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		By: Nicoleta		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2017 12:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Beautiful work!]]></description>
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		By: Suzie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2016 05:13:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688597&quot;&gt;ACE&lt;/a&gt;.

ACE- Thank you! I know from the forum it goes both ways- I have also found your posts inspiring and I love the changes in you. X]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688597">ACE</a>.</p>
<p>ACE- Thank you! I know from the forum it goes both ways- I have also found your posts inspiring and I love the changes in you. X</p>
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		By: Suzie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Suzie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2016 11:02:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688561&quot;&gt;Pauline&lt;/a&gt;.

Pauline- Thank you- yes- it does take courage. Interestingly, after the breakdown of our relationship and at one of the most difficult times to get through, the littlest member of our family chose a birthday present with her grandma for me. It was a lovely little angel, and she didn&#039;t know what the writing on it was, but it said &#039;Courage&#039;.  So to get to the points we all do in our lives where we decide we want better for ourselves, and coming to things like this program it does take a lot of courage- as you would maybe know. And when it came to doing this, I was worried. But in the end, I am now in a place that I feel the Universe has my back, and that only good would come of it- for others in finding out more about the program, but of course for myself. 
Thank you for your message- and I LOVE your name Cupcake!
x
Suzie]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688561">Pauline</a>.</p>
<p>Pauline- Thank you- yes- it does take courage. Interestingly, after the breakdown of our relationship and at one of the most difficult times to get through, the littlest member of our family chose a birthday present with her grandma for me. It was a lovely little angel, and she didn&#8217;t know what the writing on it was, but it said &#8216;Courage&#8217;.  So to get to the points we all do in our lives where we decide we want better for ourselves, and coming to things like this program it does take a lot of courage- as you would maybe know. And when it came to doing this, I was worried. But in the end, I am now in a place that I feel the Universe has my back, and that only good would come of it- for others in finding out more about the program, but of course for myself.<br />
Thank you for your message- and I LOVE your name Cupcake!<br />
x<br />
Suzie</p>
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		By: Suzie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Suzie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2016 10:52:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688543&quot;&gt;Miba&lt;/a&gt;.

Hey Miba! Yes- an issue that has settled to a beautiful place now. Ever since this shift, there has been a beautiful sense of fun, compassion, patience and mutual respect that have been the characteristics of our home life. Yes- it rocks!
x
Suzie]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688543">Miba</a>.</p>
<p>Hey Miba! Yes- an issue that has settled to a beautiful place now. Ever since this shift, there has been a beautiful sense of fun, compassion, patience and mutual respect that have been the characteristics of our home life. Yes- it rocks!<br />
x<br />
Suzie</p>
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		By: Suzie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Suzie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2016 10:47:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688603&quot;&gt;anne&lt;/a&gt;.

Anne, 
I&#039;m glad you have been able to find a way to start clearing those beliefs. Actually after having done shifts related to my current difficulties at work, today up popped strong feelings of panic and fear that I would be caught making mistakes and I would be punished.  I&#039;m grateful that some shifts allow me to uncover deeper issues, and I&#039;m glad to have a tool to be able to deal with this.
Thank you for your sharing about this.
x
Suzie]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688603">anne</a>.</p>
<p>Anne,<br />
I&#8217;m glad you have been able to find a way to start clearing those beliefs. Actually after having done shifts related to my current difficulties at work, today up popped strong feelings of panic and fear that I would be caught making mistakes and I would be punished.  I&#8217;m grateful that some shifts allow me to uncover deeper issues, and I&#8217;m glad to have a tool to be able to deal with this.<br />
Thank you for your sharing about this.<br />
x<br />
Suzie</p>
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		By: Suzie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Suzie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2016 10:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688495&quot;&gt;Betty&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Betty,
 I was re-reading the questions in the blog, and I wanted to reply to say that while I came into the NARP program to deal with difficulties around relationship difficulties, it has moved me so much more past that, and I have been clearing many other parts of my life. In effect- it is me interacting with my life, and cleaning up my relationship with myself that has given me so much.
 Thank you for sharing that it has been helping you in other areas of your life too.
 x
 Suzie]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688495">Betty</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Betty,<br />
 I was re-reading the questions in the blog, and I wanted to reply to say that while I came into the NARP program to deal with difficulties around relationship difficulties, it has moved me so much more past that, and I have been clearing many other parts of my life. In effect- it is me interacting with my life, and cleaning up my relationship with myself that has given me so much.<br />
 Thank you for sharing that it has been helping you in other areas of your life too.<br />
 x<br />
 Suzie</p>
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		By: Suzie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Suzie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2016 10:36:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688495&quot;&gt;Betty&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Betty,
I was re-reading the questions in the blog, and I wanted to reply to say that while I came into the NARP program to deal with difficulties around relationship difficulties, it has moved me so much more past that, and I have been clearing many other parts of my life. In effect- it is me interacting with my life, and cleaning up my relationship with myself that has given me so much.
Thank you for sharing that it has been helping you in other areas of your life too.
x
Suzie]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-688495">Betty</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Betty,<br />
I was re-reading the questions in the blog, and I wanted to reply to say that while I came into the NARP program to deal with difficulties around relationship difficulties, it has moved me so much more past that, and I have been clearing many other parts of my life. In effect- it is me interacting with my life, and cleaning up my relationship with myself that has given me so much.<br />
Thank you for sharing that it has been helping you in other areas of your life too.<br />
x<br />
Suzie</p>
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		By: Suzie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Suzie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Sep 2016 03:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-690964&quot;&gt;Tracy&lt;/a&gt;.

