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		By: Ocean Breeze		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Mar 2022 03:39:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Once again and always, I thank the universe for giving us Melanie Tonia Evens. 
The angel sent to save us from the most ryranical evil on the planet never loses her energy or spirit to help those who are facing life and death situations.
When I found the NARP program at 4AM in the morning online, depiratly searching for help.........
my prayers were answered.
Years later...having been pulled out of a path to destruction..........
I still come back for help and guidance though these iconic videos]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once again and always, I thank the universe for giving us Melanie Tonia Evens.<br />
The angel sent to save us from the most ryranical evil on the planet never loses her energy or spirit to help those who are facing life and death situations.<br />
When I found the NARP program at 4AM in the morning online, depiratly searching for help&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
my prayers were answered.<br />
Years later&#8230;having been pulled out of a path to destruction&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br />
I still come back for help and guidance though these iconic videos</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265856</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Mar 2022 02:20:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265843&quot;&gt;Melody&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Melody,

I&#039;m thrilled that this resonated with you!

Love you to pieces too!

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265843">Melody</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Melody,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m thrilled that this resonated with you!</p>
<p>Love you to pieces too!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melody		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melody]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Mar 2022 19:39:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Mel this spoke VOLUMES to me!!!  Thank you so very much for all of the gritty detail!!
I was a co-dependent enabler!! FEAR of CRAP was instilled in me at a very young age.
I look forward doing the inner work in NARP!! I want that SOUL LEVEL GRADUATION!!!!
Love you to pieces!!!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mel this spoke VOLUMES to me!!!  Thank you so very much for all of the gritty detail!!<br />
I was a co-dependent enabler!! FEAR of CRAP was instilled in me at a very young age.<br />
I look forward doing the inner work in NARP!! I want that SOUL LEVEL GRADUATION!!!!<br />
Love you to pieces!!!!</p>
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		By: Woman From UK		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Woman From UK]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Feb 2022 17:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265231&quot;&gt;Man from California&lt;/a&gt;.

I do agree, as I tried a dating website for the first time, where you are invited to &quot;hot your favourites&quot; .. I didn&#039;t want a meat market, but focused on a man who looked and sounded respectful and genuine ... we swapped numbers, and I came off the website. He took my address, but would not give me his ... first red flag! ... he wanted us to meet up,then did not turn up, I was stone walled, despite trying to be understanding, and, like a fool, asking him to stay at my house ... I finally said that I found his behaviour Manipulative,  and could no longer sustain a relationship, or friendship like this, or the hot and cold behaviour. He promptly sent me a nasty, abusive WhatsApp message, and blocked me everywhere, and is now back on the dating website.This went on for a year, and I still feel deeply hurt and traumatised by this man, who I believed to be genuine. It is fortunate that he did not come to stay, as he obviously had an agenda, and I found the whole thing very painful and confusing ... not angry, or vengeful, just very sad, and confused that he should want to treat me this way. I am not on Social Media, and will avoid dating websites in the future, as they are definitely an excuse for some untrustworthy people to pick and choose others  for their nasty games and behaviour..]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265231">Man from California</a>.</p>
<p>I do agree, as I tried a dating website for the first time, where you are invited to &#8220;hot your favourites&#8221; .. I didn&#8217;t want a meat market, but focused on a man who looked and sounded respectful and genuine &#8230; we swapped numbers, and I came off the website. He took my address, but would not give me his &#8230; first red flag! &#8230; he wanted us to meet up,then did not turn up, I was stone walled, despite trying to be understanding, and, like a fool, asking him to stay at my house &#8230; I finally said that I found his behaviour Manipulative,  and could no longer sustain a relationship, or friendship like this, or the hot and cold behaviour. He promptly sent me a nasty, abusive WhatsApp message, and blocked me everywhere, and is now back on the dating website.This went on for a year, and I still feel deeply hurt and traumatised by this man, who I believed to be genuine. It is fortunate that he did not come to stay, as he obviously had an agenda, and I found the whole thing very painful and confusing &#8230; not angry, or vengeful, just very sad, and confused that he should want to treat me this way. I am not on Social Media, and will avoid dating websites in the future, as they are definitely an excuse for some untrustworthy people to pick and choose others  for their nasty games and behaviour..</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2022 00:30:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265490&quot;&gt;Granny of 14&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Granny of 14,

I am so pleased this is making sense.

I truly can&#039;t recommend NARP enough www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp to start getting the powerful inner shifts you need to get up and out of this.

To learn more about NARP my free webinar is very helpful! www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

I hope this helps!

Sending you love, strength and healing.

