Comments on: The Stalking Narcissist – Will They Ever Leave You Alone?

By: Libby

Libby — Sun, 24 Mar 2024 18:19:30 +0000

Asking people not to care when they’re being abused smells a bit suspicious to me. Some of us will never heal. Some of us will never be able to get to the point where we are able to “be indifferent” to abuse. In my opinion, that’s even more dangerous as it brings down our defenses. You should not be posting things like this as it can be very dangerous. are you a trained abuse counselor? Telling abused people to be indifferent if someone is stalking them and potentionally harboring a weapon is a great faux-self-empowerment concept, but does remind me deeply of what a narcissist or sociopath would say about a situation like this. I can’t believe you have an entire website like this posting all of this stuff. It’s absolutely foolish.

By: Fed up

Fed up — Mon, 29 May 2023 00:13:51 +0000

In reply to Angela. It’s been seven for years his lunatic friends are doing it in his absence. I have zero to do with him or them. It’s ridiculous. I just want to be left alone. These people have never even spoken to me I don’t know how he convinced these people to continually harass me.

By: Kausam Salam

Kausam Salam — Tue, 26 Oct 2021 01:02:52 +0000

Thank you. May Allah bless your wisdom and gracious heart. Ameen

By: Faye

Faye — Sun, 03 Oct 2021 07:30:50 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans. Best ♥️♥️♥️

By: Yeah

Yeah — Sat, 02 Oct 2021 19:41:50 +0000

Yes and their minions a few times, I spotted them sitting at a nearby table trying to listen in on the conversation at my table or I was offered a job out of nowhere by someone I didn’t apply with who started asking me questions about where I live and where I plan to move, then they made a point to make some passive aggressive verbal jabs in line with the narcs baloney agenda or suddenly liking a bunch of my public posts even though they were deleted years ago. 🥴😷

By: karla

karla — Wed, 23 Jun 2021 07:43:21 +0000

In reply to Sierra. sierra fuck what this woman says ! get the cops involved ! killing yyour dog is too fucking far. OBVSLY what shes saying isnt fuckihng working !!!

By: Samantha

Samantha — Tue, 08 Sep 2020 10:48:02 +0000

100% 100% and I am so so happy to be righ where I need to be after all the years of narcissistic abuse from my parents then my ex husband. I could never be happier than I am now to feel SO free.

By: Ali

Ali — Sat, 01 Aug 2020 07:35:28 +0000

In reply to Angela. Hi Melanie Thanks for this it’s really helpful. I am currently being stalked. This can be from driving past my house, walking where I walk the dog, turning up at restaurants and also checking social media. He is now blocked on all social media but I can’t present him approaching me. When he has approached he is very aggressive and I am not able to handle it calmly. What would your advice be to this?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sat, 20 Jun 2020 00:06:34 +0000

In reply to Arie.

Hi Arie,

Please know that a narcissist abusing you in your life is a spiritual healing experience of the highest magnitude.

Because what they do is push and trigger the deep often unconscious unclaimed and unhealed wounds within ourselves.

Persecution and smearing are huge emotional triggers, and I promise that when you turn inside to heal and work on these and emerge as totally benign to what the narcissist is trying to do, then you will go free.

Then the experience outside of you will all dissolve away and go.

This then means that your spiritual inner healing graduation is complete and the narcissist will leave your life.

I’d love you to come along and learn more about this in my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

I hope that this can help, and sending you power, healing and relief

Mel 🙏💕💚