Gorgeous conversation!! I love to read (SCOUR!!) your replies on these older posts —- there is SO much info here!!!

This reply exchange would make a great post! Why not reprint it for all to see??!

I’d love more expansion on these topics —

be interesting to hear if Lucy went on to shift etc —

Thanks for all these really in depth replies!! I mine them like gold

K

Hello, I’m currently new here but I have a question or a few. I just recently ended a 9yr relationship w my boyfriend. In the beginning we had problems and he blamed me for all of them which I started to believe some of it was true. But then I started to research and came across narcissistic and PA behaviors. He has all of them. I confronted him with them. He denied all. He denies everything to the tee. Nothing is ever wrong w him. Well two weeks ago I told him he needed to move back to his place because we needed our time apart. I trusted him so much w all my assets because he never gave me any suspicion of anything. So while I was at work, he rented a moving company and took all of his things and he stole $40,000 of my savings I had stored away at my home for retirement. Till this day he doesn’t want to give me back my money. He wanted to come back home. I lost all my respect and all the love for him. I am so disgusted to the point that if I see or here his name I want to throw up. I can press charges against him and the police dept for allow him to enter my home without notifying me after he left my home the first time when neighbors called. But he threatened me that he would jeopardize my state govt job. I am afraid of him and his evil ways. My friends say take him back so he can give you ur money back then throw him out w the police but I don’t want to even see him. What should I do? He stole all my money for my car and property and savings, I’m completely broke and carless. Can you help me with advice????

becca,

Thank you for a wonderfully insightful comment here. I have been working Melanie’s programs for about a year and a half and it literally has saved me. I still struggle with the anxiety and the fear, because I am still embroiled in a heated custody battle with my Ex N. All along the way though, I have found that when I am doing the modules and releasing the fear and pain in me, THOSE are the times when the Ex will slip up, or some *miracle* will happen that turns the tide in my favor when I have needed it most, through the countless hearings and conferences and issues the N has put me through. The times I have allowed myself to feel the fear and let him have control over MY state of being, that is when I have NOT done well in court. It really is such a truth that you can’t bring the justice and light to you when you are operating from a state of fear and negative victimhood.

I have our divorce TRIAL coming up in just over a month and it is so very hard not to be afraid when so much is at stake. But reading this blog article one more time and especially your comment becca has given me the vital reminder I NEED right now, to amp up my modules again so I can release my pain and fear and come from my place of truth and of empowerment again. I know that if I do all will work out as it is supposed to and the universe WILL partner with me as long as I partner with myself!! So THANK YOU Melanie as I’ve thanked you many times, and thank you becca 🙂

Kate

Hi Beth,

I am so sorry you have had such a hard life journey with so much pain.

Truly the premise is the same, it is all about getting free on the inside and then more freedom, love and truth comes.

I can’t emphasize this enough.

And the MORE pain and injustice suffered the more it is needed.

MORE love is needed… not less.

Your situation has been monstrous and I would never invalidate that for you … its huge … and please know for almost all of us, at some level, there was rampant injustice we had to inwardly resolve and get to peace on in order for any resolution to come.

The inner “space” needs to happen for that – which is exactly what the Quantum Healing Model is all about.

Wishing you great blessings and healing.

Mel xo

Hi Aga,

Lewis Carroll knew his stuff!

Mel xo

Hi Lucy,

that makes perfect sense – I can understand totally how that would have set you up in a double-bind …a) it’s all about subconscious programming, and b) one of my role model exhibits how that means to be “stuck”.

Come into my new Webinar Group and introduce yourself Lucy in the private Facebook Group, which is starting up next year (if you have a Facebook account) because there you will see first hand exactly how the re-programming is done – and this is before even having to make a commitment to NARP.

I know you are ready for the journey and you will get a lot out of it.

Nothing ventured nothing gained .. and truly what is soooo exciting now is we no longer have to stay stuck in our programming … and you will get to experience how that shift is done.

Mel xo