Comments on: The Superiority Of Narcissism https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-superiority-of-narcissism/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Tue, 27 Jun 2023 08:18:12 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-superiority-of-narcissism/#comment-1263706 Mon, 24 Jan 2022 03:35:49 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10577#comment-1263706 In reply to ShellyD.

I agree with you Shelly (and Man from California)…

we have so much love, wisdom and empowerment shared here!

How blessed are we all?

I am humbled by how our community is so very different (in the best possible ways) from standard abuse forums!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-superiority-of-narcissism/#comment-1263702 Mon, 24 Jan 2022 03:31:06 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10577#comment-1263702 In reply to Beck.

Hi Beck,

thank you for the hug! I’m thrilled you are doing well!

Much love to you too!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-superiority-of-narcissism/#comment-1263701 Mon, 24 Jan 2022 03:30:00 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10577#comment-1263701 In reply to Peggyb.

It’s my pleasure Peggy!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-superiority-of-narcissism/#comment-1263699 Mon, 24 Jan 2022 03:27:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10577#comment-1263699 In reply to Iris.

Hi Iris,

I love all that you have written.

EXACTLY – oak trees do not give figs.

It all comes back to love for self, Divine and divinity. Then Love is expressed and flows, and “knows” what to do.

There are times in relationships where it is appropriate to ask for what we need, people are not always going to be “love expressed”.They may have stuff that momentarily has cut them off from “being Love”. Narcissists are “love void” … there is no connection to Self, Divinity or Others – therefore there is nil true love capacity.

You can’t grant what you are not Being.

Love you!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-superiority-of-narcissism/#comment-1263696 Mon, 24 Jan 2022 03:21:15 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10577#comment-1263696 In reply to Ray.

Hi Ray,

you have brought up such a powerful point.

We are attracted to the Love Code – the people who don’t represent this (healthy people) do not shine for us.

Until the inner work is done to change the inner Love Code back to health.

That is exactly what NARP does http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

It is my highest (and only) suggestion for you, regarding what I know really works.

Please know there are many wonderful men in our NARP community – you will have seen some of them posting here.

Please know you can and will turn this around!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Peggyb https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-superiority-of-narcissism/#comment-1263648 Sat, 22 Jan 2022 14:13:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10577#comment-1263648 In reply to Man from California.

Thank you so much for your support man from Cali. Melanie’s programs are so inspiring,

]]> By: Man from California https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-superiority-of-narcissism/#comment-1263632 Fri, 21 Jan 2022 19:38:50 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10577#comment-1263632 Yes, Melanie’s content is outstanding. She is exemplary in how she shares her past anguish and path to recovery and thriver-hood, this sets the stage for us to also do so here. As we discover this safe place to do exactly that, I agree with you ShellyD that “the deeply thoughtful replies” aren’t simply icing on this cake, they are a hearty meal of deep nutrition, giving the readers / consumers of this blog deep sustenance as we see how much the cookie-cutter sameness of narc behavior resonates so similarly over and over again. This validation is refreshing and healing and I thank all contributors here for sharing their experiences.

]]> By: ShellyD https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-superiority-of-narcissism/#comment-1263628 Fri, 21 Jan 2022 16:39:15 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10577#comment-1263628 Thank you as always Melanie for the great level of insight as usual but ,equally I was so impressed particularly by the deeply thoughtful replies on this blog .The level of intelligent insight was exceptional .I learned a lot from the replies themselves.Sending love to all.

]]> By: Lisa https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-superiority-of-narcissism/#comment-1263624 Fri, 21 Jan 2022 13:50:09 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10577#comment-1263624 In reply to Lynn.

Oh
My
Gosh!!
Lynn, you so eloquently described the experience of living with such a disordered individual. I don’t say person or human, because I can no longer see them as such. They have no soul that I can see. Thank Source, God, Universe…whoever, whatever…that there is this NARP program available!! It saved my life!!

I spent 34 years in that quagmire of what you described and thanks to the NARP… the first day I used it in 2015 the disordered person was completely flummoxed and off balance. It was miraculous. Of course things escalated on his end as I got healthier and more balanced discarding and healing trauma after trauma. I got rolled financially in the divorce, but it never mattered because I got out alive, was free and continued to heal thanks to NARP.

This is such an outstanding program and I encourage anyone who is on the fence about using it to take the leap. You will be astounded at your positive development.

To this day, I still revisit Module #1 when there’s anything that’s upsetting the total joy and abundance I have in my life. ..which is rare, but things do bubble up.

All the best to each and every one of you… those on the fence, new and all of us oldies.
I would have never thought that I could reinvent myself at the age of 60, but here I am..5 years out and wouldn’t change a thing!

Lisa

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