Comments on: The Narcissist Is Getting Their Karma Every Single Day https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-is-getting-their-karma-every-single-day/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Thu, 04 May 2023 14:47:11 +0000 hourly 1 By: Victoria https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-is-getting-their-karma-every-single-day/#comment-1280461 Thu, 04 May 2023 14:47:11 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11873#comment-1280461 I’ve had this surface for me again recently. My Mother would neglect me and leave me without and then have no consequences (I could see) and so now my ex leaving me “without” and then going on living his life with his new girlfriend [days after sleeping with me- claiming he loved me and would do anything to make me happy], with every video game he could want, a partner tolerant of his alcohol and drug abuse, lots of kids in the house to give him attention, her providing for him etc.. It’s made me feel really annoyed and frustrated. It feels like I don’t matter. As if people can treat me horribly and then trot off on their merry way. Deep down I know that’s not true but I find myself wanting proof it isn’t.

]]> By: Natalie Winter https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-is-getting-their-karma-every-single-day/#comment-1274727 Sun, 09 Oct 2022 08:08:22 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11873#comment-1274727 Thank you Melanie. I could hardly get out of bed this morning, exhausted from these repetitive thoughts. This is by far the best video yet. I can now get through my Sunday xx

]]> By: California Girl https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-is-getting-their-karma-every-single-day/#comment-1273400 Mon, 05 Sep 2022 03:30:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11873#comment-1273400 You helped me to leave and go no contact now for 2. 7 yrs. after a long and painful 25 yr. marriage. He is a textbook covert narc. So happy now I am free!
The divorce lawyers took care of things, and my adult sons and I are now thriving. Thank you so much for everything. You are a blessing.

]]> By: elaine chrystman https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-is-getting-their-karma-every-single-day/#comment-1273125 Wed, 31 Aug 2022 15:00:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11873#comment-1273125 Reaching out to a lawyer and the Alzheimer’s society as the narc in my scenario is my sweethearts daughter also his Power of attorney .
She is pure evil.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-is-getting-their-karma-every-single-day/#comment-1272991 Mon, 29 Aug 2022 00:42:55 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11873#comment-1272991 In reply to Andrea Smith.

I’m pleased Andrea this has been so affirming for you!

Much Love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Andrea Smith https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-is-getting-their-karma-every-single-day/#comment-1272969 Sun, 28 Aug 2022 11:00:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11873#comment-1272969 Simply magnificent and so consoling !

Thank you very much Melanie for sharing g your wisdom and life experience with us !

Andrea

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-is-getting-their-karma-every-single-day/#comment-1272954 Sat, 27 Aug 2022 23:18:55 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11873#comment-1272954 In reply to Jo.

Hi Jo,

it is really beautiful to read your note and I’m so pleased that I have been able to help you!

Well done for being strong and choosing you!

You are still so young darling lady and you have an incredible Thriver life ahead of you.

There are women in our NARP community at 80 who broke free and adore their lives now!

Much Love and blessings to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Jo https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-is-getting-their-karma-every-single-day/#comment-1272940 Sat, 27 Aug 2022 12:19:21 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11873#comment-1272940 Wow….how grateful I am for having found you Mel, in my 60 th year of life!
I have needed to hear and know every nugget of wisdom and insight you have shared and I pore over your posts and listen so carefully to your videos.
I have just finally found myself able to go no contact with a man who I lived with after high school and who came back into my life a few years ago, and I am finally understanding why things went the way they did!
I had suffered so much – blaming myself for the relationship not working out, both times – until finally I began to learn about narcissism.
I am a child of a narcissistic mother and have been co dependent my whole life and every relationship and friendship has been to narcs.
I can’t say enough how deeply grateful I am for everything you bring to us Melanie!
I am old now, but I feel like I have an opportunity now to change and grow as a person who has been given this wonderful opportunity and gift of knowledge!

The pain was so intense and overwhelming and I was lost in a sea of self blame and agonizing ignorance!…now it’s subsiding the more I learn!

I hope you get back so many blessings for the help you give Mel!πŸ€—πŸ₯°πŸ™πŸ’•

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-is-getting-their-karma-every-single-day/#comment-1272924 Sat, 27 Aug 2022 04:36:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11873#comment-1272924 In reply to Peter.

Hi Peter,

I do know – and it is mindblowing what loss and trauma you have been through Dear Man …

Oh gosh that is so difficult what you are going through – yes it does answer my heart goes out to you and I pray you can bring it to a conclusion.

They really do love hanging on, having control over and keeping their supply going.

Your greatest option is freedom – however that becomes necessary.

It’s great you are speaking up and standing your ground to get your soul back.

Much Love to you too Peter

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

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