Cindy, Tracy, Marissa ...a warm thank you. 
Irelate to the initial falling asleep....it happened to me at first too.  It&#039;s worth continuing on.  I found shifts even when I&#039;d fallen asleep, but really profound changes when I&#039;d Eileen everything down and really stayed on track. 
 And I really really agree....this program is the real deal.!
X
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<p>Cindy, Tracy, Marissa &#8230;a warm thank you.<br />
Irelate to the initial falling asleep&#8230;.it happened to me at first too.  It&#8217;s worth continuing on.  I found shifts even when I&#8217;d fallen asleep, but really profound changes when I&#8217;d Eileen everything down and really stayed on track.<br />
 And I really really agree&#8230;.this program is the real deal.!<br />
X<br />
Suzi</p>
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		By: Suzie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Suzie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Sep 2016 03:15:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-689117&quot;&gt;Lolo&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you Lolo,
And thank you for your kind words about being brave all of you- because it takes one to know one... Emma, Ace, Deborincah, Healing Path, finding-my-self....all of you. 
I love your energy and your words have really resonated with me.  

I&#039;ve dropped in to say how amazingly delightful the relationship with my daughter is becoming.  Many many other triggers are coming up and in the past I&#039;d be so distracted. But these last weeks there has been a great deal of joking, making up poems, subbing, rough using, belly laughing, kindness, compassion and respect between us. 
I had parent-teacher afternoon on a day so stressful that I was only just holding it together. Her teacher put a maths test in front of me that was done in that frantic, distressing week where I found a few calm moments with her, and she hasn&#039;t studied for it. She&#039;s historically really struggled with maths. I&#039;d told her that morning to just breathe through the test! So he put the test down and I thought..uh oh..... Well she&#039;d  got 47/50!   I cried.  He said....I have to tell you two things....I don&#039;t know how on earth you do it but you are doing a good parenting job...! ...and.......I am so grateful I&#039;ve had a chance to meet your little girl...so glad she&#039;s been in my class!
Shift Happens, people. Really really fast and undeniable.  Shift Happens. 
Xx
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/shifts-happen-if-i-dont-get-it-right-ill/#comment-689117">Lolo</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you Lolo,<br />
And thank you for your kind words about being brave all of you- because it takes one to know one&#8230; Emma, Ace, Deborincah, Healing Path, finding-my-self&#8230;.all of you.<br />
I love your energy and your words have really resonated with me.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve dropped in to say how amazingly delightful the relationship with my daughter is becoming.  Many many other triggers are coming up and in the past I&#8217;d be so distracted. But these last weeks there has been a great deal of joking, making up poems, subbing, rough using, belly laughing, kindness, compassion and respect between us.<br />
I had parent-teacher afternoon on a day so stressful that I was only just holding it together. Her teacher put a maths test in front of me that was done in that frantic, distressing week where I found a few calm moments with her, and she hasn&#8217;t studied for it. She&#8217;s historically really struggled with maths. I&#8217;d told her that morning to just breathe through the test! So he put the test down and I thought..uh oh&#8230;.. Well she&#8217;d  got 47/50!   I cried.  He said&#8230;.I have to tell you two things&#8230;.I don&#8217;t know how on earth you do it but you are doing a good parenting job&#8230;! &#8230;and&#8230;&#8230;.I am so grateful I&#8217;ve had a chance to meet your little girl&#8230;so glad she&#8217;s been in my class!<br />
Shift Happens, people. Really really fast and undeniable.  Shift Happens.<br />
Xx<br />
Suzi</p>
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