Comments on: The 5 Painful Childhood Patterns That Make You Prone To Narcissists https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-painful-childhood-patterns-that-make-you-prone-to-narcissists/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Fri, 30 Sep 2022 09:11:05 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-painful-childhood-patterns-that-make-you-prone-to-narcissists/#comment-1274363 Fri, 30 Sep 2022 09:11:05 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11893#comment-1274363 In reply to Denise Wells.

Hi Denise,

the state don’t want children to be empowered or educated by their parents, let alone anyone who helps them be self-defined.

OTHER systems outside of the state are needed for our children, primarily within the homes.

Any child of mine would not be going to school – period.

A completely NEW schooling system is needed – the old one is corrupt and broken beyond repair – the state is the predator.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Denise Wells https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-painful-childhood-patterns-that-make-you-prone-to-narcissists/#comment-1274357 Fri, 30 Sep 2022 03:48:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11893#comment-1274357 In reply to judy.

Hi Judy, I agree with you about putting Melanie into the national curriculum. Can we not tech our children, in schools, from an early age, about the narcissist. Obviously, from an age appropriate place. If I could do one thing in this life (before my time is up) it would be to help children and empower them. Within each year group, explain more about personality development, but with the emphasis on how we can be vulnerable to predators and how we can get the help if we feel vulnerable. Something has to change in the school system, I feel really strongly about that

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-painful-childhood-patterns-that-make-you-prone-to-narcissists/#comment-1273745 Tue, 13 Sep 2022 03:16:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11893#comment-1273745 In reply to L W.

Big hugs and love to you L W.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: L W https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-painful-childhood-patterns-that-make-you-prone-to-narcissists/#comment-1273691 Sun, 11 Sep 2022 14:27:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11893#comment-1273691 Oh my word, I almost cried when I read this. It’s so true. And what’s worse is that I see myself repeating the same patterns with my own children.

]]> By: Matti https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-painful-childhood-patterns-that-make-you-prone-to-narcissists/#comment-1273232 Fri, 02 Sep 2022 06:11:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11893#comment-1273232 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Awww Mel it has only been since you and your beautiful revelations have helped to open my eyes and my heart that i can see this whole thing in such a different and life changing way!🙏❤️🤗
I – as one of many, was so lost in the super massive black hole that was sucking the life force out of me – I was so lost…and devastated and so very sad…soul nearly completely destroyed….but then somehow I found you….and this phenomenon journey just opened up inside me! And I can’t tell you how deeply and humbly grateful I am for you and everything you are and bring to us…
My dear, you are so beautiful, and my truest hope is that you are blessed beyond measure for everything you are and all you’ve given – so beautiful….
Thank you Mel – from the bottom of my now expanding heart 💓💓💓
Much love my dear ❤️🙏❤️

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-painful-childhood-patterns-that-make-you-prone-to-narcissists/#comment-1273222 Fri, 02 Sep 2022 02:33:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11893#comment-1273222 In reply to Matti.

Hi Matti,

what a breath of beautiful empowered fresh air you post is!

You have nailed this!

So much love Matti and keep shining for yourself and us all

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-painful-childhood-patterns-that-make-you-prone-to-narcissists/#comment-1273219 Fri, 02 Sep 2022 02:30:11 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11893#comment-1273219 In reply to Kim.

Hi Kim,

you are very welcome!

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Matti https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-painful-childhood-patterns-that-make-you-prone-to-narcissists/#comment-1273213 Fri, 02 Sep 2022 00:08:38 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11893#comment-1273213 Awww Karena… How beautiful you put all that ….
How profound it is that in that black darkness, as you said so well, you found the light – paradoxes – life so full of them, ….
So grateful that we – who were lost in ignorant darkness & debilitating pain of our very souls, we were led to the beautiful healing light – it’s like the nebula – a dead star – all blown up, with a nursery of new born stats – new life from death –
All of the wonders of the universe that are inside of each of us!🌟💗

I love the happiest news ever, that there something bigger going on – a big picture , as Mel puts it – that’s incredible hope in a what appears to be just a hopeless mess –
We are all beautiful universes – all brought together from our beautiful messes!

Thanks for responding Karena!🌟💗
It is wonderful to be with souls who understand….
So good….

Keep shining bright my dear ❤️❤️!🌟🌟!!

]]> By: Karena https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-5-painful-childhood-patterns-that-make-you-prone-to-narcissists/#comment-1273200 Thu, 01 Sep 2022 16:05:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11893#comment-1273200 In reply to Matti.

Matti, this is so beautiful! Thank you for your inspiring and uplifting words.
Unprecedented times indeed, and how blessed I feel that I have this profound opportunity to discover the Universe Within. I cannot imagine that I would have made such a rich discovery, had I not been enveloped in the immense darkness, despite my not even knowing it!
NARP has truly brought me the gift of awareness and clarity, as I connect to the Truth of Who I AM.

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