Comments on: Watch This Before Fighting A Narcissist In Court

By: Leonie

Leonie — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 01:18:09 +0000

In reply to Nancy Ramirez. How did it go? I'm due in court tomorrow again.

By: Shauna

Shauna — Thu, 10 Feb 2022 23:40:58 +0000

In reply to Rachel Scandura. yes, would love to connect as I have a 4 year old I'm continually trying to keep safe. This court process is just crazy, but I know I need to continue to fight for my son....

By: H

Sun, 27 Jun 2021 22:58:20 +0000

I’ve been through 3 court hearings with my narcissist. The first one, which he called me to court for in retaliation to me serving him, he didn’t even show up for. So it went ahead the next day. Well that was nothing more than theatre. He created a scene in the lobby, because his girlfriend was denied access to the courtroom, delaying the hearing by 15 mins, and when he finally came in, he was snotty and crying the entire time. I sat composed and said nothing. When the judge called him out for his unfounded claims against me in his affidavit, he became combative and argumentative with the judge. Why the judge didn’t hold him in contempt is beyond me. After the hearing his harassment towards me continued for 3 weeks until the next hearing. This time I was not silent, I stood my ground and put that barking dog on a leash when he tried to interrupt my statement, and he acted like a child stomping his feet and saying he was done, that I had won. As if being a father to your child is such a game. Childish behaviour, but I expected no less from him, as he loves to play victim to others and is a monster behind closed doors. After this court hearing, he demanded that I give him money for the time he did spend with our child, to which when I told him he wasn’t entitled , he wrote a lengthy letter full of slander and defamation towards me with false claims of disgusting accusations and said that once again I had won and that he was giving up his rights, because I was being difficult. Me difficult? I bent over backwards to allow him to have a relationship with our child, which I didn’t have to, I got him a home, so that he could have access, I gave him more money than he should have been given. And I got nothing but grief and drama. Found out that he manipulated his mother into believing I was this monster, and that he controlled how much access she would have with her grandchild and accused me of harassing her to get away with his control over her, cause he thought I wouldn’t contact her because I didn’t in the past but this time, I did. She was just as flabbergasted as I was with his accusation.

By: Hagfishes

Hagfishes — Thu, 13 May 2021 11:25:05 +0000

So, trick or treat? Anyone going around calling themselves a treasure or anything else grandiose is indeed a lurking nightmare.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 02 May 2021 22:45:17 +0000

In reply to M.

So so true M!

Bless you!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: M

Sat, 01 May 2021 08:22:23 +0000

Thank you Melanie! You are so right as always. In court my councel made sure he sat between us so I could ignore the pity play, the fake crying, the vitriol that he couldn’t help release because he couldn’t catch my eye. I said virtually nothing and the judge saw it all! Lose the fear and they are powerless x

By: havdvhy@yahoo.com

havdvhy@yahoo.com — Mon, 04 Jan 2021 17:45:59 +0000

They do in fact melt down in court and as a result of their delusional entitlement, reveal themselves to be immature and just laughable.

By: JENNIFER BENNER

JENNIFER BENNER — Tue, 08 Dec 2020 06:20:16 +0000

Unfortunately, I did not have the benefit of this information before going to court and my ex narcissist took everything he could. I am a public school teacher and am paying alimony for life, my retirement, my sick days, my vacation days, my life insurance, my death annuity, my supplemental account 68k payment to him to cover his lawyer fees and buy out of the house I purchased as my property in the first place, and 50/50 custody of the dog. Of course he takes zero responsibility and states he was doing what his lawyer told him to do and I had it coming.
My question for the Thriver Community is how do you recover from such a life sentence? It never goes away. I am an indentured servant for life without any recourse. I understand the premise of healing from within, but how do you do that when you are paying the very person who abused you then discarded you for the rest of your life?

By: Rachel Scandura

Rachel Scandura — Sat, 21 Nov 2020 13:54:01 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Thank you Melanie!
Love to you snd your son and family,
Rachel