Comments on: Surviving vs Thriving https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/surviving-vs-thriving/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Tue, 05 Nov 2024 14:23:59 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/surviving-vs-thriving/#comment-1284495 Sun, 18 Feb 2024 10:41:11 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=13150#comment-1284495 In reply to Lesley.

Hi Lesley,

thank you for reporting this and I am so happy for you!

Much Love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Lesley https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/surviving-vs-thriving/#comment-1284493 Fri, 16 Feb 2024 02:37:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=13150#comment-1284493 Hi, mel and the mte ,just like say ,thank you for all you do, am doing the speedy shift , , am lifting out more trauma, am so excited, my life is only getting better and better, am thriving, I love who i have becoming ,each and every day , xxx

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/surviving-vs-thriving/#comment-1280565 Tue, 09 May 2023 04:53:37 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=13150#comment-1280565 In reply to Doug.

Hi Doug,

I’m glad that you found comfort and anchored power in this!

Doug what you are dealing with is MASSIVE and you really have got this.

As my dear friend Dr. Christiane Northrup says “Source / God is large and in charge.” This truly is our Thriver mantra, and it is always correct.

We are all so proud of you!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/surviving-vs-thriving/#comment-1280563 Tue, 09 May 2023 04:49:20 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=13150#comment-1280563 In reply to Carolina.

Hi Carolina,

I am sorry – absolutely that is SO painful. Our precious furbabies are like our children!

It’s devastating that narcissists do this, and they do it because they know it punishes you.

Please know how welcome you are and Im sending you and your dear cat big hugs and healing.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Doug https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/surviving-vs-thriving/#comment-1280517 Sat, 06 May 2023 12:41:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=13150#comment-1280517 I love that this article radiates a new and even more powerful crystalline foundation of clarity, like a beacon guiding through uncertainty and obstacles. That rock solid calm clarity, and really grounding in the core message is so very helpful and just incredibly beautiful. It is not easy when you are enmeshed in endless-seeming legal battles to protect your child. There is always a draining shadow of desperation, a worry that if you don’t get the healing right your soul will disintegrate and you will cause your life to be dominated by ludicrous lies that hypnotize and weaponize people against peace and truth itself. It can all seem confusing and healing can sometimes be the egos way of escaping and avoiding, taking refuge in a blissed out caricature of the real healing because we just want to escape the repeating patterns and feel better. But you come thru so clear. “Thriving” Use the uncomfortable feeling, tune in, go in, this is what we are hear to do.” You are getting thru, Mel. So so grateful for you and your work!

]]> By: Peter https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/surviving-vs-thriving/#comment-1280506 Sat, 06 May 2023 03:28:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=13150#comment-1280506 In reply to Warren.

Intuitively, I knew that I needed to go to the forum and I did that and got incredible help and also some practical module suggestions! It helped me a lot!
This has been a really tough thing for me to be going through but I will get “there”…..

]]> By: Carolina https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/surviving-vs-thriving/#comment-1280489 Fri, 05 May 2023 12:45:34 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=13150#comment-1280489 My ex moved out taking both cats while I was at work & ghosted me 7 months ago. The male cat is very bonded with me. It is breaking my heart to know my male cat has loss his only human companion he snuggles & understands him. It’s so difficult for me to let this pain go as my cat is waiting for me to bring him home. I lose in the court case & now I can’t even see him. My ex is so vindictive & mean that he used the cat to hurt me & doesn’t even care he is hurting the cat emotionally. I’m desperately trying to move on & still struggling to deal with it. Thank you for creating this forum.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/surviving-vs-thriving/#comment-1280476 Fri, 05 May 2023 03:28:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=13150#comment-1280476 In reply to Peter.

Hey Peter,

Warren is so right.

Heal out what you are feeling.

THEN you will go free.

You know what to do …. truly you do …

So much love and big hugs from all of us

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Warren https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/surviving-vs-thriving/#comment-1280469 Thu, 04 May 2023 23:28:22 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=13150#comment-1280469 In reply to Peter.

Peter…..dude……Don`t waste another second.
Get down to work doing NARP module`s..
Set yourself free once and for all.
From that point on there is no going back….
only forward to a new amazing life
Do it…Go for it.

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