Comments on: The 7 Ways Your Life Transforms After Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-7-ways-your-life-transforms-after-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sat, 28 May 2022 10:04:04 +0000 hourly 1 By: Carla Corelli https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-7-ways-your-life-transforms-after-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1269877 Sat, 28 May 2022 10:04:04 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11267#comment-1269877 It is really sad that so many parents prime their children to accept abuse when they grow up. Children are entitled to boundaries and opinions – they fact that they are little does not negate their need to develop their own sense of self. In fact, if anything it makes it more important.
So thank you for this post Mel

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-7-ways-your-life-transforms-after-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1269086 Sat, 14 May 2022 23:43:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11267#comment-1269086 In reply to Robert G.

Hi Robert,

thank you for your note and please know how welcome you are.

This is wonderful that you have let go and are choosing you!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-7-ways-your-life-transforms-after-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1269085 Sat, 14 May 2022 23:41:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11267#comment-1269085 In reply to leaveno bennett.

Hi Leaveno,

I’m so pleased that my material has been able to help you.

Letting go is everything!

Many blessings to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Robert G https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-7-ways-your-life-transforms-after-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1268964 Fri, 13 May 2022 02:55:00 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11267#comment-1268964 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Hello, Ms. Evans, my sister. I had my “epiphany” years ago, yet continued to allow my NPD/BPD partner to abuse me. Three weeks ago, while in a deep depression and living in constant fear, I came across your website and teachings.
Now, I’ve had an honest epiphany. I am co-dependant, an empath, and yes, a “fixer”! You’ve helped me accept her as what she is, without judgment, pity, or any desire to change her. I now detach, set boundaries, enforce my boundaries, and am learning to love myself again, despite her constant gaslighting and rage.
I had a therapy appointment today and saw a Psychiatrist last Tuesday.
Thank you for the free advice. Usually in advice, you get what you pay for. Not here, with you. Thank you. I wish you and all of your Thrivers peace, safety, good health, and happiness always.

Respectfully,
Robert

]]> By: Katie https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-7-ways-your-life-transforms-after-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1268832 Wed, 11 May 2022 17:15:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11267#comment-1268832 In reply to MarΓ­a.

Thanks for making comments like this. I have left a abusive relationship with a lawyer…
and I lost custody of my child, as he threatened. I sometimes fantasize about getting back with him after everything…so that I can have my family whole…I know, when I look at this closer and really investigate it, that I wouldn’t want to put myself (and my daughter) in that situation again…but reading this gives me hope for a future where MY family (my daughter and myself) can be rekindled and happy and healthy and move forward!

]]> By: leaveno bennett https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-7-ways-your-life-transforms-after-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1268791 Wed, 11 May 2022 04:12:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11267#comment-1268791 Im feeling stronger by the day reading your post. I went though 4 years of hell. I finally told myself me first no more letting him traumatizing me I love me enough to let go. Thank you so much for inspiring me that life gets better no contact for 6 weeks feels great…

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-7-ways-your-life-transforms-after-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1268713 Tue, 10 May 2022 07:24:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11267#comment-1268713 In reply to Molly.

Hi Molly,

I love where you are at with all of this!

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Molly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-7-ways-your-life-transforms-after-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1268634 Mon, 09 May 2022 13:33:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11267#comment-1268634 Great article. It is so nice to have reminders of what our truth is all about. When we are healing it can be so easy to go back to the old way of thinking. I found myself so upset the other day and back into a reactionary stance. But, I caught myself and was able to calm down, albeit slowly. But I did it. I find myself getting angry at what the narcissists do. They are so dishonest and even engage in criminal acts. My narcissists have harassed me for years.
But I have to remember that if it wasn’t the current narcissists I am dealing with, then it would be some other nasty narcissist, until I am able to grow from this experience. I recently have set boundaries on these people and they have reacted as expected, with tantrums and anger. I now realize that they can smear my name all they want, and if people believe them, then the narcissist has just done some of my work for me. A healthy person will not just believe that someone is the “devil” based on another person’s account. So if the person does believe the narcissist’s lies, then I know that person is not that healthy themselves.
well- off to get on with my day πŸ™‚

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-7-ways-your-life-transforms-after-recovering-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1268628 Mon, 09 May 2022 10:20:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11267#comment-1268628 In reply to Esme.

Hi Esme,

please know how welcome you are.

We look forward to welcoming you into our beautiful NARP Thriver Tribe

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

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