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	Comments on: Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse Story #12 Abbe	</title>
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	<description>Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie&#039;s Narcissism blog offers support &#38; empowering tools to heal &#38; thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life &#38; fulfilling relationships.</description>
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		By: Clair		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Clair]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jul 2014 15:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I see a lot of interesting content on your website. You have to<br />
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		By: Abbe		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Feb 2014 02:10:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290426&quot;&gt;rk&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi rk,
Im not sure if posting a link will work but here it is
http://www.peninsulaholistic.com.au/

My doctors name is Cristina Cooper.

There are several holistic gps at this clinic. It can take a few weeks to get in, so worth it though!

Good Luck!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290426">rk</a>.</p>
<p>Hi rk,<br />
Im not sure if posting a link will work but here it is<br />
<a href="http://www.peninsulaholistic.com.au/" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.peninsulaholistic.com.au/</a></p>
<p>My doctors name is Cristina Cooper.</p>
<p>There are several holistic gps at this clinic. It can take a few weeks to get in, so worth it though!</p>
<p>Good Luck!!</p>
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		By: Abbe		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-292164</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Feb 2014 01:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290303&quot;&gt;Jane&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Jane,
Thank you! My best wishes for your journey too! :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290303">Jane</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Jane,<br />
Thank you! My best wishes for your journey too! 🙂</p>
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		By: Abbe		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-292163</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Feb 2014 01:53:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290019&quot;&gt;stephen&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Stephen,
I believe that by refusing to play their games it is we who take back control of our lives. It doesn&#039;t matter who does the leaving, all that matters is that you had the self love to want better for yourself!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290019">stephen</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Stephen,<br />
I believe that by refusing to play their games it is we who take back control of our lives. It doesn&#8217;t matter who does the leaving, all that matters is that you had the self love to want better for yourself!</p>
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		By: Abbe		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-292160</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Feb 2014 01:48:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-289933&quot;&gt;betty&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you for sharing Betty!
I love how this community supports each other while we learn to support ourselves. xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-289933">betty</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing Betty!<br />
I love how this community supports each other while we learn to support ourselves. xx</p>
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		By: Abbe		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-292158</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Feb 2014 01:45:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-289898&quot;&gt;Frances&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Frances,
Thank you for your kind words! 
I have to agree with Melanie that while telling him to leave is a positive first step, if you don&#039;t start doing the inner healing it is very likely you will take him back soon and the cycle will keep repeating.
Im not going to lie about how hard it is, ITS HARD! the Narp program has worked for so many and while it is hard you can get instant relief, you wont be instantly better but you will feel the benefit of choice. The choice to start living again! Good luck! xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-289898">Frances</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Frances,<br />
Thank you for your kind words!<br />
I have to agree with Melanie that while telling him to leave is a positive first step, if you don&#8217;t start doing the inner healing it is very likely you will take him back soon and the cycle will keep repeating.<br />
Im not going to lie about how hard it is, ITS HARD! the Narp program has worked for so many and while it is hard you can get instant relief, you wont be instantly better but you will feel the benefit of choice. The choice to start living again! Good luck! xx</p>
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		By: Quinton Edward		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Quinton Edward]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:04:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Mel and Abbe
Thank you for such an inspiring show and article. 
Abbe, I can so relate to many aspects of the story. Congratulations on your healing, I wish you to go from strength to strength. 
To Mel, your articles always come when needed. I was just starting to talk about and ponder over this topic since a few days ago.
I fully believe that the emotional manifests itself in the physical and that goes for the good and the bad feelings. So we really have to work on replacing those negative emotions in our lives with positive emotions.
I have also realized today, it was just a feeling that came over me, that those exercises of blessing and accepting the feeling and ascertaining where the hurt part is in the emotional body, is normally where the cancer or ailment or disease will strike because that is where the negative energy clogs up. No wonder there are people who work on forgiveness and gratitude exercises and processes and then in the process, release those wounds emotionally which results in the physical ailment going away too. After all, that was just a physical manifestation of what was going on inside.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mel and Abbe<br />
Thank you for such an inspiring show and article.<br />
Abbe, I can so relate to many aspects of the story. Congratulations on your healing, I wish you to go from strength to strength.<br />
To Mel, your articles always come when needed. I was just starting to talk about and ponder over this topic since a few days ago.<br />
I fully believe that the emotional manifests itself in the physical and that goes for the good and the bad feelings. So we really have to work on replacing those negative emotions in our lives with positive emotions.<br />
I have also realized today, it was just a feeling that came over me, that those exercises of blessing and accepting the feeling and ascertaining where the hurt part is in the emotional body, is normally where the cancer or ailment or disease will strike because that is where the negative energy clogs up. No wonder there are people who work on forgiveness and gratitude exercises and processes and then in the process, release those wounds emotionally which results in the physical ailment going away too. After all, that was just a physical manifestation of what was going on inside.</p>
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		By: Raeanne		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Raeanne]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2014 01:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290426&quot;&gt;rk&lt;/a&gt;.

Reiki really helped me.  That and the power of prayer.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290426">rk</a>.</p>
<p>Reiki really helped me.  That and the power of prayer.</p>
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		By: Raeanne		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290889</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Raeanne]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2014 01:18:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290799&quot;&gt;Michelle&lt;/a&gt;.

Oh my...I can relate. Research passive aggressive behavior too. People can be so twisted.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-12-abbe/#comment-290799">Michelle</a>.</p>
<p>Oh my&#8230;I can relate. Research passive aggressive behavior too. People can be so twisted.</p>
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