Comments on: The Coronavirus Pandemic – My Thoughts and Support https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-coronavirus-pandemic-my-thoughts-and-support/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Thu, 09 Apr 2020 05:43:17 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-coronavirus-pandemic-my-thoughts-and-support/#comment-1235371 Thu, 09 Apr 2020 05:43:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7969#comment-1235371 In reply to Mary Drew.

Hi Mary,

that’s wonderful that you feel that inner solidness and calmness.

Thank you for your beautiful words of encouragement and so much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Mary Drew https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-coronavirus-pandemic-my-thoughts-and-support/#comment-1235322 Wed, 08 Apr 2020 17:07:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7969#comment-1235322 Since this virus burst upon the scene, I have felt totally calm and had a strong feeling that I was not put upon this earth to add to the panic and worry which has been afflicting so many. I’m a healer and feel that this is my time to do my best work and shine light in the darkness. I feel only light around me and have no fear. I’m isolating with a severely disabled and vulnerable friend who would not have coped if left alone in this pandemic. I feel that, by doing this, I’m helping our overstretched National Health Service here in the UK. It’s as if my whole life as a healer was leading up to this. Yes, there are frustrations in life at the moment but they no longer send me into a tailspin like they did before I did the work on my narcissistic abuse – lifelong from my mother. I’m in a different place mentally. We WILL come through this!

Sending peace, love and healing to all in the Thriver community.

Mary xxxxxx

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-coronavirus-pandemic-my-thoughts-and-support/#comment-1235146 Sat, 04 Apr 2020 22:23:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7969#comment-1235146 In reply to Angelique.

You are very welcome Angelique,

I’m so pleased it has.

Yes I am very well thank you and dealing really well.

Quanta Freddom Healing helps incredibly well!

Love and blessings to you.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Angelique https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-coronavirus-pandemic-my-thoughts-and-support/#comment-1235112 Sat, 04 Apr 2020 07:33:37 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7969#comment-1235112 Thank you Mel, that’s really clarified things for me. Hope you’re all well and going through this in the most positive way possible. X

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-coronavirus-pandemic-my-thoughts-and-support/#comment-1235091 Sat, 04 Apr 2020 00:51:27 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7969#comment-1235091 In reply to Angelique.

Hi Angelique,

this is such a great question.

As a rule of thumb what I do is up-level the emotions that I can’t let go of and transcend with my own self-soothing.

What I have discovered is that pain is inevitable but leaving unhealed traumas within is suffering. By doing shifts with NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp what happens is that we come out of pain and the trauma within into instant compassion and a higher graduation of self as a result of bringing in the light whether trauma once was.

There is no need to leave the trauma there and suffer in order to get higher evolution and greater compassion and wisdom for things.

(I’m getting on to soon what you did to transmute the emotion!)

I totally agree that it is a horrible punishment to be incarcerated and deprived of your freedom, however that painful trauma and emotion can be shifted out of your being and the light can come in and then you just won’t feel like that. You will discover that freedom doesn’t have to be physical it can be intensely and incredibly spiritual.

And, what you did as a deep acceptance of the painful emotion transmitted it anyway! You shifted it internally with loving acceptance. So back to my original statement what I’ve discovered is that if I can’t accept and shift something into peace, then the shifting with NARP is incredibly powerful and useful.

I love this conversation that we just shared because it is a very important one.

Much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Angelique https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-coronavirus-pandemic-my-thoughts-and-support/#comment-1235045 Fri, 03 Apr 2020 13:33:51 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7969#comment-1235045 Dear Mel,
I have been wondering whether it’s necessary to uplevel every painful emotion. Especially now that we are faced with huge loss in so many parts of our lives and I have been wondering if some of it is not meant to transform us and make us more compassionate.
I was feeling fine then after a week of lockdown a monstrous wave of grief washed over me out of nowhere and knocked me for 6. So I went inwards and asked what it was about and the answer was “your freedom is gone”. I had been living with a really high degree of freedom answering to no one and I rather loved it. Now not only have I got to stay at home but I can’t even entertain the idea of going here and going there freely for god knows how long and it really hurts, like a horrible unnatural shrinking of your spirit and I thought that it is a horrible punishment to be incarcerated and deprived of your freedom and that it is such a beautiful, precious and important thing to be appreciated and cherished. So I accepted that the pain I felt for its loss honoured its value for me and I sat with it respectfully for a day, then I perked up just like that. It was not a trauma, it was a normal consequence of an unusual situation which contained its gift. I expect there will be further such gifts paid for in grief in the near future. What do you think about this?

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-coronavirus-pandemic-my-thoughts-and-support/#comment-1234806 Tue, 31 Mar 2020 01:25:30 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7969#comment-1234806 In reply to Nicole.

Hi Nicole,

It’s my pleasure and I love your take on this time.

I agree wholeheartedly.

Many blessings to you and yours.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Ocean Breeze https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-coronavirus-pandemic-my-thoughts-and-support/#comment-1234779 Mon, 30 Mar 2020 17:23:57 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7969#comment-1234779 Mother Earth has been groaning and trying to send a message to mankind that things have gone to far. We as Thriver`s, being sensitive people know this already. Abuse is abuse no matter what.
When I parked the school bus to begin the lockdown, a sense of relief filled my entire body.
It was like a huge weight was lifted off me and my breaths were of 100% pure, sweet oxygen.
Once again, I thank the universe for putting Melanie into my life and introducing me to Jeff’s amazing words, that helped to put this miracle into prespective
I waited on purpose to comment on this most important video of Melanie’s.. The message I was receiving was a need to ground. This worked out great. Today is the day to read the other brothers and sisters heartwarming letters and comments. All are so aimed in a loving and positive direction.

My heart and soul has not and will not became heavy or disoriented. NARP is always there 24/7.
We as Thriver`s, once again have to thank the universe for giving us Melanie Tonia Evens

Fear is useless,
Faith is necessary,
Love is everything

Martin Sheen

]]> By: Julie https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-coronavirus-pandemic-my-thoughts-and-support/#comment-1234765 Mon, 30 Mar 2020 13:36:58 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7969#comment-1234765 Upon reflection of this post it reinforces how important and connected each and everyone of us really are. One person has the power to go within to change themselves and that has a huge ripple effect on the world. Just as one person isolating themselves in their home has a huge impact on containing the virus. It also hits home that Prana , breath , is the life force within, and every breath we take impacts our relationship with ourselves and others. Thank you Melanie for this post and the wisdom you share.

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