The feeling is mutual Sammy for you too darling!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

Thanks Mel. really love you too.. so grateful for you. So much love xxxx

Sammy darling,

I loved you showed up asking the questions and trusted you!

Yes, sweetheart, we definitely are moving towards more organic, community living.. and it’s a beautiful thing.

After this powerful and perfect graduation, you just had, your tribe is coming.

How awesome you were in our Workshop Sammy!

Love you!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

Yes Mel, it really helps. I completely innerstand that it is difficult for you re de platforming so I totally get that.

And yes, I know I don’t need a leader per se.. I guess I am really concerned about the future and recognising that on some level the way we exist in the future will be more based in lived community and living on the land, self sufficient and regenerative, and it has been so confusing as he has been the only person who sees it like that within my own experience and the only one who is taking direct action to create that. I so want to be part of that community and walking away is not just from him but from all that goes with it and it does feel confusing because he talks about all the things which are important to me and that define thriving! setting up community based on shared values etc….and in so many ways, he has been the perfect partner. BUT…..He can’t show up for me on an emotional level and doesn’t have empathy! He wrote to me and said that because I questioned his integrity, (ie: asked him some questions) he has to back himself and walk away from me because he gets his own guidance direct from source and doesn’t need to listen to what my experience is. Anyway, I did the due diligence, asked the difficult questions and asked for what I needed.. and it ended our relationship so it flushed him out. I know he is a deeply covert/spiritual narcissist and it has been the most confusing out of the three narc relationships I have had! I am NARPING away on it and will definitely work on the beliefs to work on with SH and R and GS that you suggested. And now I will set up the life I want to live on my own and see who gravitates towards me! Thanks as always Mel… and I loved the Manifesting the One workshop too. Much love and gratitude… xxxx

You are very welcome Vera,

That makes me very happy that you feel the Light.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

Hi Patricia,

please know how welcome you are. I’m thrilled that NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp has helped so much.

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

Hi Molly,

I’m glad you enjoyed the article.

Flying monkeys are groomed because narcissists are consummate liars – they know how to get people to believe them!

Also, there are many “righteous” people. carrying tons of unhealed trauma who can be used, quite easily, to direct their anger against someone. They are convinced this is a “great cause”.

Narcissists know this and work it determinedly…

Does this make sense?

Mel 🙏💞🦋