Comments on: The Best Way To Find Closure From Narcissists https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-best-way-to-find-closure-from-narcissists/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sun, 03 Feb 2019 05:23:16 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-best-way-to-find-closure-from-narcissists/#comment-1136067 Sun, 03 Feb 2019 05:23:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6296#comment-1136067 In reply to Randy St.Pierre.

Hi Randy,

What is so important with our healing and detachment is to get to the bottom of the emotional reasons why we keep breaking no contact and heal those.

Have you been in one of my free workshops to learn more about this?

http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

I know this will help you a lot.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Randy St.Pierre https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-best-way-to-find-closure-from-narcissists/#comment-1135998 Sun, 03 Feb 2019 01:41:45 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6296#comment-1135998 Hi Melanie, I thank God every day for pointing me in your direction and the courses and videos help me so much. I have a long way to go before I get better, I have good days and bad days but I know I’m on the right path to healing because of you. My biggest struggle right now is trying to stay no contact but I find myself slipping every few days. She has not contacted me for about 3 weeks and that was only a text message to say a final goodbye but I haven’t been able to accept yet. I just wish I could stop these urges to message her. Thank you for helping me keep my sanity.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-best-way-to-find-closure-from-narcissists/#comment-1135537 Fri, 01 Feb 2019 20:16:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6296#comment-1135537 In reply to Diane Sumner.

Awww Diane,

Thank you so much for your beautiful words.

I have a big smile on my face and warmth and much love in my heart after reading your post.

So many blessings to you Angel.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Diane Sumner https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-best-way-to-find-closure-from-narcissists/#comment-1135441 Fri, 01 Feb 2019 14:26:13 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6296#comment-1135441 What an utterly informative sweet essence of a flower your are Melanie! Loving your humble attitude with regard to being on the front page of “Elle ‘Spirituelle’, January 2019!” I thank you wholeheartedly and infinitely for sharing your N.P.D knowledge, with esoteric love! Dear Poet Rumi “When thirsty for spiritual life, don’t settle for just a sip; stay with your thirst and you’ll see how the heavens will open their doors to the water of life.” You have more than quenched my thirst for true inner life expansive being! Ta very much! xxx 🙂
Lovehearts across the continents! xxx 🙂

]]> By: Karen https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-best-way-to-find-closure-from-narcissists/#comment-1116829 Thu, 13 Dec 2018 01:22:04 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6296#comment-1116829 In reply to Vicki.

Before I went cold turkey and yet he got married, stalked me at work, I always thought in the back of my head…these guys must take lessons to do this over and over to women. He was an empty shell and when he last said to me at work…you haven’t changed a bit. I just walked away laughing at that handsome creep! And that was after 5 years of not seeing him. He said he wondered if I was dead. How creepy!!!

]]> By: Chris Fleming https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-best-way-to-find-closure-from-narcissists/#comment-1108945 Thu, 15 Nov 2018 19:09:40 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6296#comment-1108945 In reply to Vicki.

Wow it’s like u know her personally nd it’s crazy cuz I was happy Doing good nd she caught me slipping we have the word incredible is a understatement to even use to how itense nd deepest pleasure our sex life is really I’m talking bout 1 in a million sex the best nd the she is the narisc nd she loves the sex even if she has a new supply a new man she js feeding off still she comes to me for tht sex only I can give her nd she knows tht is where my power is nd tries to block it days weeks even month or so nd then she needs me now tht I bnb kno she is a narcissist her behavior really makes sense nd me like a fool keep going back Cuz I live the sex wit her the most I been wit other gorgeous women nd pleasure them like I do her but the other girls dont satisfy my sex addiction the way she does nd I give in nd destroy her pleasure her to the fullest its really crazy

]]> By: Angelina Lazar https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-best-way-to-find-closure-from-narcissists/#comment-1104976 Mon, 29 Oct 2018 13:00:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6296#comment-1104976 Hey Mel!
Awesome as always!
Yes… the WHOLE THING IS they REFUSE to VALIDATE WHO YOU ARE!
– Because IF THEY DO, they would be ADMITTING HOW MUCH MORE YOU ARE than THEM!
Voila!
This is WHAT they can NEVER do!
They are EMPTY SHELLS of people!
Totally VOID of DEEP EMOTION, COMPASSION, LOVE & AFFECTION!
SAD. . . .
And YES… they DO THINK YOU need HELP… not THEM!…..
SENSELESS BEINGS on this planet, for sure!

Anyway, THANK YOU!
Will definitely be going through your NARP Program; still getting to that!
Even though I left my mother to God when I was 8 years old; I saw RIGHT THROUGH HER then and NEVER LOOKED BACK!
But they keep trying to GET YOU BACK IN THE SYSTEM!
NOT A CHANCE!
I have SET MY BOUNDARIES SO STRONG, they’re a FORTRESS, and NOT A ONE OF ‘EM DARES ASK ME A QUESTION!
Her and 2 generations under her that bought into her MALARKEY!

It DOES teach you to REALLY DEVELOP yourself!
People MARVEL over HOW EVOLVED I AM!
I did SO MUCH WORK on SELF, I INVEST EVERYTHING IN ME!
AND LOVE LIFE, ANIMALS, PLANTS, PEOPLE & MY CHURCH!
They say I brighten a room when I walk in and that I pass on SO MUCH JOY to others, it’s INFECTIOUS!

This has to be the IMPETUS!
They WILL YOU EVIL, but God turns it ALL AROUND FOR GOOD (Rom 8, 28)!
The POISON IS THE CURE, Mel!

Best & God Bless!
xo¬A
+Q-S/

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-best-way-to-find-closure-from-narcissists/#comment-1104307 Fri, 26 Oct 2018 23:03:39 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6296#comment-1104307 In reply to Karen.

Hi Karen,

I’m glad that my information has been able to help you so much up to this point.

Please know that it is the deeper healing, the finding and releasing of the painful traumas and beliefs in our past that keep us hooked up into not getting closure, that are the stumbling block.

That’s why the inner work to find and release these is the true solution to break free … it’s not a cognitive thing!

I’d love you to connect to my inner transformational resources do that you can powerfully and quickly find and turn that key.

http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Karen https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-best-way-to-find-closure-from-narcissists/#comment-1104277 Fri, 26 Oct 2018 20:19:07 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6296#comment-1104277 In reply to Karen.

Oups. A part of my comment is missing. I was just saying that I feel that my narcissist ex will never understand why I have left him and I think that is ego is keeping him out of the knowing of is « condition ». So that part who I have empathy for him, for the fact that I see him alone and «clueless » of why I left, is the one who keep me away from closure. I suppose I don’t need excuses but understanding from him. Saying that, I realise that I’m still waiting for something outside of me to happen. Not healed yet, I guess. 🙁

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