Comments on: The Thriver’s Guide To Co-Parenting With A Narcissist https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-thrivers-guide-to-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 26 Jul 2023 10:20:03 +0000 hourly 1 By: Tareese https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-thrivers-guide-to-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/#comment-1281382 Thu, 22 Jun 2023 22:43:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7089#comment-1281382 In reply to Kate.

This is 2023 and you are me!

]]> By: Dj Gill https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-thrivers-guide-to-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/#comment-1250844 Mon, 05 Apr 2021 06:18:14 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7089#comment-1250844 Your the best ever . Thank you for all the hard work you do . It can get really confusing and scary with these broken souls but you help so well in putting things into a healthy perspective.
Thank you

]]> By: Rosalia Foy https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-thrivers-guide-to-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/#comment-1237047 Mon, 04 May 2020 08:17:51 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7089#comment-1237047 Wow could you have posted this at the most perfect time ever! Dealing with my ex who has reasonable visitation. I’m starting to realize with a narcissist there is no such thing as reasonable. LOL! If I don’t give into his demands I am the unreasonable one. For the sake of our son and his wishes I am trying to navigate dealing with his father. More often than not it is a completely draining experience, every time I communicate with him.

]]> By: Erica https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-thrivers-guide-to-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/#comment-1236009 Sun, 19 Apr 2020 02:48:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7089#comment-1236009 Hello dearest Melanie,

I want to start off by thanking you for your tremendously helpful resources. I have a four year old whom has zero recollection of his birth father. 75% of me does not feel like it’s my responsibility to expose my son to the troubling, problematic side of his Dad he has no idea even exist. The other 25% of my has been sulking in this secrecy for the last 4 years. I feel awful but he doesn’t care about my son. He has many children with many women and I’m just afraid to taint my 4 year old with the nasty reality of that. His father makes contact with me every 6 months by calling at odd hours of the night and sending me old images of when we were together. It sickens me because he’s in a relationship…. my question to you is what direction do I go? I’ve been very fearful of the whole court situation. As you can imagine he had quite a few child support arrangements already in place. I also am fearful that he will poison my son. I haven’t seen him in over 5 years and I’m still deeply affected by his presence… well in this case his absence.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-thrivers-guide-to-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/#comment-1232796 Sun, 23 Feb 2020 21:00:30 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7089#comment-1232796 In reply to Kate.

Hi Kate,

Sweetheart I am so sorry that you are going through this.

I want you to know with all of my heart, the profound breakthroughs are always the cusp of incredible breakthroughs, if you go within and do the powerful shift work.

Do you have the full NARP program http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ?

That is my fullest suggestion to you now.

To heal.this for real.

There is nothing else to do for you and your children, other than to lead the way.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💛

]]> By: Kate https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-thrivers-guide-to-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/#comment-1232759 Sat, 22 Feb 2020 08:34:30 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7089#comment-1232759 I’m so upset with myself. I’ve done some of the NARP work through your book and over the last year. I’ve been separated from my narc partner for 5 years. Our kids are now teen and pre-teen and I’m finding the teenage years tougher going with my ex. Late last year I stupidly did what I never should have and blasted my ex via email for the way she was treating our son and his belongings. She is now having a tantrum and has now cut off communication entirely, which is totally screwing with my ability to organise school admin for the kids and to share bills. I feel like crap and its so hard not to spill to the kids about all she’s done. They know she’s cut off all contact and I’ve admitted to them its because I said some stuff she didnt like. My son late last year asked to live at the her house more often as it let him see his school mates more since I live much further from the school (I’ve offered to move closer and my kids have asked me not to!). I ended up meeting him after school and said we had to agree something that was close to 50% of the time spent with me at least until he’s 18 and responsible for himself. I thought I had come so far and am now just miserable. Facing the thought of losing my kids hearts and them not seeing through the exs bullshit is driving me nuts tbh. I feel so lost and like I’m unravelling at the moment – and most of my friends just don’t get it so I’ve been pushing them away and trying to deal with this myself (feel like no-one is hearing my cries for help too). I hate how broken I feel, after doing so well (my mum got ill for over a year and died xmas 2019 which has truly set me back in so many ways too).

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-thrivers-guide-to-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/#comment-1203776 Mon, 02 Sep 2019 00:47:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7089#comment-1203776 Hi Carrie,

it is so true sweetheart that NARP is crucial for you being able to do ALL the steps.

When you get on a powerful, solid inner trajectory (as a result of losing and healing the trauma) it is THE game-changer.

It really is so true – when you don’t have TIME to do NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp, it is the TIME you need to do it the most – because it cuts out all the confusion, pain, dead-ends, repeat traumatizing events, and all the NOT being able to breakthrough.

And when you are the MOST resistant to doing NARP, and make excuses not to, is the TIME when you need to do it the most.

Everything CAN change when your Inner Being does.

Hun when you make NARP your first priority then you will see how powerful it is! Less thinking, and even LESS reading this article, and just go IN and do the NARP work. Okay?

You’ve got this!

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💛

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-thrivers-guide-to-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/#comment-1203471 Sat, 31 Aug 2019 07:43:50 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7089#comment-1203471 In reply to Phoenix.

Awww Phoenix,

Mwah and much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💛

]]> By: Phoenix https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-thrivers-guide-to-co-parenting-with-a-narcissist/#comment-1203403 Fri, 30 Aug 2019 13:41:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7089#comment-1203403 Thank you, lovely lady. You truly are a wonderful and giving person. I’m so grateful I found you and your work. Please never stop sharing. Much love to you and your loved ones too xx

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