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	Comments on: Shifts Happen – How To Create Healthy Boundaries That Don’t Push People Away	</title>
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		By: Nicoleta		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Apr 2017 09:29:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for this episode, Melanie.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this episode, Melanie.</p>
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		By: Nina		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nina]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2017 11:16:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi, I really be one the vile one, I can&#039;t even listen to your videos because I hate myself so much. I left and came to stay at my mother&#039;s place and am now abusing her. I was never aggressive but real second have been cruel to fellow who was bullied himself as a child then bullied me. 

I have become so interney hooked I don&#039;t want to see anyone. Every night I get aggressive towards my mother. The room is filled with fumes that affect my thinking. I am too sensitive. I can read the feelings of animals, hens, dogs, my cows but I&#039;m stuck in the city. I did some things wrong visiting a tarot reader I&#039;m my distress four years ago and it&#039;s gone to hell since. 

John was aggressive, a hoarder, always shouting at me, claiming to be a passifist. I organised everything despite that he was thirteen years older. 

I think k I needed to write a biography to myself . It&#039;s not the place to burden you here, I can&#039;t write of the atrocities trauma, so what now who cares and what does it help to speak about it any more anyway. Abusing my mother now, it&#039;s a fortu year cover up of pain surviving it making good and then now it surfaces for months of festered ill will because I&#039;m terified of a man and what he has done but it&#039;s my mother&#039;s put down of me.... On the pedestal but tearing down.... And even that is a lie. I&#039;m to blame. It&#039;s my fault.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, I really be one the vile one, I can&#8217;t even listen to your videos because I hate myself so much. I left and came to stay at my mother&#8217;s place and am now abusing her. I was never aggressive but real second have been cruel to fellow who was bullied himself as a child then bullied me. </p>
<p>I have become so interney hooked I don&#8217;t want to see anyone. Every night I get aggressive towards my mother. The room is filled with fumes that affect my thinking. I am too sensitive. I can read the feelings of animals, hens, dogs, my cows but I&#8217;m stuck in the city. I did some things wrong visiting a tarot reader I&#8217;m my distress four years ago and it&#8217;s gone to hell since. </p>
<p>John was aggressive, a hoarder, always shouting at me, claiming to be a passifist. I organised everything despite that he was thirteen years older. </p>
<p>I think k I needed to write a biography to myself . It&#8217;s not the place to burden you here, I can&#8217;t write of the atrocities trauma, so what now who cares and what does it help to speak about it any more anyway. Abusing my mother now, it&#8217;s a fortu year cover up of pain surviving it making good and then now it surfaces for months of festered ill will because I&#8217;m terified of a man and what he has done but it&#8217;s my mother&#8217;s put down of me&#8230;. On the pedestal but tearing down&#8230;. And even that is a lie. I&#8217;m to blame. It&#8217;s my fault.</p>
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		By: Lara		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-how-to-create-healthy-boundaries-that-dont-push-people-away/#comment-740885</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lara]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Nov 2016 23:31:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Fantastic episode Mel &#038; Bren!  I feel so grateful to have joined the healing.  Resonate with Bren very much.  Thank you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fantastic episode Mel &amp; Bren!  I feel so grateful to have joined the healing.  Resonate with Bren very much.  Thank you!</p>
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		By: Darcy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Darcy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2016 00:22:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Incredibly helpful and deeply appreciated!]]></description>
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		By: Serafina		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-how-to-create-healthy-boundaries-that-dont-push-people-away/#comment-731823</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Serafina]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2016 02:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wonderful to listen to- God Bless!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful to listen to- God Bless!</p>
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		By: Emma Berley		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-how-to-create-healthy-boundaries-that-dont-push-people-away/#comment-730635</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma Berley]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2016 02:13:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[GREAT JOB! It was wonderful to see Bren, and all the powerful shifting. Thank you Bren for putting yourself out there and Mel for all that you do! It was so cute to see you Bren laughing and smiling at the end of the session!!!!!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>GREAT JOB! It was wonderful to see Bren, and all the powerful shifting. Thank you Bren for putting yourself out there and Mel for all that you do! It was so cute to see you Bren laughing and smiling at the end of the session!!!!!!</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2016 01:17:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-how-to-create-healthy-boundaries-that-dont-push-people-away/#comment-728744&quot;&gt;iona&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Iona,

First of all I really want to say that the resource of the NARP Forum is so vital for anyone (like yourself) who feels like there is some block with module work.

Have you asked directly in the Forum about this block?

Iona, truly, you don&#039;t need to be doing you healing alone - and often it is simply a matter of myself or one of the other Thrivers helping you get your breakthrough and guiding you with what is necessary - that will pop you out of the block and into the other side of it.

There is quite a waiting list for Shifts Happen, and for that reason this is my highest suggestion for you - I wold love too directly tune into and help you in the Forum get past this stage and into your freedom.

Because your freedom is there - once you tweak in a way that will release you into it.

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-how-to-create-healthy-boundaries-that-dont-push-people-away/#comment-728744">iona</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Iona,</p>
<p>First of all I really want to say that the resource of the NARP Forum is so vital for anyone (like yourself) who feels like there is some block with module work.</p>
<p>Have you asked directly in the Forum about this block?</p>
<p>Iona, truly, you don&#8217;t need to be doing you healing alone &#8211; and often it is simply a matter of myself or one of the other Thrivers helping you get your breakthrough and guiding you with what is necessary &#8211; that will pop you out of the block and into the other side of it.</p>
<p>There is quite a waiting list for Shifts Happen, and for that reason this is my highest suggestion for you &#8211; I wold love too directly tune into and help you in the Forum get past this stage and into your freedom.</p>
<p>Because your freedom is there &#8211; once you tweak in a way that will release you into it.</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2016 01:11:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-how-to-create-healthy-boundaries-that-dont-push-people-away/#comment-727806&quot;&gt;Tasha&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Tasha,

I am so pleased both Bren and I got to share this with you ...

Thank you for your gorgeous comment :)

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-how-to-create-healthy-boundaries-that-dont-push-people-away/#comment-727806">Tasha</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Tasha,</p>
<p>I am so pleased both Bren and I got to share this with you &#8230;</p>
<p>Thank you for your gorgeous comment 🙂</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-how-to-create-healthy-boundaries-that-dont-push-people-away/#comment-729433</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2016 01:10:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-how-to-create-healthy-boundaries-that-dont-push-people-away/#comment-727129&quot;&gt;Kismette&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Kismet,

I am so pleased this resonated with you ....

And that you have found some very vital keys that you can now simply walk up to ... embrace and release.

Nothing is silly - it is all a gift simply triggering a deep wound we can free ourselves from.

That is what our freedom is all about.

Bless you :)

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-how-to-create-healthy-boundaries-that-dont-push-people-away/#comment-727129">Kismette</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Kismet,</p>
<p>I am so pleased this resonated with you &#8230;.</p>
<p>And that you have found some very vital keys that you can now simply walk up to &#8230; embrace and release.</p>
<p>Nothing is silly &#8211; it is all a gift simply triggering a deep wound we can free ourselves from.</p>
<p>That is what our freedom is all about.</p>
<p>Bless you 🙂</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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