Hi Juliet,

thank you for your beautiful and such thoughtful message.

Many people are in the thick of it right now.

It is REAL love, and so much love to you.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

I am in the thick of it right now. Must remember to keep breathing, and this acronym and strategy will help tremendously. Thank you so much Mel, NARP truly is lifechanging and will help set me (and thousands of others) free, as well as bringing us into better alignment, harmony and service with the Universe. Now that’s real love. Thank you.

Family business lost most of their money in real estate bust 30 years ago . Father ‘s depression kicked in dementia /Alzheimer’s . Co-dependent, toxic narcissist mother dragged children in to Not only take care of father but most importantly her as father was always providing . Older brother /spouse and sister refused mother so I became caregiver . I’m the youngest and have no purpose/self esteem except to please narcissistic family who couldn’t careless . Meanwhile my real estate business, family life was requiring way more attention that I was willing to give as caregiving father and domineering mother was causing depression and revealing bipolar disorder that I obviously had but undiagnosed my entire life. Instead of helping me and providing compassion , all exploited my condition and used to their financial advantage . I attempted suicide and while I was recovering separated from all of them minus my own wife and children , I was framed, gaslit as to having embezzled millions of family assets which is logistically impossible but the narcissists make an excellent case by smearing me in my absence so I couldn’t defend myself

Older brother not quite as narcissistic as his covert narcissistic wife , had his own depression issues which weakened his narcissistic stance toward ruining his kid brothers life by framing him for his own embezzlement , felt intense shame and guilt and took his own life.

Even after a horrible tragedy and my attempt to stop the madness with narcissist family by dropping the swords and making amends if to only to grieve a death , the narcissists amped it up on me since they couldn’t feel any responsibility and now hold me 100% responsible for brothers suicide

Mother, whose 14th floor balcony was the chosen location for brothers suicidal jump/plunge, was heard to have said upon hearing that older brother was dead instead of me, “the wrong son jumped”

I have been trying to file suit against narcissists for fraud and breech of signed legal docs but also am trying to insert emotional abuse and distress. Unfortunately the legal system isn’t prepared to deal with narcissistic family members abuse as abuse at all. I would have to have been beaten or stabbed in order to prove this invisible crime

She must do the Narp program. Only she can help herself to become empowered in her own truth. Its about her evolving right out of narc drama. Many free resources by Mel on FB and Y T and free Masterclass to sign up for on Oct 16. She will grow beyond her own expectations. NARP truly is life changing. She will find the answers as she works tge program. Truly brilliant healing work. This work changed my life.

After that I felt bad, that perhaps they meant well and I was truly being too dramatic and fearful. I also I didn’t want to hurt the person or create conflict. I also wasn’t positive they’d leave me alone. So I called them to say again with as much kindness as possible hat I don’t want to reopen the friendship and that I wish them well. I even let myself become manipulated into staying their Facebook friend to make the situation seem less ugly; I was guilted from having them turn the tables on me and making me feel like I have no reason to leave them when they mean well.

The conversation went no where but sure enough they fried requested me. It made me sick to see it like what did I do, but I added them to keep my word. I restricted my privacy settings so they could not see pictures or my whereabouts which would in the past be a trigger for them to stalk, harass, and attack me for not doing things with them.

Sure enough they discovered somehow I restricted them and attacked me 8 hrs later saying that I’m immature for adding them without providing full access to my current stuff.

I responded that “I don’t need to justify my privacy settings or anything else. I don’t want communication. Please don’t contact me or my family.” I then blocked this person on all fronts. And they still kept trying to make contact but whatever.

My issue is that my intuition was right and I’m mad for ignoring it and sacrificing my own well being to enmesh with them because I cared about their feelings. It was such a passive and disempowered move. Then when I sent that message and went no contact, I felt like I was escaping something.

It does not feel as empowering as it did three years ago. I feel guilt now that I’ve released the fears around it, and wondered if I left in a way that was too cold. When I called I was so passive and wished them well so many times and now I was just like I’m done and calmly stood up for myself and left.

How do I recover knowing I ended things somewhat from a place of victimization. My whole efforts to make them feel better and avoid conflict by talking to them in the first place did not come from my Higher Self’s perspective and was inauthentic. The decision to leave is authentic, but I feel like I just left in response to an attack and didn’t put that “wish you well” seal on it. I guess I want them to know now that I don’t have hard feelings toward them and I thank them for being the catalyst to my change. Yet still don’t want to reopen things. When I’m not fearful and empowered see my role in it too, I wish I could have tried for a still assertive but yet softer exit.