Comments on: The 5 Most Common Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Mistakes https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-most-common-narcissistic-abuse-recovery-mistakes/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sun, 07 Jul 2019 03:08:04 +0000 hourly 1 By: Amber Scott https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-most-common-narcissistic-abuse-recovery-mistakes/#comment-1133164 Sat, 26 Jan 2019 04:56:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5890#comment-1133164 Hi Mel
Going through a divorce after 13 years
I never knew he was a narcissist!
I was hospitalized for Suicide!
He came to the hospital the Fist day to see me
He spent the other evenings at his mistress apartment and never wanted his children to see me in the hospital!
I filed for divorce which surprised him!
I went through a difficult journey because he was my best friend!
His mistress knew he was married and never cared!
She wanted to be with an attorney?? Which he his!
I am happy to say a year later… I am in a better place loving Jesus Christ as my Saviour and Lord!
I pray for him daily to stop hurting people.
I am his 4th wife and I think he is onto his 5th wife with his mistress!
They both have hurt me with the lies and the infidelity!
His children doesn’t have a relationship with him and her.
My friends have said “ He will get his karma with her!
Your information on your website is fantastic! I have grown a lot reading your articles!
Thank you
My wish for them both is find out how it feels to be hurt!

]]> By: Donna https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-most-common-narcissistic-abuse-recovery-mistakes/#comment-1112795 Sat, 01 Dec 2018 22:10:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5890#comment-1112795 In reply to Lucy.

That’s great I to am healing each and everyday. Continue to follow your dream and wishes .

]]> By: Mama mikha https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-most-common-narcissistic-abuse-recovery-mistakes/#comment-1089308 Mon, 23 Jul 2018 17:19:22 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5890#comment-1089308 I wish i could really practice this course successfully. I really want the real me. I really need to see the genuine happiness in my kids face.

]]> By: Mama mikha https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-most-common-narcissistic-abuse-recovery-mistakes/#comment-1089300 Mon, 23 Jul 2018 17:09:07 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5890#comment-1089300 In reply to Kim.

True. Same goes here with me. LOA does helps me attract certain things but not peace of mind… LOA doesn’t give me ‘my self’

]]> By: Mama mikha https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-most-common-narcissistic-abuse-recovery-mistakes/#comment-1089296 Mon, 23 Jul 2018 17:04:09 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5890#comment-1089296 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Hi Melanie

I just received the 12th day of your free course. Although I don’t really sure that I’m doing it right, seems like everything has fallen into pieces.
By god grace the narcissist that I’ve been co-dependent was ‘gone by force’ just now. Just like that… i know i will be blamed altough I didn’t do anything for him to get taken by the authorities. But I know you will help me heal.
I’m so broke right now n can’t invest to heal my self but by god grace I’m sure i will get the full course to heal….

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-most-common-narcissistic-abuse-recovery-mistakes/#comment-1085081 Wed, 18 Jul 2018 02:43:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5890#comment-1085081 In reply to Anna.

Hi Anna,

Absolutely healthy vulnerability is strength!

I love that definition too.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Anna https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-most-common-narcissistic-abuse-recovery-mistakes/#comment-1084838 Tue, 17 Jul 2018 20:05:52 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5890#comment-1084838 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Thank you Melanie!
Could it be, that “healthy vulnerability” is about strenght, not about weakness? I always wondered (when I did not understood the concept), how could any man find vulnerability “attractive”, if vulnerability means weakness, being fragile, talking forever about past hurts etc. etc. (no doubt n’s find that very attractive!)

It is so, that the right way to be vulnerable in a healthy relationship, is for example, I stop being man/people pleasing, afraid to be honest, in case it will make him leave me, does not like me anymore etc., stop walking on eggshells. That I’m not afraid to be true…to myself.

I want to be very clear about this all. The n experience was so bad, I don’t ever want to be in that situation again! I probably did all the possible misstakes, I fully trusted him, thought I had finally found the one.

By the way, I found somewhere in internet this definition of n’s: they do not want someone, they want something. This is probably (sadly) the most accurate definition of the n’s I have ever read!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-most-common-narcissistic-abuse-recovery-mistakes/#comment-1084181 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 23:26:51 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5890#comment-1084181 In reply to Melissa.

Hi Melissa,

Please know that offer sponsorship onto NARP for those in need.

You can email support@melanietoniaevans.com to explain your circumstances and apply.

I hope this helps.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-most-common-narcissistic-abuse-recovery-mistakes/#comment-1084174 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 23:15:05 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5890#comment-1084174 In reply to Jane.

Hi Jane,

That is so great it hit the target!!

Mel 🙏💕❤️

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