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265490">Granny of 14</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Granny of 14,</p>
<p>I am so pleased this is making sense.</p>
<p>I truly can&#8217;t recommend NARP enough <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a> to start getting the powerful inner shifts you need to get up and out of this.</p>
<p>To learn more about NARP my free webinar is very helpful! <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar</a></p>
<p>I hope this helps!</p>
<p>Sending you love, strength and healing.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Granny of 14		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Granny of 14]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Feb 2022 12:14:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wow. You explain things so differently that I couldn&#039;t help but take notice..for the last 23 years I have let my narcasist basically suck the life out of me. These last 2 years I have spent trying to understand these ties so that I can break them. I have held onto the anger and just the horrifying thoughts of instances where I have been traumatized over and over and wondered how this person could just keep on ruining peaple and suffer consequences.  Now I must say,I understand more after reading only a few of your articles and I am not only intrigued but finally hopeful that I will leave this relationship and continue to  my true self and my sanity.  Thank you for your work and for helping us understand  these abusive tactics.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. You explain things so differently that I couldn&#8217;t help but take notice..for the last 23 years I have let my narcasist basically suck the life out of me. These last 2 years I have spent trying to understand these ties so that I can break them. I have held onto the anger and just the horrifying thoughts of instances where I have been traumatized over and over and wondered how this person could just keep on ruining peaple and suffer consequences.  Now I must say,I understand more after reading only a few of your articles and I am not only intrigued but finally hopeful that I will leave this relationship and continue to  my true self and my sanity.  Thank you for your work and for helping us understand  these abusive tactics.</p>
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		By: Fay		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Fay]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Feb 2022 02:12:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Man from California....your comments and  &quot;Iris&quot; ...are very commendable !

in my opinion,I hear Wisdom, caution of social media,and not wishing to DABBLE with &quot; Evil&quot;,thus your voice is coming across with earnestness of heart..
If &quot;EVIL&quot; gets a stronghold ,we loose our power....God is good,,He is not for evil

If we understand God is Good ,and ALL powerful,that he created us in his imagage ,we CERTAINLY do  wish to flee from any Evil. 🙏

Narcarism thrives on Evil! ..the very thing we are advocating &quot; against &quot; 

So let wisdom be our understanding &quot; Our God( Source) given strength so we are able to guarde against the &quot; sublety&quot; of narissism, 
To be aware of the wolves in sheeps clothing that surround us in all their guises!! 

IF GOD  ( source) iS FOR US ,WHO CAN BE AGAINST US. ...🌹🌹🌹🌹

p.s written with Love and understanding 🙏]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Man from California&#8230;.your comments and  &#8220;Iris&#8221; &#8230;are very commendable !</p>
<p>in my opinion,I hear Wisdom, caution of social media,and not wishing to DABBLE with &#8221; Evil&#8221;,thus your voice is coming across with earnestness of heart..<br />
If &#8220;EVIL&#8221; gets a stronghold ,we loose our power&#8230;.God is good,,He is not for evil</p>
<p>If we understand God is Good ,and ALL powerful,that he created us in his imagage ,we CERTAINLY do  wish to flee from any Evil. 🙏</p>
<p>Narcarism thrives on Evil! ..the very thing we are advocating &#8221; against &#8221; </p>
<p>So let wisdom be our understanding &#8221; Our God( Source) given strength so we are able to guarde against the &#8221; sublety&#8221; of narissism,<br />
To be aware of the wolves in sheeps clothing that surround us in all their guises!! </p>
<p>IF GOD  ( source) iS FOR US ,WHO CAN BE AGAINST US. &#8230;🌹🌹🌹🌹</p>
<p>p.s written with Love and understanding 🙏</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Feb 2022 22:25:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265358&quot;&gt;Iris&lt;/a&gt;.

Same Iris!

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265358">Iris</a>.</p>
<p>Same Iris!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Feb 2022 22:17:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265242&quot;&gt;WakinUp&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi WakinUP,

its a great question - and I can really only answer from my perspective and that of others ...

I found that EMDR and tapping (as well as many other body / subconscious modalities) helped. Yet, it wasn&#039;t until Quanta Freedom Healing that I was able to fully release and reprogram deep impacted traumas, which before I was only &quot;managing&quot;. 

The reason being - I feel - is because QFH reaches multidimensional layers of the subconscious, creates numerous integrations back to &quot;The Light&quot; as well as replaces trauma with True Source - the Higher Power that can heal what we can&#039;t. Other healing modalities may not work at those levels (and others).

NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp brings all of this deep healing power together.

I am a QFH purist - I personally haven&#039;t found anything that worked as effectively. Many have reported the same - regardless of what they previously tried.

I love that QFH can be used in conjunction with any other tool that people love supplementing healing with - such as yoga, tapping, EMDR or anything else!

I hope this explains

Mel 🙏💞🦋

I hope that this answers your question.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-trusting-untrustworthy-narcissists/#comment-1265242">WakinUp</a>.</p>
<p>Hi WakinUP,</p>
<p>its a great question &#8211; and I can really only answer from my perspective and that of others &#8230;</p>
<p>I found that EMDR and tapping (as well as many other body / subconscious modalities) helped. Yet, it wasn&#8217;t until Quanta Freedom Healing that I was able to fully release and reprogram deep impacted traumas, which before I was only &#8220;managing&#8221;. </p>
<p>The reason being &#8211; I feel &#8211; is because QFH reaches multidimensional layers of the subconscious, creates numerous integrations back to &#8220;The Light&#8221; as well as replaces trauma with True Source &#8211; the Higher Power that can heal what we can&#8217;t. Other healing modalities may not work at those levels (and others).</p>
<p>NARP <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a> brings all of this deep healing power together.</p>
<p>I am a QFH purist &#8211; I personally haven&#8217;t found anything that worked as effectively. Many have reported the same &#8211; regardless of what they previously tried.</p>
<p>I love that QFH can be used in conjunction with any other tool that people love supplementing healing with &#8211; such as yoga, tapping, EMDR or anything else!</p>
<p>I hope this explains</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
<p>I hope that this answers your question.</p>
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