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		By: Karen		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Karen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Mar 2022 12:19:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/reactive-abuse-when-you-cant-stop-retaliating-with-the-narcissist/#comment-1266905&quot;&gt;Vita Novak&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Vita, 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/reactive-abuse-when-you-cant-stop-retaliating-with-the-narcissist/#comment-1266905">Vita Novak</a>.</p>
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		By: Vita Novak		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Vita Novak]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Mar 2022 09:39:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I would love to unsubscribe, please.
And you do not have UNSUBSCRIBE BUTTON]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would love to unsubscribe, please.<br />
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2022 04:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/reactive-abuse-when-you-cant-stop-retaliating-with-the-narcissist/#comment-1266833&quot;&gt;Liz&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Liz,

you are very welcome and I&#039;m so pleased that this helps!

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/reactive-abuse-when-you-cant-stop-retaliating-with-the-narcissist/#comment-1266833">Liz</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Liz,</p>
<p>you are very welcome and I&#8217;m so pleased that this helps!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2022 04:13:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/reactive-abuse-when-you-cant-stop-retaliating-with-the-narcissist/#comment-1266857&quot;&gt;Patience Kukundakwe&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Patience, 

you are such a beautiful inspiration!

I love that you are sharing healing in Uganda.

Keep shining your Light brightly Dear Angel

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/reactive-abuse-when-you-cant-stop-retaliating-with-the-narcissist/#comment-1266857">Patience Kukundakwe</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Patience, </p>
<p>you are such a beautiful inspiration!</p>
<p>I love that you are sharing healing in Uganda.</p>
<p>Keep shining your Light brightly Dear Angel</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Patience Kukundakwe		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Patience Kukundakwe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2022 11:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Ohh dear Melani, what kind of helpful person you are!!!
I am so grateful that you are there for me and all of us.
I have survived my abused husband . but he keeps coming back with the reason to check on children.
Keeping my life free from retaliating, responding and not putting my emotions to his tantrums have saved me a lot. 

Above all, to get off from narcissistic torture is to have some money, materials friends who understand and love you and many more

Dear , Peter, Molly, Burns, Tracy and many more, 
all narcs are so terryfying but our inner healing like what I got from Melani modules and videos are enough to keep us going.

I am healing day by day and I am happy to announce that I have started helping counseling others from Uganda who are in the situation I was in those days.
Thank you so much and May the living God bless this Melani community]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ohh dear Melani, what kind of helpful person you are!!!<br />
I am so grateful that you are there for me and all of us.<br />
I have survived my abused husband . but he keeps coming back with the reason to check on children.<br />
Keeping my life free from retaliating, responding and not putting my emotions to his tantrums have saved me a lot. </p>
<p>Above all, to get off from narcissistic torture is to have some money, materials friends who understand and love you and many more</p>
<p>Dear , Peter, Molly, Burns, Tracy and many more,<br />
all narcs are so terryfying but our inner healing like what I got from Melani modules and videos are enough to keep us going.</p>
<p>I am healing day by day and I am happy to announce that I have started helping counseling others from Uganda who are in the situation I was in those days.<br />
Thank you so much and May the living God bless this Melani community</p>
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		By: Liz		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Liz]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2022 18:58:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you so much Melanie. It feels so good to know that someone out there understands and gets it. Your kind compassionate words and sensible advice is definitely me helping right now. 🙏  ❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much Melanie. It feels so good to know that someone out there understands and gets it. Your kind compassionate words and sensible advice is definitely me helping right now. 🙏  ❤️</p>
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		By: Tracy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tracy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2022 14:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/reactive-abuse-when-you-cant-stop-retaliating-with-the-narcissist/#comment-1266648&quot;&gt;Peter&lt;/a&gt;.

Personally I think shes just trying to get in your house they always have an agenda! always]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/reactive-abuse-when-you-cant-stop-retaliating-with-the-narcissist/#comment-1266648">Peter</a>.</p>
<p>Personally I think shes just trying to get in your house they always have an agenda! always</p>
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		By: Tracy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tracy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2022 14:01:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/reactive-abuse-when-you-cant-stop-retaliating-with-the-narcissist/#comment-1266660&quot;&gt;Julia&lt;/a&gt;.

What is wrong with them? my ex who I kicked out of my house works 30 min away yet he is living in a rent house thats way too much for him to afford and its on the very next street from me. I dont get it. I guess we just cant understand their sickness.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/reactive-abuse-when-you-cant-stop-retaliating-with-the-narcissist/#comment-1266660">Julia</a>.</p>
<p>What is wrong with them? my ex who I kicked out of my house works 30 min away yet he is living in a rent house thats way too much for him to afford and its on the very next street from me. I dont get it. I guess we just cant understand their sickness.</p>
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		By: Yvonne		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Yvonne]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Mar 2022 23:40:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi modt people on here are talking about narccisstic partners but I’m dealing with my 35 year old son who has given me so much worry and all the things you talk about with their behaviour.Today was Mother’s Day and I hate it I never get a phone call a card nothing and this been going on for about ten years or more it’s driving me mad have been to counselling the lot.My son not been diagnosed but all the signs are there he ticks every box.Just keep thinking is it my fault as he blames me for everything even though it’s been his choice for what he does now.I don’t know where he is or anything and he knows I’m a worrier etc.Just wondered if anyone has this with a son or daughter or is it just partners.I don’t know anyone going through anything like this so upsetting I just shut myself away on these occasions like today as can’t face it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi modt people on here are talking about narccisstic partners but I’m dealing with my 35 year old son who has given me so much worry and all the things you talk about with their behaviour.Today was Mother’s Day and I hate it I never get a phone call a card nothing and this been going on for about ten years or more it’s driving me mad have been to counselling the lot.My son not been diagnosed but all the signs are there he ticks every box.Just keep thinking is it my fault as he blames me for everything even though it’s been his choice for what he does now.I don’t know where he is or anything and he knows I’m a worrier etc.Just wondered if anyone has this with a son or daughter or is it just partners.I don’t know anyone going through anything like this so upsetting I just shut myself away on these occasions like today as can’t face it.</p>
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