Why You Need To Get The Narcissist Out Of Your Head

When you are stuck in the agonising thoughts about the narcissist, it is excruciatingly difficult to function.

Your mind is so busy going over the lies, betrayals, and your incessant questions to yourself “How could this happen to me?” “How could they do this to me?” “How has my life turned out like this?”  that everything seems overwhelming. Simply focusing on mere survival, such as eating, sleeping, paying bills and running your everyday life can feel like torture. Continue reading “Why You Need To Get The Narcissist Out Of Your Head”

How The Phenomenon Of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs And How You Can Overcome It Part 2

Hello!

I hope you enjoyed Part One of “How the Phenomenon of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs and How You Can Overcome It”. If you haven’t seen it yet please do so before watching this video.

I am really excited about Part Two, because it will grant you an even deeper understanding of narcissistic abuse, and how it has affected you.

After watching Part Two you will learn the following – Continue reading “How The Phenomenon Of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs And How You Can Overcome It Part 2”

How The Phenomenon Of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs And How You Can Overcome It Part 1

I’m very excited!

The video series I have been working on in the background for the last few months called “How the Phenomenon of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs and How You Can Overcome It” is complete, and today part one is released.

By the end of this series you will understand what has occurred to you energetically as a result of narcissistic abuse,  and how you can use this knowledge to start recovering faster than you could have ever imagined.

Part one of this series lays the foundation to understand: Continue reading “How The Phenomenon Of Narcissistic Abuse Occurs And How You Can Overcome It Part 1”

How to Make the Narcissist Powerless to Affect Your Life

Have you been in a situation where you were completely obsessed, terrorised and emotionally crippled with the fear of what the narcissist was going to do next, and then your worst fears came true?

The smear campaign hit with maximum effect, the phone call to your boss discrediting you happened, and the threat the narcissist was holding over you was executed with ruthless intensity.

Or … Continue reading “How to Make the Narcissist Powerless to Affect Your Life”

How to Overcome The Pathological Lies Of The Narcissist And Win The Divorce, Settlement And Custody Battles

 

One thing is certain with narcissists; when you separate from them and still have legal property or custody to sort out …

They will pathologically lie.

As such, you can expect fabricated stories, twisted facts and downright dirty tactics.

The narcissist is very capable of telling solicitors, police and courthouses exactly whatever lies he or she wants to try to punish you, get the upper hand and win, project blame, create smear campaigns, play the victim as if he or she has been vilified (especially when things aren’t going well for him or her), and of course, disregard any personal accountability for his or her unacceptable behaviour. Continue reading “How to Overcome The Pathological Lies Of The Narcissist And Win The Divorce, Settlement And Custody Battles”

Is He or She Really A Narcissist? Laying Boundaries and Accountability

 

I get numerous emails every week asking this exact question.

So many people ask – How can I be sure?

I want you to be very clear on what I am about to state. It’s actually not important whether someone has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) or whether they don’t, or are displaying enough narcissistic traits to make your life painful or unbearable. What is important is that you are aligned with and living the life that you wish to live, and creating that truth by holding powerfully to that truth – no matter how hard that may be to do ….

Most people have some narcissistic traits and it is normal to have exhibited narcissistic behaviour at some point in their life. However, there is a big difference between normal people who are capable of taking responsibility and being accountable for their behaviour and those with NPD who are incapable of this. Continue reading “Is He or She Really A Narcissist? Laying Boundaries and Accountability”

Why Does Abuse Keep Happening to Me?

Have you ever asked yourself this question? Have you been devastated, infuriated and frustrated when you realise that many of your relationships, and possibly even the one with a parent was with a narcissist?

There are Solutions

I want to take you on a little bit of an analogy here…

Can you imagine having repeated problems with a car? No matter what work you have had done on the engine, the breakdowns keep occurring. Continue reading “Why Does Abuse Keep Happening to Me?”

“The Narcissist Didn’t Love Me!” Coming To Terms With This Agony

When we discover essential truths about narcissists, and realise that the narcissist is not capable of genuine love, it’s gut-wrenching. The intense salt in the wounds is the understanding that he or she doesn’t love us now, and never did so.

We may experience this in many different forms. Maybe this person who once vowed and declared we are their soul mate, that they truly love us, and they can’t live without us has moved on to another relationship without even a second glance. And maybe this person is attempting to discredit and destroy us, and is trying to rip us apart in property and custody battles. Continue reading ““The Narcissist Didn’t Love Me!” Coming To Terms With This Agony”

Trying to Make the Narcissist Accountable is Keeping You Hooked

 

As we know narcissists often act in ways that defy all definition of normal. They regularly break the rules, tell lies, break promises, degrade, demean and exhibit unjust, aggressive and abusive behaviour that is inappropriate, childish, without remorse and totally inhuman.

It’s likely, if you have suffered narcissistic abuse, that you have a high level of integrity, and it’s likely you’re known as a person who does the right thing. You have a conscience, and because you do, you’re mindful of considering your environment and other people. Continue reading “Trying to Make the Narcissist Accountable is Keeping You Hooked”

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