet, altruistic narcissist with severe controlling OCPD for nearly 5 years.

The first key lesson for me was that I no longer had to research what he was doing to me in order to defend myself. Knowing what was wrong did open my eyes, but I kept going back in the ring to defend myself. You showed me it was the wrong approach.

Because of you I can finally see the inner truth: We simply have to step out of that arena to stop being abused.

Simple does not mean easy, and your healing, nourishing emails and NARP is my lifeline back to loving myself and never fearing being lured in by another N.

I no longer fear being on my own.

Now that I know what my spirit was trying to tell me, I get it. Oh man, I GET IT! Looking forward to more healing as I inhale your teachings and love for all of us.

Thank you forever.

Kathy

Hi Val,

I thought it was amusing and cute!

For sure it could have been a hip kinda surfy thing!

Hugs and love to you.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

re: “luv u,” Have experienced American guys doing this over the years, especially when I was younger. I say it belongs under the love bombing category for the insincere ones, but some of the surfer dudes used to just talk that way, without meaning any harm. They were in love with life, and beach babes, and the ocean, and they basically loved everything. No harm, no foul 🙂 Dare I say, just enjoy it without drinking the coolaid 😀

Peace and love –
Val

Dear Deanna,
I have just read your comment and I cannot tell you how EMPOWERING your comment is. You are one of us, a thriver and seeing how clearly you lead your life now after all the horrors it is inspiring for me to do the same. Your explanation of the Toto story and The Wizard of Oz is something I will have as a solution’s visualisation for my narcissistic story for the rest of my life. Brilliant idea.
Thank you for that. Mel helped me to regain my life. Your words are inspiration to move forward.
Best regards, JR

Years ago when I was a teenager, my sister and I were at the beach in the summer and two middle-aged men came up, cocktails in hand, and started flirting with us. We looked older than our ages, but when we told them we were in high school it was like a cartoon cloud of sand that went up as they took off…. pooof…. they were gone. 😉

Hi Nida,

Please know I have created resources regarding divorce, custody and breaking up with narcissists, as well as ‘our children’.

They contain information (if you google those topics and my name) that can give you lots of information.

I hope this can help.

Mel 🙏💕❤️